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Are small penis guys on average more submissive
December 18 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think a persons dominant/submissive nature has nothing to do with appendage size.... I think cocky is more apt in this instance ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would say yes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just like to lay back , think of England, and let the woman sit on my enormous cock and do all the work. Goes that make me dominant?No.......I'm just a lazy,arrogant prick!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its all in the head, you know the one between the shoulders. Most guys really have no clue if they are big or small between the legs. Many big guys think they are small, and many small guys think they are big. For the most part of our lives the size of our dick has no bearing on what is happening, and how it could make you more dominate, i have no idea..
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
Penis size has got nothing to do with masculinity , being dominant nor submissive. Testosterone levels pretty much govern sex drive , masculinity etc, and these are produced in the testes. The size of the penis is also no guarantee that the man concerned will be good in bed. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've personally not encountered men being more submissive or dominant based on the size or their cocks. My ex had a big cock AND he was a huge dick. Don't think the two were related though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like control and to watch her orgasm or squirt big anddon't even use my cock for that until later.I also like watching her enjoy the fine line between pleasure and painbut still don't use my cock.Love a sub who gives of herself be it heart or body and I also like cuddles plus affection and fuck her hard for that.At no time does size count but some women do have a fantasy to be fucked by a real huge cock that's when I use my fuck machine.The dildo on that is 10 inches long and girth of a tennis ball and that gets rid of that fantasy when they find it hard to walk after. LMAO......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wouldn't know....... (says DG, trying hard not to tread on the end of his penis) hahahaha
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RHP User
10 years ago
On my average, I'd say no correlation.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Very large cocks in my experience have a very full on driver behind them, no question at all that is a big factor. But it depends on physical condition, if they have a hot and tight body/supremely fit, good looks, and a big dick, the confidence, pride and physical all combined usually mean they're gonna nail ya, and nail ta good 😯😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nail ya good I meant
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lol yes but did you mourn more for his dick or him 😁😁 neither I suspect 😯😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ummm, I think small cock guys are more submissive, umm, no, wait....What? Oh, ok, Umm, I'll just go along with whatever you say ok? Yes, I'll just sit here quietly now. Umm, Sorry for bothering you. Sorry.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I've personally not encountered men being more submissive or dominant based on the size or their cocks. My ex had a big cock AND he was a huge dick. Don't think the two were related though. LOL this made me *guffaw* :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
..but when I really thought about it ' realised I wouldn't have a clue.? I've got no idea how other guys go about things wether submissive or Dom ? All I know is how I go.. and that depends on how I feel on the day .. Some days when I'm feeling super horny I take charge and guide her where other days I might just lay back and let her have her wicked way with me.. I think this one is for the ladies to debate...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are just always so grateful to find a woman with an accommodating vahhhgina...men with small dicks are always anxious to please in sooo many other ways 😝😝😝😝😝xxFreya...this post was brought to you by Freya's sense of humour and is not necessarily the opinion of Freya xx😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
Actually there is a lot of truth in that statement. For example, the best pussy lickers IMHE (in my humble experience lol though probably not very humble). Both types of encounters are awesome, but very different 😯😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
I meant to say the best pussy lickers IMHE didn't have big dicks. Did I care? Hell no 😉😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think sometimes I could be dominant in the right situation with the right person, other times I could be submissive and be taken advantage of (I wish). Then again the size of my cock does vary in length from small to not so small.......... (depending on mood and temperature)
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are growers and showers 😜xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's like saying that women with bigger (insert body part here) are more likely to be (insert personality characteristic here). It's not an equivalency thing - your genes gave you X measurements, therefore you're more likely to be top/bottom in any given relationship. I think a person's inclination to submission or domination is far more complex than a ruler measurement. And on a somewhat related, if tangential, note - my pet peeve in posts/ profiles which refer to BDSM topics or interests? The misuse of the words dominant and dominate. One is a verb, the other an adjective. I won't pay out on individuals who misuse them, as I often think it's unintentional, and I'm not grammar Nazi enough to publicly flay you for it (unless you ask me very nicely) but it's totally like nails down a chalkboard to me. DG, you poor thing, dealing with such a personality-defining member. I hope you didn't cause too much damage.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not at all. In fact, some larger lads are quite submissive and some smaller lads are quite dominant.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What big feet mean to you op lmfao :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
im starting to wonder if chev ever gets his cock in ,,,,,???
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RHP User
10 years ago
is nobody ever allowed to use generalities anymore? the OP said "on average", if you were going to get all antsy about the post, perhaps you'd have argued that median made more sense than average, but geez. I'd say not more submissive, but perhaps less dominant than others in a group situation.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm wondering if everyone understands what the role of a GOOD Dom or Domme is and the reward that's in it for the submissive and if dick size matters why are there Domme and Submissive women? Complete submission is enormously empowering for the sub. They have a safe word that trumps everything. A dominant is a protector, enabler, provider of physical, mental and emotional needs sometimes 24/7. None of this is dick size it's instinctive behaviour. The great majority of sexual activity doesn't involve his dick, orgasm denial, spanking, flogging, hot wax, restraints, nipple play, forced orgasms etc at much better performed by other means than his dick. Nothing beats being heavily restrained, gagged, collared tight and having a Hitachi massager held against your pussy while getting your breasts and nipples flogged or smacked with a crop to force repeated or continuous orgasms so dick play has nothing to do with it. Does a guy think differently with a big dick? Not in BDSM or D&S circles he doesn't but in the mostly vanilla world of RHP he might. That would only be in a sense of meeting the requirements of what's stated in profiles of women that have probably never experienced sex outside of vanilla. Yes one of those rare scenarios where the dick is independent of the mans brain. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You know what they say about big feet? . . . Big socks lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
A good Dom to me would be one who didn't need 'apparatus', but one who uses control, tease and mind control. I know one such person, oh and he has a big dick lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'TwoPlayful' You know what they say about big feet? . . . Big socks lol what about the people who wear those individual toe socks? :p Rugged: but being dominant/submissive isn't just restricted to BDSM, I'd argue that the number of big dicked dominant people and little dicked sub folk in the BDSM world might be significant in influencing personality proportions in that small community, but relative to the population in general it's a drop in the ocean.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Every time a penis size topic comes on, I love it, reach for the popcorn 😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Every time a penis size topic comes on, I love it, reach for the popcorn 😁 watching the argument, or daydreaming about the cocks? ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wasn't about bdsm. I read it to be just about someone's sexual nature in general. And in which case, I would disagree. I'm a smaller guy in body and proportionally built so to speak. But that doesn't stop the mind from knowing what turns someone on. What I mean is that kiss on the neck, breath behind an ear, slow seduction and intimate pleasure, together, once you arrive at that point. Dominance is as simple as taking the lead, making the moves and taking things where she is comfortable to go, without her asking, letting her enjoy your passion for her and what she wants, trusting and knowing that she is your focus and taking her at your pace to the heights she dreams of. Toys, while fun at times, are unnecessary, use what you have. Whether she just lets you take the lead, or whether she resists and tries to take over, one can be dominant enough to keep her at bay, because if she takes over you know she will blow your mind in the next 30 seconds. But you want her to have it all, again and again, so you resist temptation, throw her back on the bed again and hold her wrists above her head with one of your hands, leaving your other hand, tongue, lips and other areas to move about freely, dominate and deliver many kinds of pleasure. Control is the key. Controlling yourself by controlling how you deliver her. And that delivery is slow but calculated, accurate and timely, in a variety of ways. She will desire to pay back the pleasure she has already received once, twice or more, but you hold strong and press her shoulders back against the bed and deliver again until she is exhausted. Dominance is about the mind, knowing your body and the genuine instinct of wanting control with the sole intention of the pleasure of your partner, and nothing more.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah i'm a daydreamer mmm yum 😁😁👌
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cccouple8
10 years ago
does not equal causation. but confidence probably plays a vital role. If you are constantly hearing you have a big jimmy that would help with confidence whereas if you shyed away from the donkeys in the locker room you probably lack good self-esteem.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I prefer an average size always...nicer to blow and for anal. I LOVE giving BJs so the less chance it will choke me the better
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Dryphuz
10 years ago
you're more likely to find a correlation between what guys do for a living. People in positions of power in their work life tend to the submissive in the bedroom, while those who work in menial jobs tend to the dominant.Its all about feeling powerful or not, one somewhat makes up for the other. Thats why 50 shades seemed wrong to me. But all that said... generalities and whatnot...
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Service_man
10 years ago
Does Huge balls mean that the man has more testosterone and therefore more dominant. Bullshit!!! Does Girth matter most? Most men who portray dominance in my experience are small men suffering from small men syndrome and have to try and prove themselves. However I only can with with --please be gentle as feedback LOL
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Service_man
10 years ago
Quoting 'RuggedlyRugged' I'm wondering if everyone understands what the role of a GOOD Dom or Domme is and the reward that's in it for the submissive and if dick size matters why are there Domme and Submissive women? Complete submission is enormously empowering for the sub. They have a safe word that trumps everything. A dominant is a protector, enabler, provider of physical, mental and emotional needs sometimes 24/7. None of this is dick size it's instinctive behaviour. The great majority of sexual activity doesn't involve his dick, orgasm denial, spanking, flogging, hot wax, restraints, nipple play, forced orgasms etc at much better performed by other means than his dick. Nothing beats being heavily restrained, gagged, collared tight and having a Hitachi massager held against your pussy while getting your breasts and nipples flogged or smacked with a crop to force repeated or continuous orgasms so dick play has nothing to do with it. Does a guy think differently with a big dick? Not in BDSM or D&S circles he doesn't but in the mostly vanilla world of RHP he might. That would only be in a sense of meeting the requirements of what's stated in profiles of women that have probably never experienced sex outside of vanilla. Yes one of those rare scenarios where the dick is independent of the mans brain. - Posted from rhpmobile I find it strange for a respectable woman to be degarded to that level and claim to enjoy it. What kind of upbringing would allow her to be abused that much?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Leon888' I find it strange for a respectable woman to be degarded to that level and claim to enjoy it. What kind of upbringing would allow her to be abused that much? You may not have been exposed much to the concepts of BDSM, but there is a huge difference between mutually consensual BDSM and abuse. It's also wrong and rather offensive to suggest that people who enjoy BDSM have had something wrong in their upbringing. In fact, it has been shown recently that people who practice BDSM are often mentally healthier than people who engage in 'vanilla' sex only.
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