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Are there men out there that prefer or like voluptuous women?

March 06 2022

I once had a guy say to me that men don't like fat chick's. Is this true? This comment sent me on a downward spiral. So I got "skinny" and noone wanted me then either. We may not look the same in lingerie but we can still be sexy.

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    4 years ago

    People say hurtful things. Some like skinny, some like plump. Most don't like trans but no shortage here. Run your own race, be who you want to be not who someone else wants you to be.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Everybody has preferences regardless of your appearance. Just be yourself and confident, that is what attracts most people.

  • sw1ng3rz

    sw1ng3rz

    4 years ago

    We haven’t had much luck to be honest. I’m always very open and honest with being a fuller figured woman. We get lots of ghostings and being stood up. I guess we are most peoples “plan B “ if not lower. I’m sure there are men that do, we haven’t come across many yet. Completely agree with Annie, be your natural true self. Mrs sw1ng3rz

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    I’m sorry you had such negative hurtful comments said to you . Was this particular man a Brad Pitt look alike ? I doubt it . It’s nasty and so unnecessary. It’s often difficult to bounce back after such negativity. Everyone finds different things attractive . I’m tall and curvy , I’m far from being everyone’s cup of tea . We can’t help what we find attractive . I know it’s difficult but being comfortable in your own skin , wearing a big smile and positive attitude go a long way to attract people . Good luck . Ax

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Nobody can say they speak for everyone. So a man saying "all men" is a load of crap.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I don’t mind curvy at all!

  • Funtommy1970

    Funtommy1970

    4 years ago

    I am agree with willowtree, those that say such things probably have a bucket full full of their own issues. Having looked at your profiles, ladies you are all gorgeous and would love to meet everyone of you

  • blix_and_queen

    blix_and_queen

    4 years ago

    We sure do.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Size makes no difference to me It’s all about the person if she is happy then that’s all that matters

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Women can be hot from 'skinny' through 'fat chick'. Curves of a lady that's bigger are very much appreciated by many men (I'm on that list). The very common term BBW is rarely used as an insult.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    That comment directly to you is innappropriate, insensitive and disrespectful. Either way, people don’t need to inform others about their weight or shame them, unless they bring it up. Guys need to stop asking/discussing women's bodies and women need to stop constantly complaining about their bodies. Sexy is a matter of the mind. Confidence is Sexy. Sexy, is a really beautiful thing! Ms Foxy

  • 2EssesExploring

    2EssesExploring

    4 years ago

    I used to have a “type” of look that I was attracted to, then I fell in love with someone who shared little features with this type. Was the best thing that ever happened to me. I find more people so much more attractive now as it’s the flint in their eyes, the mutual flirtation and chemistry that gets me going now. Lucky for me as my Brad Pitt looks are long gone 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Someone will always find you sexy. Whatever body shape you have. I'm a fatty & get a bit of positive attention. Never positive when I was the fat kid, but now I'm the FULL WOMAN, it's a whole different vibe. Just be confident. THAT is sexy.

  • squrting

    squrting

    4 years ago

    No matter how big or small you are just As long as the ladies are confident in their own skin that’s what will blow your mind and make sure you make them feel sexy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I prefer and love a real woman, one with meat on her j by ones

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    4 years ago

    Never going to please every man out there. In fact, don't even try to. Some like skinny, some like average, some like voluptuous. Some like an attractive mind, and don't much care about the physical package it comes in. The only person whose opinion you have to worry about is your own. If you are comfortable in your own skin, you will be confident and sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Curvy, BBW, voluptuous, cudfly women are hot. If there is any looking here I am lol. I'm 5'4" and cute. On the flip side quite a few women like tall, not much I can do to change that 😂

  • MissyT

    MissyT

    4 years ago

    Whoever said that was an arse.

  • 2ofusforawoman

    2ofusforawoman

    4 years ago

    The mind and personality is the best turn on lol

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    4 years ago

    Whoever said that was just being a prick. There are lots of men that love fat chicks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Yes there are

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love curvy and cuddly. Not into overly large but each to their own. Be happy with who you are.

  • redhotrookie

    redhotrookie

    4 years ago

    I love curvy voluptuous women . Beautiful sexy women to hold onto ! Yes please

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    It’s not just women that get this kind of treatment. I commented in another forum post that I had messaged a lady in here who commented back “go to the gym daily for about 6 months.” So it happens and you have to remind your self that is just this person and if that’s their opinion and how they think then they too are not what your looking for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Nothing better than a curvey sexy lady they are such a turn on .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I'm a curvey lady and haven't had an issue I'm up front they can either take it or leave it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Its definately not true. I think there would be 5-10% of guys who think that a woman with a Barbie doll figure is all they want, and wouldn't settle for anything less.. well fool them.. that does not mean that , that same Barbie doll figured woman has a great persona, a sexy voice, easy going , full of fun, has bedroom eyes, goes off in bed , likes to do different things in bed, knows how to please a man in bed, or actually does anything good at all for that matter.. if that's what that guy said to you , he is shallow and wrong and just put down 50% at least of all my sexual experiences. Everything else that I mentioned above is more important to connect in bed that a figure of a girl.. I know I'm right !! There are some dickheads in this world . Don't believe his words

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love Curvy Voluptuous Women.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    When I was over weight, I assumed they were telling me what they thought I wanted to hear. But since losing weight, I lost their attention, and the only people they date are bigger shape women. These guys were fit as fuck, I always assumed they wanted the same. I should have listened to them and accepted their compliments. They were genuine. All the issues were in my head, were with my body, they never had such issues.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    That's bullshit I love curvy women myself

  • Brisbloke4006

    Brisbloke4006

    4 years ago

    I prefer women who are healthy and happy in their own skin - confidence is very sexy

  • WildWest1971

    WildWest1971

    4 years ago

    It’s all about the shape like a fine yacht or car same with the female figure. Some shapes appeal to some and not to others.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    My preference is definitely for larger ladies, the bigger the better

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Wow whoever made that comment to you sounds like a real winner…not!! I like a woman who is curvy or voluptuous as much as a “skinny” woman. Really it’s just about the right chemistry

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    They don't speak for me. I like a cuddly woman. I'm cuddly myself. Nationality, size and looks are irrelevant as far as I'm concerned. I only need a connection.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I have friends that would rather have a cubby curvy chic then skinny the reason the say it chubby chick feels really nice and is way better to hug and snuggle up to more meaty warmer and feel they are hugging something .the boys that love chubby Chics say chubby chick can handle being pounded alot harder better to hold on to chubby chic ass and pussy have more meaty and cushioning and meaty to bounce on to. As for Skinnygirl they feel freigle and can be snap in two pieces and they feel like just skin and bones and not much to hug and hold on to the skinny chick ass and pussy are way to boney and some cre painfull and hurt the boys pelvic area they just don't feel solid enough like chubby chick. 🙂😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Sexy is all about attitude IMO. A perfect sized model with an inhibited megative attitude towards sex is a turn off for me. Give me a curvy sex positive uninhibited gal any day!

  • Laria

    Laria

    4 years ago

    I’m sorry that you have had a very bad experience with someone who did not like curvy women. And yes there are plenty of men who love curvy and voluptuous women. And I’m one of them. Don’t let one or even a few bad experiences cloud your judgment of all men. Because not all men are like that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    There's never any shortage of idiots saying stupid things, just remember that they are idiots The hottest sexiest girl I currently know is a BBW, extremely passionate and sensual as well as delightful company when we aren't playing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Yes yes yes yes,I find voluptuous women absolutely amazing,I find great pleasure in having a bigger ladies thighs being wrapped around my face

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I can’t speak for all men.. but, I love and adore curvy women! They are super attractive to me! 🥰🔥🤙🏾

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Curvy all the way 👌❤️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Well I think you look totally amazing. Would love to suit up, buy you dinner, flirt and kiss your neck beautiful. Don’t change a thing.💙

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Men absolutely do love us curvy girls. Time for you to embrace your beauty and be kind to yourself xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Heel yeah luv every dit 😘😘😘 sexy as

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Too many shallow guys out there still, sexy isn't a body type, sexy is an attitude. Stay beautiful girl 💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I find a bigger lady more sexy then skiny lady's, I do love a real mum body with stretch marks,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Fashion is fickle, flesh is good

  • playingwithfire

    playingwithfire

    4 years ago

    Depends on your definition of voluptuous. There’s a difference between healthy & unhealthy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    BBW are they biggest turn on today

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Nothing at all wrong with your body, it's hot. People say hurtful stuff but in all honesty, he probably didn't have the adequate tool for the job

  • Sublime47

    Sublime47

    4 years ago

    It’s so not true at all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I personally love Plump ladies . More to cuddle and love 🤗 🥰 .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love chucky women

  • MrRads

    MrRads

    4 years ago

    Whoever that guy was is a total idiot and doesn't know what he's talking about. As for me I prefer a curvier bigger woman over a thin woman any day. But I don't discriminate and I think all women are beautiful and sexy in their own way. No matter how big or small, fat or thin or what colour there skin is

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Oh yes!! The more weight I lost, the more men disappeared. I thought they were being polite, but they really did love me as I was.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I would have gone all Will Smith on him for that comment!

  • Cutetradie415

    Cutetradie415

    4 years ago

    Yes sassy there are men who like voluptuous women and with only date them

  • youngsyd_cpl

    youngsyd_cpl

    4 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Hi the first thing i look for in a woman is her smile size dosnt come into it all weman are hot when they are horny

  • squrting

    squrting

    4 years ago

    Every ladies are beautiful just as long as they are confident and comfortable in there own skin 👌🏽

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I prefer a cuddly lady. Ive always had this fear from a young age I would break a thin ladies pelvis. I'm not a large guy. We're all different but built with the same body parts I'm not physically attractive but I can't change that Websites are visual By the way your pics look fabulous

  • 12FITU

    12FITU

    4 years ago

    Size does not matter, it's about the personality and the connection that is made.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Had a partner who was a model on covers of national Magazine and also had bigger girls . It’s the attitude in bed that makes good sex. Both are different and amazing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    My partner and I aren’t beach bodies by any means, we had had multiple people knocking us back because of our cuddly appearance. What ever happened to more cushion for the pushin

  • TandA18

    TandA18

    4 years ago

    Personally, I much prefer a curvy woman over a stick figure. Much more sexier!

  • ItsMandT

    ItsMandT

    4 years ago

    It’s all about the confidence! My husband and I are both attracted to many different sizes and sexual confidence is definitely one of the things that can make any size and shape sexy.

  • FunwithSandS

    FunwithSandS

    4 years ago

    Hi there ;) I’m actually breaking a hiatus in here to come and post, because this struck a chord. Whoever said that to you is a straight up clown. As many have said in here, sexy is very much a state of mind and if he can’t see that, I’d say you have dodged quite the bullet. Please rest assured that there are many men in here who would be very keen to meet you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Everyone has a choice. We all are attracted to a certain physical and mental type. I myself like a woman who looks after herself. Not to skinny not to overweight with nice hourglass figure. Someone femanine. Who enjoys good humour and banter and is wityy. Those are my turn ons

  • 4GEvents

    4GEvents

    4 years ago

    In my experience conducting events larger ladies have no trouble having fun. Larger men on the other hand usually don’t get a look in. It is what it is. The swinging world is extremely superficial and with online options available people simply pick what they like from the menu, which usually means superfit, super attractive. Theres only so many of these to go round though (and they usually tend to clique up anyhow). So just be you. Don’t change for others. There’ll be a new flavour in 3 months time anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    A real man don't shy away from a sex beautiful woman. Lol that was a boy who don't know what he doin obviously, who don't know how to put in work, or simply put couldn't and wouldn't know to handle a BBW.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I think the whole "men don't like fat chicks" is one of those pernicious social narratives that is really untrue and yet also really true in that; a lot of people buy into it and society promotes it despite the fact that it really isn't the case at all for a lot of men. Personally; I love women of all different shapes and sizes. I just find lots of different bodies attractive. But I definitely find myself being really into what I supoose a lot of people would call "curvy" and "big" women. Just something extra hot about a larger lady.

  • nightrain13

    nightrain13

    4 years ago

    Definitely

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Peppermints are dopeq

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Absolutely adore curvy women ❤️

  • rwp9969

    rwp9969

    4 years ago

    Not true at all... the best sex I have had has been with girls who consider themselves curve or BBW... call me ! Lingerie is window dressing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I work on a case by case basis - there are many larger women that I find attractive - and some I don't - and I can say the same for slim women too. Good personal hygiene is essential but a nice personality and a wicked imagination will do it for me every time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Just be yourself I love fat chicks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Bigger girls are better so much more to love ^v^ I am proof that yes, men do like bigger, softer girls just keep this in mind "If it exists, someone in the world loves it" So you do you, you're beautiful just the way you are <3

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    For me there is nothing sexier than a larger woman, without a doubt in my mind, far more sexual than skinny women

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Yes my vote for larger woman,they are so sexy.Must be a city thing because us country boys love our larger ladies.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    You look fantastic in your lingerie some men are just crazy

  • TightyWhities1

    TightyWhities1

    4 years ago

    It's not true, Guys like bigger women and when coupled with voluptuousness, you'll have to beat them off with a stick...:)