F39
Annoyed single girl
September 16 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
i'm sure some people just like to see if you maybe on the of chance. You might be into it but just don't have it on your profile incase someone you know sees it same as some guys might swing both ways but just don't put it on their profile just incase someone they know finds out. Yes and some just don't read i knoe i have done it before then looked at their profile and gon oh shit but its to late by then.Hence why i haven't expressed interest in you date on here cause iv'e seen what your after hope this little bit of insight was helpful. Hop you find what you are looking for oneday
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RHP User
16 years ago
Unfortunately its what us single girls have to put up with on sites like this!! Before i had couples on my profile i'd still get couples messaging me!!Just like the guys out of your age bracket...they still try... 'just in case' But yeah...others dont even bother reading anything about you, they just see your pics and waste theirs and your time!SO GUYS...IF ALOT OF GIRLS ARE IGNORING YOU...MAYBE TRY READING THEIR PROFILES AND MAKE SURE YOU'RE WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm not too sure if they dont read profiles or if it is a case of if you are on here, then you must be up for anything with anyone at anytime, as long as it involves something sexual. My profile is very specific, but i get approached by any age range from 20 upwards, single guys, couples, guys wanting phone sex, guys who want a gf, you name it and i probably get asked it. I really sympathise with you as you are considerably younger than me so i'm sure it is ten times worse for you. Just ignore them or block.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dont answer them and block them. Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
We really appreciate the fact that people take the time to message us or send us flirst but we stated the age gap we are interested in is 18-25 but we get some in their 50s messaging us. We just don't understand why people can't just read the profiles first!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
even if their profile has everything you are looking for, no guarantees they are not lieing anyway
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getmemoreandmore
16 years ago
We get a number of single guys message us. Not something that we are looking for at all. Some are quite nasty, others are nice about it. The nice ones we will reply to. Others delete! It only takes 2 seconds to say sorry but no. Then they know, and stop sending stuff our way as well. We have had a couple of offers from outside our age range, or what we have been looking for, and its been a great time. They just approached it by saying that they knew it was a long shot, but wanted to ask. Ask they did, some got the answer they wanted others no.We believe that if you dont ask you dont get! But be nice about it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Really interested to read this. A while back I submitted a forum asking why it appears that so few girls reply to messages and to see if others thought it was disrespectful. At the time I was a single male only contacting single females that were seeking the same as I was. I was instantly hammered, particularly by couples, telling me that they were sick of contact by single guys, that I'm obviously sending messages to them, not single girls, and to read the profiles! I was pretty pissed as I've never once contacted a couple and it's Interesting to see that this same group are in fact doing what they are criticising others for doing. In the end it was kindly explained by a single female that due to the number of innapropriate messages that she receives, she just responds to those she can due to the sheer volume she receives. Maybe EVERYBODY needs to read profiles correctly and respect everybody"s choices
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RHP User
16 years ago
It takes, what, maybe 3 seconds to read a short email or flirt for the average person! So if you get 20 per day that's a minute per day out of your increadibly important and busy life! (Unless you're well below average of course ....). Read it, ignore it, block them as the next step if you feel you must or reply to it if the person may be of interest. But FFS this must be the hundredth post on this issue! Guys, and couples, will often "try it on" and that's life!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love reading bios... For all the women out there that dont or wont put up a pic...for any reason, it is a great leveller...I mean only so much can go on...but Ive gotten more out of a bio (most times ) than I would ever get out of a girl at a pub!!LMAO First contact-----better than fake walls on a date or first greet and meet at a venue...and you can vet too without any more contact ...reading is the way to go.....I have pics too and I still get women asking stupid questions when all the info I want to give is there to be read .... Atomic
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