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Are men capable of not cheating??
April 03 2024
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MsSuperFoxy
a year ago
Absolutely they can and so can women in FF committed relationships.
It's not always men who cheat on their partners, women do too.
Let's make it clear, if a person wants to cheat on their partners, they will choose too.
There's many reasons why a person cheats. It's not always black and white.
Ms Foxy
Andrea_Sydney
a year ago
According to surveys and research men and women cheat the same numbers. They apparently cheat at different times in their relationships and for different reasons. But it’s not a gender thing.
I guess also depends what you perceive as cheating.
Flirty2020
a year ago
Of course they can.
We have been married for 26 years and my husband has never cheated on me. He knows and understands that it would not be worth jeopardising our marriage & life together, for a few moments of pleasure. I feel the same.RHP User
a year ago
Are woman capable of not cheating? Is it possible??
FeistyFatty
a year ago
Don't get it twisted.... Women cheat just as much as men do.
boobsandbusted
a year ago
For sure ,in two marriages ,before we stepped into the lifestyle 10 years into the second one ,I had plenty of chances with nice women and the thought never crossed my mind ,it was Mrs b that floated the bi sexual idea ,for her to look into , me ,I was happy and comfortable with just her and if swinging stopped but we kept our friends as friends I’d be equally just as happy with that , ok maybe not quite as ,but I’d deal with it , lol
Mr bRHP User
a year ago
I'll put the question out for opinion, when couple swing with each other and they swap partners is that cheating ? some may say no as it is permitted, but are the promises of dedication broken from marriage ? love to hear some thoughts.
RHP User
a year ago
Thank you guys for the replies. I ask this question because personally I have never cheated I could never even bring myself close to it to me when your with someone you don't even want to go elsewhere... BUT... I have also never been in a relationship where a man has been loyal to me and me alone and if course the insecurities start to creep in... Why aren't I ever enough??... I've actually got to the stage now where I almost expect it because it's all I've ever known 😔
RHP User
a year ago
I was in a long monogamous marriage and never cheated. After about a year of separation, my ex and I were having a few drinks. We both commented that it was like we had a big sign on our heads that said SINGLE. We agreed it was that we were suddenly open to opportunities that we just didn’t see before. She had a guy hit on her at the airport and gave him her number for a date. I had women I knew through work ask me for a drink as obviously the word was out I was single.
So whether you are a man or a woman the opportunities are there if you want them.
I also add I was working in corporate life then. Office affairs were common. Especially by executives. At one very large well known company all bar one of the senior executives including the CEO were having office affairs. Half left their wives for the girlfriend.RHP User
a year ago
Alexis & MsSuperFoxy, thanks for your explanation on my query, you made my query quite clear and I appreciate that, Cheers.
Chillnthrill
a year ago
No
the79W0LF
a year ago
More women cheat than men, check your stats first 🤦🏼♂️
Tommy2132
a year ago
No good looking guys can’t what’s the point
A good looking guy is attractive to 90% of women
An ugly guy is attractive to no one
A good looking guy is capable of knocking up 1000s of women no problem
So let the good looking guys do there stuff and keep multiple women have for a bit
We will happily fuck you if your young old ugly fat we don’t care
Obi1kenietzsche
a year ago
I find I’m actually extremely happy and content when I’m stuck to a woman.
Mister_Dom
a year ago
It's absolutely possible, I was married for 25 years, never cheated once, wasn't interested in anyone else.
I would still be in that position now if it wasn't for cancer.
If people have cheated on you, that's a problem they have, it has nothing to do with you not being good enough.
There are lots of men and women who don't cheat, tha hard part is finding the right one.
EarthQueen
a year ago
I think it's hard to say people, men or women, will never cheat. Relationships and circumstances change and what you think will never happen happens. Relationships get stale, resentments build or people are more friends than lovers or the opportunity presents itself and then it happens. Also ,what do you consider cheating? Is it actually having sex with another person , is it an emotional affair, is it chatting online to other people with our you knowledge but nothing ever happens? There are many ways to do things without your partners knowledge or consent.
Anmnmmalia
a year ago
Nah
Kincraft
a year ago
It's possible... but maybe rare.
More likely, men will be loyal where there are few opportunities to cheat or when the risks/stakes are too high. In 'modern' society, few men (or people for that matter) have the social values that would promote loyalty above satisfying primal urges.
Ironically, it's partly women focusing their attention on the most attractive men, and competing with each other for attention (often via providing sex), that has allowed a select group of men to indulge in promiscuous behaviour. The most attractive men have 'learnt' that sex is easy / of little consequence... cheating isn't seen as a great taboo. They simply move onto the next woman.
You want someone who doesn't cheat..? Pick someone who doesn't look like he could get laid at a night club. And then make sure he knows that it's an insult worthy of breaking up.
More subjectively; I've not cheated on anyone. Yet, I learnt that women couldn't be trusted to remain loyal... Rather that join that team, I opted for open relationships with the rule of 'let me know first' (this wasn't about permission). You'd hope this would resolve the issue. Instead, I'd discover activities conducted in secret... as though there was a need.
Women may complain about men cheating, but there are men who are eager to be loyal, opt for open relationships in favour of avoiding a thing that would cause a relationship to end, and still cannot find someone who's trustworthy.
When I message women, I often hear 'you're not what I'm looking for'. Which is fine... we've all got our preferences. But, I wonder how many women are inadvertently selecting men that will cheat on them.
For clarity, I've lost faith in traditional relationships. The risks and stakes are too high. I'll sustain a relationship for as long as we're both happy together... however that relationship happens to look. There's a basic need for companionship and intimacy that warrants discarding any ideals I held about relationships... despite this flexibility, women aren't interested. They seem to prefer a different type of man... and I suspect it's those that are in the habit of cheating.
Despite my rant, I do sympathise with the position women are in. It's a messed up situation, and it may be a little unfair to boil it down as I have. Realistically, we're all good people trying to make the most out of a challenging life.
The main point is, if you're always finding men that cheat, the problem isn't men... it's either the type of men that approach you or the type of men you're choosing.
DazzD
a year ago
My partner never cheated and I let him do any he wants and even sent him to Thailand and let him to travel anywhere and talk to gym gals but he never cheating and makes me angry lol
SugarSugar69
a year ago
Funny that. I just got cheated on.
FuninMelb2025
a year ago
Of course they can. But relationships normally fail because both parties are unhappy and don't know how or have the emotional intelligence to reconnect. Remember women cheat as much as men.
RHP User
a year ago
Hi , I am a 53year old male, my partner and I have been together for 22 years. We have 2 awesome kids. I look at her everyday & want her. We have had experiences together, I have not once contemplated being disloyal (a scumbag).
So yes, men can be loyal and there are a lot more like me I’m sure.
👍RHP User
a year ago
Yesssss
RHP User
a year ago
Yes....Although it is the reason im as old as i am and been with two womenfolk my whole life and have none of that blasted game im supposed to. Cups half full and half empty all at once
RHP User
a year ago
No sorry
Mygobaby77
a year ago
Go both ways it's sort all here about man doing women are just as bad they just don't get fond out as much but think 60% people do these days 🤔
RHP User
a year ago
What a stupid question was married 24 years never cheated never considered it if your in love your life is full.
Sorry this has been your experience.SugarSugar69
a year ago
Not from my last experience
RHP User
10 months ago
Of course but you attract the type of guy you get. As 'tattooed bimbo 666' you're attracting a very certain type of male.
AnthPlum07
10 months ago
Any man or woman can stick to one person and be happy ,
In my eyes I call that a team because you do things to please your partner viscera versa .. How can I describe …!
if your partner is horny and he’s at work and send you a message and asks , Can you take a photo of your wet pussy and send it to me . And you’re at work and your thinking no way I’m embarrassed what if what if..
Something like that is when people start putting little bricks in front of them …. That’s when people start being unhappy 🙃😘
NewyHedonists
10 months ago
Absolutely can. I have never cheated on my wife and vice versa. We do everything together and we communicate. Just like now, we are getting into swinging. Everything is constant communication and sound boarding off each other. Making sure that each other's needs and concerns are heard and addressed. Really the goal of any healthy relationship is excellent communication. Everything else easily follows.
ZacKT
8 months ago
Yes. I’m sick of men doing it, wtf if the person you’re with doesn’t do it for you LEAVE! Don’t waste her time, or bring home an STI
RHP User
8 months ago
I got cheated on by my ex wife . And I had guy friends who did it aswell . I think they have low self esteem. And something to prove .
RHP User
8 months ago
Even when I chat here or elsewhere. Normally one person at a time . Playing with people feelings is worse than getting punched . God bless
MisterBear
8 months ago
Perhaps one reason people seek to cheat is that they are actually poly and haven't been introduced to the idea and if they actually realised this and talked to their partner they may be surprised., Some, though, like an ex of mine just enjoyed the thrill of not getting caught and it was also her way of ending relationships that she wasn't into because she didn't like confrontation or felt she didn't have a valid reason to end it.
RHP User
8 months ago
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RHP User
8 months ago
Yes
DannyMF
8 months ago
Never have, never will. Your partners supposed to be your best friend. Why would you do that to them?!
MountainLife
6 months ago
Yes... full-stop !!
LifeIsPeachy69
2 months ago
Most definitely yes, I absolutely hate cheating, anyone cheating , I would never cheating
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