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Are there any real bulls in Brisbane?
May 22 2018
I've come across many profile's and people that claim to be, but are you REALLY? Being the bull in a cuckold relationship is not just about fucking some guys wife. Its a spoken about and agreed upon arrangement where everyone has a different role to play, and it is crucial you have respect for all people involved and understand your position in the now three way relationship.
Everyone's ideas and the way a situation like this is perceived can be quite different, but I want to share a small part of my husband & I'd ideal scenario...I'd love to hear anyone's thoughts, your experiences, and, if you're interested! š I'd love to hear more...
Here's a snip from a blog Ive been reading that sums it up quickly:
As the Bull, your goal is to ultimately become the wife's primary sex partner and replace the husband in the bedroom. Don't feel bad about it. They want it every bit as much as you do, or they wouldn't have entered into the relationship in the first place. Spicing up their sex life by introducing you to their bed is for everyone's benefit.
Many couples enjoy some level of sexual denial for the husband. Some enjoy limiting intercourse between themselves for several days before the wife plans to meet with the Bull. Others go so far as limiting the husband to handjobs, blowjobs, etc., during the entire time that the wife is seeing another man.
This can be a fun area for the Bull to participate, perhaps demanding that the wife refrain from fucking her husband before their dates, etc. The Bull may even get enjoyment from voicing his demands to the husband in the wifeās presence (i.e., I donāt want you fucking her until I do her Friday night).
The idea of the Bull becoming the sole sexual partner of the wife can be fun to explore, and itās a core theme in almost all Hotwife-cuckold relationships, with many choosing for the Bull to become her sole āintercourseā partner.
Our ideals are always someone that would be seen as quite attractive, taller than my husband, packing a serious package and is rough in sheets. The bull own the wife, the cuck is at the bottom of the chain. The idea is to be completely satisfied and annihilated at the same time. Stamina is also god damn helpful š
Sass xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
With all the info..........Come to the QLD meet and greet and try to find one.
FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
Sure, cuckold may be a genuine fetish for a very small minority of couple's relationships, but seriously do you think it's true that "Many couples enjoy some level of sexual denial for the husband".
Screw that! We are in this 100% together and on equal terms.
These articles about cuckold are designed to get the single guys excited about their fantasies to screw other guys' wives!
- Posted from rhpmobile
youngsyd_cpl
7 years ago
Quoting 'FredAndGinger2'
Sure, cuckold may be a genuine fetish for a very small minority of couple's relationships, but seriously do you think it's true that "Many couples enjoy some level of sexual denial for the husband".
Screw that! We are in this 100% together and on equal terms.
These articles about cuckold are designed to get the single guys excited about their fantasies to screw other guys' wives!
- Posted from rhpmobile
You'd be very surprised how popular this fantasy is FredAndGinger. It might not be for you, but we know of many couples that are very much into this. A lot of couples don't discuss it for fear of Judgement, so lets keep an open mind on what people are into.
Absoluthunk
7 years ago
Quoting 'youngsyd_cpl'
You'd be very surprised how popular this fantasy is FredAndGinger. It might not be for you, but we know of many couples that are very much into this. A lot of couples don't discuss it for fear of Judgement, so lets keep an open mind on what people are into.
Youngsyd is correct. You'd be very surprised.RHP User
7 years ago
As I said, everyone's ideas and perceptions are different, and you don't have to agree with what is written. I'm not saying it's not on equal terms, our relationship is still number one, it's the sexual dynamics that are changed up. Keep in mind the article doesn't say EVERY couple, it says many. A cuckold scenario different to a couple just swinging whether together or seperately. There are many takes on how all of these types of relationships work, which is fun & interesting, and this is just one of them, that's all! š appreciate your input either way FredandGinger š x
- Posted from rhpmobile
FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Have to agree with FredandGinger on this one. Whilst there are some that enjoy the pleasure denial and humiliation that can be associated with true cuckold couples; not all and not alot would. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I'm jealous Shell! Thanks š
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Yes, I have been the Bull in a cuckold marriage.
It requires trust,respect and understanding.
As well as what the couple's needs,wants and desires are.
It can be complicated because as Bull you are physically satisfying the wife, while mentally stimulating/satisfying the husband.
It's not for everyone..
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Message me whenever u in need...
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I would love to be a Bull in a relationship
Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Well...... that has certainly shaken the nut tree....
..... Iām sure youāll have plenty of them fall out in you
š
egr2please69
7 years ago
Wow Fred and Ginger. I have been an occasional commenter in the forums and avid reader but i'm starting to think that anything outside of what you two think is normal is ammunition for you to be distasteful or downright mean. I have no interest or want to be involved in a cuckold relationship but that doesn't give me the right to dismiss someone elses opinion about something that they want in their life. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but if you continually feel the urge to be negative to everyone elses questions or opinions because its 'not your thing' then maybe you should just read the thread instead of commenting.
Sassy, good luck in your search young lady. You obviously know what you and your partner like and are chasing so i hope this can help you in your quest. As Gr8distraction said, get yourself to the QLD meet and greet, you never know your luck and find your Bull there. Take care and best wishes in your quest for happiness š
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
...a lot of self-professed "bulls" are simply guys thinking it is an easy route for sex with the wife.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
For a few couples now but never what you describe as a bull. Always keep an open mind though! Does the bull training course take long?
RHP User
7 years ago
But it's a bit like guys saying they're Doms because of FSoG. Better to be referred with a tested product than a self rated one... Message me.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Quote SassyT
āThe idea of the Bull becoming the sole sexual partner of the wife can be fun to explore, and itās a core theme in almost all Hotwife-cuckold relationships, with many choosing for the Bull to become her sole āintercourseā partner.
Iād have to agree with some other comments that this is misleading. It may be true about cuckold relationships (Shells - good to hear from you), but not remotely relevant in a hotwifing scenario. They are two very different dynamics.
Weāve done a fair amount of Hotwife play and the extra guy is not dominant in any way. The dominance sits with the wide initially and then the husband during the reclamation. Mr third wheel gets to have fun with someone elseās wife so itās a win-win-win situation if done right.
Hothusband scenario doesnāt happen anywhere near as often but that ends up well too ;)
Mr D
- Posted from rhpmobile
Moxters
7 years ago
RHP User
7 years ago
this post has made me feel much for comfortable in my own desires
i have not yet been with a cuck couple (that im aware of)
i knew it was something within my interests, but the degradation seen in cuck porn can be quite extreme so thats kinda kept me from throwing myself at it
my entire sexual life has been about satisfying her better than anyone else can
i grew up on media and frustrated housewives always complaining about how useless their men are
i was determined to defeat those views from a young age
i would feel guilty when with couples about showing up her man and id hold back
so id focus on making sure he (for those that watch) got a good show until he would join in, for those 30 seconds
then it was back to me to satisfy her
when really i should have accepted my desires to own her through her satisfaction and not worry about himRHP User
7 years ago
Bull here for any couples interested
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Apply via msg
- Posted from rhpmobile
MrCeltic91
6 years ago
Hey there everyone
Brisbane based Bull here, just wanted to say a real bull will take the time to do the research on what he needs to bring to the relationship.RHP User
6 years ago
Available Bull in Brisbane.
Msg for more.
MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Want to know too.
Ms FoxyMrCeltic91
5 years ago
Hi Ms Foxy
There definitely are legitimate Bulls out there, although It can be hard to find them. A real Bulls goal is to become the on going boyfriend of the hotwife.RHP User
5 years ago
Would love to find a guy more hung than hubby in Brisbane, but love watching him play too ;)
brisbanebull1
5 years ago
In the
Brisbane scene, being a smaller community, it is sometimes difficult to find
the right match when it comes to the cuck/bull dynamics. Too many guys who are
looking for quick fucks unfortunately, who create a bad rap for the genuine
bulls out there or as you've said don't understand all aspects of the
relationship.
Having
said that, I have had met a few great cuckhold couples whom I've enjoyed being
the bull for. I always focus on having great conversations, experiences, dates,
dirty chats and spontaneous rendezvous. The power dynamics need to be
constantly enforced. In fact on some occasions, Iāve taken the hot wife away on
a getaway to demonstrate the nature of the power play. In my opinion, these the
things that establish the bullās supremacy and status as the primary/superior partner
in the relationship. I find, this leads to long, hot sex sessions and a great
experience for all involved.
Getting
back to the topic title, there are certainly real bulls in Brisbane who
understand the entire dynamics and are willing to invest time and effort. If
anyone is still looking for a genuine bull, who understands the dynamics of a cuckhold
relationship and is available for the longer term, feel free to message me. I
will attempt to restore your faith in Brisbane bulls :-P.RHP User
5 years ago
will be in bris late march
RHP User
5 years ago
I'd like to say I fit the bull mode
RHP User
5 years ago
Might not be the norm but as a single I had a few offers to be the bull.
If you don't respect both male and female that invite you to their world it won't work.Sawadee
5 years ago
It's my belief its a cuckold relationship the gets off on being humiliated ? That's not the way l know it ..
On the few occassions l got to play , once as the invited and the other with a invited bull for my lovely wife., it had nothing at all to do with humiliation whatsoever. ? On both occassions it was to add spice to both relationships looking for something different. And on both occassions it was respectfull interaction to all involved.. No humiliation .. if anything ' a hotwife experience...RHP User
5 years ago
Yes there are many... I guess..but not all are into meetups..
But I m only into meetups not online stuff at all
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