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Anklet
August 26 2017
Just wondering if wearing an anklet gives out any hints to guys in public?
I have not had any interest in 4 years i have been wearing it .
Im thinking about changing from silver chain to black leather .
Would love to hear your comments
Thanks.
- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Crap, I didn't even think to look out for that. I'm such an idiot.
Stay classy, the leather perhaps for special occasions ;-)RHP User
7 years ago
I used to wear an anklet years ago and have been thinking about wearing one again, but wasn't aware it was supposed to send out some sort of message or hint (I assume you mean sexually) to men. I definitely didn't have any guys approach me on the basis of it when I used to wear one.
RHP User
7 years ago
Wow, you learn something new every day. I'm happy to admit I did need to google "anklet sexual signal" o better inform myself; but now I have that little gem of a fact is going to be stored at the top of the pile for immediate reference in hopefully the very near future 😉
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
We were supposed to keep our eyes above your chest??
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
You can see from the responses it's not widely known.
I always approach with caution in the possible event the wearer isn't aware of what it symbolises (and if she doesn't I might tell her, depending on how attractive I find her).
Hang things off it that make it more obvious. (e.g. two male/one female sex symbols or the letters 'HW').
I pay close attention, nothing like a chance meet.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
After a quick google, I doubt that you're going to get a lot of action if you're relying on wearing an anklet as a signal that you're a hotwife. Anklets are popular pieces of jewellery that are worn by heaps of women, and it's obviously only a small minority of the population who see them as a HW symbol. Even if a guy was aware of that meaning, the fact that most women are just wearing them as a fashion accessory means that he's most likely not going to be game to approach you unless you're giving out some other sort of signals as well.
Maybe as suggested above you could hang letters off it or something, but then again someone needs to be pretty close to see those.
Now if I do end up wearing one again I'll be all on the lookout for funny reactions from peopleRHP User
7 years ago
Which I haven't worn in a couple of years ...
I have some cheeky charms on mine but they were only referenced at swingers events ... for example, The same sex charm (bi-sexual), a lasso (ropes) a blindfold ...
Most people did not pay attention to it at all any other time. For goodness sake though, approach someone with care and caution if you seem them with an interesting anklet :)
Mary xxjamhunter
7 years ago
I didn't know that was a thing...
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I did not know that!
I will keep a close eye out in the swingers club.
It would break the ice and maybe be direct on what the couple is looking for or betta yet the "HOTWIFE"
I am blown away
HotNightsGC
7 years ago
How did u not know that? I was waiting for a full historical explanation 😉
- Posted from rhpmobile
enduran
7 years ago
From now on I will keep my eyes peeled to find some anklet. I am scientist at heart so need to proof this "theory" to be sure ;-)
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Have never even heard of this!
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Thank you for your replies everyone. Greatly appreciated. I wear mine on the left. I'm lucky i have beautiful feet and i wear my anklet with pride.
- Posted from rhpmobileenduran
7 years ago
Now I either have to look out for an anklet or perhaps look out for Rach ;-) love that I learned something new...
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'enduran'
Now I either have to look out for an anklet
Just remember that most women who are wearing an anklet are wearing it simply as a fashion accessory. The swinging world is small and the number of people who know that an anklet represents something in that world would be even smaller, as seen from the replies here. I wouldn't start hitting on women in public purely on the basis that they're wearing one.enduran
7 years ago
I am not the kind of guy who hits on woman hard because of an anklet. But if getting into a conversation and noticing the anklet allows to bring it up, I guess I will find out. "Oh I see you are wearing an anklet on your right foot, do you know what some people think this means?"
- Posted from rhpmobileenduran
7 years ago
I am not the kind of guy who hits on woman hard because of an anklet. But if getting into a conversation and noticing the anklet allows to bring it up, I guess I will find out. "Oh I see you are wearing an anklet on your right foot, do you know what some people think this means?"
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Well looking through the profiles of hotwives I have met in person. 8 out of 10 have anklets.
Fuck me dead why did I not notice that before would have been a great icebreaker.
I guess me being a voyeur or watcher at heart I have seen them in action at clubs and private parties. So the truth is "In THEIR pudding"
I feel like Quagmire after he finds out the internet porn exists.
Mission for this weekend...find anklet= possible HW
justlook2500
7 years ago
In the past the anklet was supposed to mean/symbolise a couple who were in the swinging scene. In particular they were into the cuckold and/or hotwife part of the swinging scene. Indicating that they were open to meeting/interacting with single men for various levels/styles of cuckold / hotwife / mfm play. However as people have mentioned above over the last 20 years or so anklets and jewellery of the similar like have become fairly mainstream and more like a fashion accessory these days. These days not many people even in the swinging scene know of this.
It is still used as a symbol these days. However often to distinguish the difference people using it for that reason as opposed to purely a fashion accessory, these days the women may put letters such as HW (Hotwife), BBC or charms for symbols such as male and female signs on it.
I have met people in the hotwife/cuckold scene who wear the anklet for this reason.
Have also met people wearing the anklet outside of swinging events and enquired about it ... a couple times yes they were swingers into the cuck/hotwife lifestyle. Other times they were people who just the fashion accessory.
If you see it ... you can just make a comment on it and see how people respond. That's my advice.RHP User
7 years ago
Black ring / right hand. Any finger apart from the middle one. (that is commonly associated with being asexual).
;)
JohnAnn2227
7 years ago
Hi, I have worn an anklet for years and love the extra "bling". On a holiday to America to meet up with lifestyle friends we discovered that over there some swingers used anklets to "advertise" preferences. We went to a club in Chicago and came across girls who would have the amle and/or female symbols dangling off of their anklets. That was meant to say if they were looking for a girl, 2 guys etc. Some girls had anklets with hotwife or slut dangling from them. We bought a variety of symbols that i attach to my anklet if we are out to 'play". We have met a few guys and couples who have commented on my anklet and things have gone from there.Ann & John
realcpl4funBris
7 years ago
My wife wears hers on her left ankle... not many people know the meaning of the " anklet" so we've never encountered anything spicy lol
secure2
7 years ago
I have worn a discreet gold anklet on my left ankle for years. Only ever had 1 guy actually ask if it meant I was aloud to play.
realcpl4funBris
7 years ago
My wife wears a gold chain on her anklet but most people think it's a fashion accessory. I guess you would need to be in the lifestyle to know the meaning .When we rarely go clubbing she wears a HW on there but still we've never had anyone strike up a conversation about it ;)
Absoluthunk
7 years ago
I must say I learn something new today. I will be looking at women's ankle more often now. I have always thought anklets are simple accessories.
RHP User
6 years ago
I've worn an anklet on dates with hubby and also when we've played with another man. My husband enjoys seeing it when I play and when I wear sexy heels. I like showing him how sexy I can be wearing them...
RHP User
6 years ago
My wife has an anklet, it is a nice silver one with a charm attached - lock and key! Meaning she is my key holder.
We recently saw that wearing a black ring on your right ring finger is also a good sign.
I agree that an anklet with a HW charm is ideal.
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