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Are Female FWB a thing?
July 03 2018
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
I wonder the same thing. I realise that having our couple profile here is going to mislead ya'll and expect a few negative comments on here, HOWEVER...... I do have a female profile on another site in which my search for a female fwb has not been successful, perhaps it's because I do state that I am happily married even though I clearly say that I am wanting the company of a female whilst my husband is away. I do get messages from husbands saying I'd love to see you play with my wife......NOPE that is not my intention and shouldn't be yours :( I have been Bisexual since a young age so know exactly what I want, desire and can offer (not just sex but a friendship). I too have enjoyed FFM and Ladies with the MFMF in which we have become great friends but it's not the same as one on one. Thoughts cross my mind that maybe some are just wanting to experiment and probably are scared to make the jump right in ….I could give other examples of what goes though my head but I'll get shot down in here for them :( Not to mention even women need an attraction to each other be it physical and mental. Perhaps we are looking in the wrong places (sites) IDK !!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sydney is far from a decent lgbtqi community?? I thought Sydney was the home and capital of LGBTQI? - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Why dont you say bisexual women for FWBs is what you're chasing? Your profile doesn't say that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Bi sexuals aren't really held in high regard in the gay community... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I believe sydney has the richest LGBTQI culture. Naturally it would be, being the densest city here. Ive come across many women in the same boat that are just as curious/anxious about ‘branching out’ its amazing that you dont really notice it though until youre involved. So many friends come out of the word work :) Good luck. Just go with the flow and hopefully the opportunity will fall in to your lap. Literally! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I don’t live in Sydney, I’m actually on a remote property in a small rural area at a not altogether convenient distance away. Sydney is just listed as my location for the sake of discretion and because it’s where I usually travel if I want to play. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ahh i noticed your location changed. Now i understand why it could be difficult. Either way, if youre willing to travel it doesnt matter. I agree with FatFunFiesty, maybe a little more on the profile. Ur incredibly sexy, so i dont see why ud have trouble. How long have you been looking? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
How can you communicate with other mainly guests to find out what they want if you're a guest.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Funny Santouche, I thought that’s what the ‘B’ in LGBTQI was for 😂? I certainly haven’t experienced disdain for my orientation from gay friends. FatFunFiesty my profile does say that 🤔. Not in an explicit way but it certainly states I’m bisexual and wanting ff, FWB amongst my other desires. I guess I could be more explicit but I still like to remain fairly open and general with my profile info. Thanks Long_Male_Syd, 🤗 sounds like I need to meet some of your friends 😂... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Good points Freaky_Fun and Long_Male_Syd, perhaps I need to upgrade! I think I’m also too used to people approaching me as I am somewhat shy IRL. Sounds like I need to be somewhat more proactive. I have only been single about 5 months and only on RHP for 2 (4 on Feeld) in search so still early days... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
So still needs a paid membership to initiate messages and still requires skill to catch. I used to swing with with another girl as a FF couple. Ideally that's what I'd like to do again. But I'd also like to win the lotto and travel to the moon. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
With your quest - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Santouche' Bi sexuals aren't really held in high regard in the gay community... - Posted from rhpmobile We certainly seem to be considered ''fakers'' by some, gay/lesbian and aren't being honest with ourselves to others. To me it's simple - I like both women and men.
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RHP User
7 years ago
As an app similar to Grindr, for (exclusively) women seeking women? I wouldn't let your location dissuade you from trying in your area though - I have family that live rural WA. I once indulged in Grindr and found it pinged almost as frequently when visiting said family as it did in more populated areas. I think you might find the same.
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Shoogly
7 years ago
Perhaps approach gay women? If they are straight up gay they won’t want any men involved anyway. If money is an issue perhaps try the trial membership. Use the limited time to message those who interest you and if you get no results try another site. It’s a low expense introduction and will enable you to communicate which will massively increase your chances. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Funnily enough i have one or two friends in campbelltown that may be interested ;) It sounds like its just early days. Things will snowball fall you. Im happy to help where i can. I left you a message a little while back. Feel free to get in touch if you like. Otherwise. Good luck with your search! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
🙄 Okey as most of us know it's much harder for a bisexual male to be accepted either into the straight or gay community. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Hopefully times are changing it just seems to be a slow process.
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Vanessa_N_James
7 years ago
interesting question to put another spin on this yes I know we are a couple and as the male in the couple my MRS is openly BI but not for any guys excitement and it took me a while to understand what this meant, she is BI because she enjoys being with a woman one on one or ect… so her having Female FWB is great for both of us
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RHP User
7 years ago
Slowly slowly catch a monkey LOL 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Shame you are so far away as all of the things you’ve mentioned are exactly what I’m after as well. I’m attached but want to play with another lady without his involvement and would love to enjoy the social side of having a female friend with benefits too. Would be the ideal for me if I could find both. Good luck with your search I hope you find someone xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I typed a big reply but didn’t post so I’ll recap and shorten 🙄 Basically I absolutely understand your frustration. I may be married and part of a couple - and yes threesomes are hot! For all involved if done correctly but as a bi woman I’d also love to find a female FWB that I can enjoy privately as 1-1 born socially/emotionally and sexually. The problem is that most of us bi women are seen only as a great part of an awesome 3sum, which isn’t a lie, but that doesn’t mean that we don’t crave the 1–1 of a female relationship without a man present. Everyone’s goals are different - for me, my dream would be to find a lovely lass that we both connect with on all levels and can enjoy an open relationship as FF & MF 1-1 as well as group fun. A girl can dream right? Wish I was in NSW, I’d meet up with you or at least be your wing woman ;) Good luck on your search, she’s out there x - Posted from rhpmobile
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KingnQueen1
7 years ago
Come and stay / play in Brisbane I’ll send hubby away!! Visit anytime/all the time, nothing like the touch of a woman. 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Its hard to find what you are after if your profile says differently. My partner and I have been on here for a mere few weeks and have found it equally as frustrating as to what people want. We approach ladies in a respectful way to receive no communication back. It turns out what they listed in their profile is not what they really want.We actually approached you some time ago simply because your profile said you were looking for MF couples. Change your profile to just looking for ladies and single men and couples will eventually stop approaching you.Best of luck
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Hottie1
7 years ago
I was/am lucky to have an awesome friend who is also a playmate. We holidayed together, we had nights out without the boys, we did threesomes with other guys, she’s still my best friend, we’re now in different states. The best things about my friend other than she’s stunning inside and out, she wasn’t after me to get to either my hubby or boyfriend ... she’s my loyal, gorgeous friend 😘😘 I was lucky enough to also have a female FB ... I am looking for sexy friendships in my new hometown of brissie. I’m not replacing my beautiful friend in Melbourne but I do like being with a woman, whether that is doing anything girlie or having fun together :) I’m finding it harder to achieve here :) Mary xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have some fwb but am looking for a female friend that I can play solo with. I recently rejoined as a paid member and have messaged a few ladies and had responses, just finding time to meet is a little difficult atm (school holidays). I have found many fake/inactive profiles so prefer to message verified and online now profiles. Good luck xx
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Dislikes Collingwood supporters 😱😱 Some of us are pretty cool, l have teeth and a job 😂😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
Its exactly what I am looking for too, but am having no luck finding. Good luck with your search.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have no idea how to find a like minded female. I can sympathise completely OP.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I know it's in Sydney but there is a female only night at our secret spot in Sydney. Might be a great way to meet many women in one place and develop a fwb from there. All the best - Posted from rhpmobile
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