Are MF couples actually attracted to CDs at all?

February 08 2018

I am an extremely bi sexual and fairly passable CD yet I cannot find any couples who want to play. Trying to find women alone is an absolute impossibility; but being bi I enjoy having a guy to play with too, hense why I seek couples.
So what is it I'm blatantly doing wrong or what is it couples are looking for?

- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Is individual so it would depend on the couple. For hubby and I it would be a no.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    On whether they find you attractive or not and whether you match the criteria that they are looking for

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thank you. Feels like being a needle in a haystack; then cutting said needle in half and throwing it back in.
    Really hard to find in other words.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    7 years ago

    Mentions you have not had any messages yet. Be proactive and get in contact with those who interest you, and where you meet their criteria. If you want to send messages, you will need to cough up for membership.



    Also, I am little confused...but I'm tired so I may not be reading thoroughly. Are you seeking sexual partners or friends with perhaps occasional benefits? So if I am confused, perhaps others are as well.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hi MsJonesy, maybe I should rectify that. I am looking for primarily sexual partners, but ones I can spend good quality time with before and after too.
    So I suppose friends with plenty of benefits lol.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    The couples, the single women and also the men, will pick you, if they are interested. No point in messaging anyone really. Trans are a specialty in life, not everyone's cup of Java. So don't waste your time messaging.

    Take the time to present your profile in the best light and as suggested, get rid of the negative bits. Lots of nice pics so the punters can see what they might be getting if they messsge you.

    Plenty of men will, the occasional couple, rarely the single women.

    My success with those groups was putting myself out there. Meet and greets and parties where trans were allowed to attend. Let them meet you, the real you and they may want to play.

    I'm a lot older than you and therefore harder for success but by being on the forum and going out meeting people socially, my life is all l could wish for, sexual and socially and friendships wise.

    I admit it's been hard to develop my personal, to put myself out there for the people of rhp to meet but has been worth it 100%. My sexual bucket is pretty much empty from the relationships love started in here.

    So in summary, the answer to your question is a big YES. But it won't happen in weeks nor months. You have to make it happen by connecting and networking and making friends. And l mean genuine friends. Not ones for the purpose which they can see through as you being a user.

    Have fun with it. It can be life changing, for you and for other people's lives that you intersect with.

    Annie

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You are Ace Annie :-) I have taken all you've said on board and started acting on it.

    Luckily i have a Lot of patience so i'll stick it out for a while and just hope.

    Thanks again xx

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    7 years ago

    I almost attended a wedding recently. He was the bride. Unfortunately I was overseas. Would have loved to be there. Such a wonderful couple. They’re part of our much loved friends now and forever.



    Hugs

    Gaz

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I would be extremely interested, but unfortunately the wife doesn't have a thing for TV:( so if you're ever in Adelaide and looking for a guy let me know