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Anal sex - is it as good as it looks in porn
June 27 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm sure you wil enjoy it if you learn to relax and don't bite too hard on the pillow.
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naughty2two
14 years ago
GTOO9 lol u recieving or giving buddy??????????????????
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RHP User
14 years ago
that it is best to choose a man with a small cock,add lots of lube and scream a lotx Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
anal sex is the best ,,,,,,,im a reciever and love big cocks up me ,,,,,,oh and yes ,,slowly and lots of lube ,,,,,xxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
You have two options Find a boyfriend happy to give or Get your girlfriend to use a strap on. We are sure they will still respect you in the morning. Take it like a man!
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RHP User
14 years ago
do a bit of gentle stretching first in the floor play
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RHP User
14 years ago
A lot of clean up before and after, but make sure no monster cock. :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
i myself love anal sex,i have an orgasm or squirt,totally differant horny feeling.
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RHP User
14 years ago
:) I'm minority on here as a woman though , most seem to love it! I don't like it at all! It always hurts ( even done with love and patience) most importantly , mentally it does nothing for me . Like bisexuality , I've TRIED to love it , then turned 40 and realized its just not for me !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh it's better! And Hesione lube is for pussies! Lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
the only apprpriate response is LMFAOx Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Futurenomads' You have two options Find a boyfriend happy to give or Get your girlfriend to use a strap on. We are sure they will still respect you in the morning. Take it like a man! There's a third option. . . . To give it like a man ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesnt.........remember they have food stylists for cook books....and porn stylists for porn movies.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris':) I'm minority on here as a woman though , most seem to love it! I don't like it at all! It always hurts ( even done with love and patience) most importantly , mentally it does nothing for me . Like bisexuality , I've TRIED to love it , then turned 40 and realized its just not for me ! It does absolutely nothing for me. It does NOT hurt me, it just does not turn me on either. I am happy to do this for the man I am with.....so long as I have already been satisfied and there are times when it is quite pleasant. I do actually like a finger up there during play but never get much from anal sex at all.
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Hanna_ybbn
14 years ago
When I was 26, I had my first anal sex experience.I was raped in the middle of the night by a 6ft 5 huge man who pinned me down on a bed and I could not move.Of course, this was a very traumatic experience to say the least.Unfortunately for anyone I was with after the attack, if they even remotely mentioned anal, I was gone.Then I met someone and was able to put a degree of trust in this person. He was gentle and very understanding but he also had a huge cock. We tried once and I was very drunk and it sort of worked and actually felt alright, but I was obviously still too wound up over the past and unable to relax.It was only in the last 12 months that I've been with someone who had a small enough cock that it actually worked well for me. I was in a relationship with said person and at the time, trusted him.He sucked at it but the thing is - Finally I'd done it, enjoyed it and felt like I'd let the hangups of the past go finally!Here's the kicker - I will NEVER have butt sex with someone I am not in a relationship with.It's a MASSIVE trust thing for me.Trust is earned where I come from - not given.Hanna x
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RHP User
14 years ago
GTO ..Give it a crack ..Just remember two to three nights before plenty of Spicey Indian Curry and lunch is Lots of seafood Laksa..... Your Arse well never complain again
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hannah xxxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Personally I too have tried to like it, but it does nothing for me mentally or physically... Get some small toys, plenty of lube and a trusted and GENTLE partner, start there and keep going... till it hurts!!! Just to clarify the whole porn thing... actors/actresses are actually paid more money to do butt sex, they can make around three times the amount of money doing female anal/gay porn than the mainstream, part of the reason there is alot of it out there, people tend to presume what happens in porn is happening in society, so don't think you're the only one not doing it... its all make believe.
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RHP User
14 years ago
As a fella My 1st anal experience was also my 1st time ever meeting and playing with a MtF pre op TS , and getting on the business end of another cock. She was absolutely stunning and i had no probs with trying and doing everything I was invited to try, which included giving anal which felt great , but when I asked her to reciprocate ,as she is predominately a bottom she had no idea. Smallish cock or not it hurt like ...er.....buggery lol!. She hadnt used lube, just spit unlike myself...so No 1 lesson...use good quality lube ( with your connie) and lots of it ,take your time easing the way with a toy or finger to gradually enlarge and relax the anus ,and find a position where the receiver can control how slow....or fast you want to be penetrated. ALL of this can be fun and IF you have a person who knows what thy are doing and takes his / her time it can be great.I lost my anal cherry at my 2nd meet to a TS packing 8" and she slowly but persistently had her way with me, and the sensation when rubbed against your prostate can really be great, tho I think half of my enjoyment was the power exchange whereby I was been penetrated , not penetrating... but I digress ....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've been told it hurts like buggery.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love the pain of it though, I get off on it.Also, the orgasms, I find, are different, and much more satisfying.
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RHP User
14 years ago
my partner and I use to...it hurt like hell so we stopped.he wants to start up again but i dread the pain.....any suggestions? i've tried exercises, good lube, different positions, toys and finger but i can get past the pain of his big cock!help!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Spanke'I love the pain of it though, I get off on it.Also, the orgasms, I find, are different, and much more satisfying. Some butts are made for it :) Quoting '3WayHey'my partner and I use to...it hurt like hell so we stopped. he wants to start up again but i dread the pain.....any suggestions? i've tried exercises, good lube, different positions, toys and finger but i can get past the pain of his big cock! help!!!! and some aren't. Maybe. It might well the way he uses his dick... I can only comment from a giving perspective, I don't know if you girls need to do something special (I assume relaxing would be one), but I think the guy has more control over whether it's going to hurt or not than you. All I can suggest is slowly, let him know when it's uncomfortable and get him to back out a little, let you relax, and then try again. I think half the problem is some guys just think you need to ram it in there and hope she eventually stops whimpering... I like the slow approach, accompanied by a moan more than a whimper . ps - it's not a size thing.. I can assure you ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Can honestly say this has never been a fantasy of mine giving or recieving. I work too closely with the body part it involves as a nurse and I just find the "hole" concept just a little distastefull. Probably spent too much time wiping the, literally, bloody thing. Good luck finding someone interested tho'. Mike PS; Yes, I know stop punning you poor sad man.
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you like sex with arseholes, there's plenty to choose from here.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' . ps - it's not a size thing.. I can assure you ;-) Thanks JG... so I can go ahead and buy the 10 inch strapon then? Well you see... I think it might work better for me as its so hard to get the rhythm right when you are standing on a stepping stool!! Meeka xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
wary OP 'cos after meeka and her strapon has finished with you,you will indeed be wearyx Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
3WayHey: easy solution girl.. Get yourself a strapon about the size of Mr 3way's cock.. tell him.. "You first hubby.." One of two things will happen... 1) He will STFU.. OR 2) You will make him your BITCH caveman... have fun Mrs 3way
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RHP User
14 years ago
*chuckles* I have a NASTY story about anal and an associate, and someone who owed him money.. but.. I think it is harsh.. even by RHP standards... PLUS... I am pleased with my IMMEDIATE posting benifits... and do not wish to lose that :) caveman
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RHP User
14 years ago
We dabble in the art of anal from time to time...and yes it is nice if you have the right person giving, and understanding how to give.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' . ps - it's not a size thing.. I can assure you ;-) Thanks JG... so I can go ahead and buy the 10 inch strapon then? Well you see... I think it might work better for me as its so hard to get the rhythm right when you are standing on a stepping stool!! Meeka xx At first I thought you'd have trouble balancing in with a 10" strap-on waving around, but then remembered you have two delightful counter-weights ;-) . ps - I still reckon you could only manage a ticklish tease with 10 inches and no stepping stool!
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RHP User
14 years ago
You need to maasage the 2 cm area between the pussy/cock and butt hole...it relaxes the muscles and makes it easier for penetration!
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RHP User
14 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
At 18...I had a boyfriend who decided to just stick it in! Boy, did I get the shock of my life! At that point in time, and for many years, I thought there was no way I would let anyone near my ass! haha.....For me, I eventually tried it on my own terms, and found it was something that came with a bit of practice, relaxation and the right partner.I absolutely love anal now! The orgasms are way more intense! And I love it hard and fast! My man gives me an absolute flogging, but he knows that's just how I like it! ;) Anal for me, on a very basis, keeps me a very happy girl! :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DiviniT' At 18...I had a boyfriend who decided to just stick it in! Boy, did I get the shock of my life! At that point in time, and for many years, I thought there was no way I would let anyone near my ass! haha.....For me, I eventually tried it on my own terms, and found it was something that came with a bit of practice, relaxation and the right partner.I absolutely love anal now! The orgasms are way more intense! And I love it hard and fast! My man gives me an absolute flogging, but he knows that's just how I like it! ;) Anal for me, on a very basis, keeps me a very happy girl! :) *On a very REGULAR basis....lol.....Miss Div xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have had a couple of different ladies, some don't like it and some just want more and more, some ladies don't like big cocks do hurts, but from my time, most have loved it
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RHP User
13 years ago
mind a good crack up
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MrsTri' I'm sure you wil enjoy it if you learn to relax and don't bite too hard on the pillow.
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RHP User
13 years ago
YES!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! GTO999:) Thanks for your topic:) It seems there's a differing Opinion which is really going to confuse you he!he! So I'll add mine into the mix too.. I had a very Experienced Lover .. Who was into Anal Sex Giving ..I am all for Connecting with My Lover looking into his eyes .seeing his Passion arousal watching him as we Orgasm together in Unison.. Anal Had none of those Qualities 1. I found it to be Demeaning because it's a submissive Position I'm all for equality Sensual Intimate Sex .. 2. I wasn't being sexually aroused by It because I had my head in the Pillow..trying to breathe . .Skilled as My Lover after I was loosened ,prepared well lubed ..every thrust of his cock pushed the air deeper inside me..the pressure was extremely uncomfortable . So Guys who like to try it.. Think of someone putting a tire pump in your butt and pressing air in see if you still want to do it ..I know I don't...For me It was Just Fucking !! nothing Sensual about it.. On saying that Hun...A guy Friend of mine has been experiencing Anal Sex He Loves it .I was told by a Gay Friend that having the receiver lay flat on the bed .legs spread is the most comfortable way to insert the penis and enjoy Anal Sex....Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
but I think I shounld start slow...... and always( well most of the time the girls scream for harder)!
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RHP User
13 years ago
maybe practise with a butt plug for a while ?? see how that goes first maybe..i can imagine it would take abit of getting use to at first.
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jezebel_jj
13 years ago
We do both. Without lube takes longer. If lube is used, basically no warm up time needed. I'm usually insistent that we do anal as I like to get off and scream and anal is pretty much the only thing that does it for me.
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rk5tar
13 years ago
I have grown to enjoy it. Lots of lube and take things slowly. Each occasion is different for me. Can be ok one day, the next time its fabulous and other times it just isnt happening. If Im struggling to orgasm I help things along a bit from the front end with a toy. Just be wary of venting any bum gas afterwards
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RHP User
13 years ago
Does it look good in porn?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Really interesting post. We enjoy it from time to time - with each other - but not with just playmates. As others have said, there's a big trust thing there. MrsF2P enjoys the different sensations, but couldn't honestly say have ever actually cum from the act itself.Disturbingly though, MrsF2P was at a seminar a couple of weeks ago where high school counsellors were presenting new research that shows a high number of young girls (13-16) presenting at hospital EDs with anal tearing and other anal trauma because all the porn shows anal as usual, mainstream and 'just stuff you have to do' and are participating in high risk (often unprotected) sex with young boys who think that anal is (1) safer (because you can't get pregnant) and (2) not actually losing your virginity! We were astounded.Anal is a nice part of a loving, trusting relationship if that's what you BOTH want to do, but it really freaked us out that young kids are getting this skewed version of sex from porn that promotes (hetero) anal as an everyday expression of sex and that so many are going into it unprotected and inexperienced. Also, a lot of porn shows quite rough anal with the female in a completely submissive state (as DragonFly said) and generally only the male seeming to enjoy it. A lot of the female grunting and groaning really turns us off as she sounds like she is in pain (which she most probably is).Don't mean to turn you off OP, but just food for thought :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I myself find it painful -and as for the porn the women dont even look like they cum. I ask one question now to those that suggest it "is your ass a virgin?" If they are not prepared to have a dildo the size of themselves inserted up their ass then dont ask me for it.... .
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RHP User
13 years ago
BUMMER!!! LOL got to try everything once or twice........... i like it especially after an orgasm a different pleasure feeling...first time is yes scarey and ouch!!! but practice makes perfect, just dont make an ASS of yourself and empty those bowels before trying LOL.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Fun2Play2500'Really interesting post. We enjoy it from time to time - with each other - but not with just playmates. As others have said, there's a big trust thing there. MrsF2P enjoys the different sensations, but couldn't honestly say have ever actually cum from the act itself. Disturbingly though, MrsF2P was at a seminar a couple of weeks ago where high school counsellors were presenting new research that shows a high number of young girls (13-16) presenting at hospital EDs with anal tearing and other anal trauma because all the porn shows anal as usual, mainstream and 'just stuff you have to do' and are participating in high risk (often unprotected) sex with young boys who think that anal is (1) safer (because you can't get pregnant) and (2) not actually losing your virginity! We were astounded. Anal is a nice part of a loving, trusting relationship if that's what you BOTH want to do, but it really freaked us out that young kids are getting this skewed version of sex from porn that promotes (hetero) anal as an everyday expression of sex and that so many are going into it unprotected and inexperienced. Also, a lot of porn shows quite rough anal with the female in a completely submissive state (as DragonFly said) and generally only the male seeming to enjoy it. A lot of the female grunting and groaning really turns us off as she sounds like she is in pain (which she most probably is). Don't mean to turn you off OP, but just food for thought :) Well long before I knew cock went in there. My ass is as tight as it ever was. And beleive me Ive been fucked there quite a few times. I prefer lenghth to girth. Nothing makes me hornier than the thought of more than 15 inches in me. 20 is my known capability. Yes its true those videos you see. :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' Well long before I knew cock went in there. My ass is as tight as it ever was. And beleive me Ive been fucked there quite a few times. I prefer lenghth to girth. Nothing makes me hornier than the thought of more than 15 inches in me. 20 is my known capability. Yes its true those videos you see. :P Ok then, whatever floats your boat :) Seriously, 20 inches!?!?!?! By our calculations, that's 50 cm. We have book shelves that aren't that long. Any physiology experts care to weigh in on this seemingly impossible scenario? LOL, it takes all sorts!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Seems almost wrong to comment after Hanna has posted - so sorry to hear your experience Hanna xx As for the topic - I adore rceiving anal and love the feel it gives me
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey there, 15\20"?????? Are you talking about men or Camels and Elephants?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anal sex is hot as long as you are properly prepared - take your time, get really horny & use plenty of lube... Mmmmmm enjoy!!! Ps: you must have total trust in your partner as well ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been doing anal for many years once you learn to relax and go with it it is something you wont forget and i believe will do again, you need some one considerate if its your first time and lube is a must, when your more expierienced you can take it a bit harder thats when some times it can hurt but its a good hurt, that magic spot is some thing else and once your enjoying it the pain aint there. I say go for it :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im love to try anal sex love big I'm think is nice somting different newer no must try frsta
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RHP User
13 years ago
Good books on anal are Jack Morin's 'Anal pleasure and health' and Tristam Toarmino's 'The ultimate guide to anal sex for women'...:)
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
You either like it or you don't. Porn will always make it look easy and lots of fun! I believe you must trust the person who is the giver in anal sex. If its done right it can be a very incredible experience
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RHP User
13 years ago
When giving it feels like nomal sex...except with an o-ring around your cock. I enoyed it for a while but the last time I did it I smelt shit and thought WTF??!! And then I remembered what arses are for... oh that's right.....they are for shitting too. I gave it up straight after that. Who needs the reality of bodily functions in the middle of a heated session.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you don't like it up the bum, you can blame it on your mum.
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RHP User
13 years ago
RELAX (if not it's not going to work).... Giving or taking. Lube up big time, start with fingers first then slowly put it in... Well thats how I like it to start with, and then ram away . Some great anal lubes out there Cheers Mrs S.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Does it make you come faster. And is it better??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lost my (arse) cherry recently to a very nice guy....he was gentle and knew what he was doing! Thoroughly enjoyed it. Gotta have the right guy, though.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Pfft... thats the noise an arse makes when ya pull out...fact or fiction? It has been documented that chefs.. thats right.. chefs prefer anal sex over microwaves.. apparently microwaves dont brown the meat.. go figure... and finally. all this talk about anal has made me hungry.. cream pie anyone? Not that id EVER succumb to being anyones biatch.. unless they asked nicely
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love it all toy's, strap-on or the big cock. I just feel fully filled, a little used but very dirty all good. Clean fun
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anal sex is god when play gently
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have done this a few times.... love to give to a woman but needs to be very sensitive to her feelings. actually once done with my ex and she got to the point where I couldn't give it to her hard and fast enough. Made for a awesome orgasm. Have also received which when given after plenty of fore play made for another explosive orgasm on my part. although the strap on was on the large size but in the right position and foreplay environment was real good.....love to go at it again, its one time when a woman can feel in total control.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You have to be totally relaxed, or quite drunk! I always orgasm with a cock up my arse, then again I orgasm with a cock anywhere!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'PassionateMoment' Hey there, 15\20"?????? Are you talking about men or Camels and Elephants? 8 inch Dildo.I got a bit carried away with the task at hand.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find anything other than playing about the surface to be very uncomfortable..... Am also worried about hygiene issues and will only try if I've done an enema earlier.... but that's an uncomfortable enough thing in itself and really not sexy. Although I have been with one fella who absolutely loved to recieve, in fact he begged for it. Quite happy to give it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Personally I find it unappealing in porn.... and there are some porn actresses out there that look so stretched that maybe they can't close up? that's not good at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have always wanted to try it but have not come across the right partner yet to take my cherry as this is one of my biggest fantasies.mmmmmm
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RHP User
13 years ago
The first time for me it really hurt like hell. But see everyone is different. I mean even with a good amount of lube it does hurt a bit, but I find it hurts when he is inserting it inside me. Once its in I feel fine. I can only suggest a really good lube and try to relax those muscles
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ask him to do it slowly. When its hurt, push him out and let your muscle relax till the pain gone and try again. Its more easier to get in after the first penetration. Oh, also a lot of lube! I was moaning so loudly when i first lost my cherry at the beach (thanks god no one saw us in that afternoon!)Now it doesnt hurt much anymore even without lube! Also, dont forget to douch before. No bad smell, no yellow stain, no shame, happy anal sex!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ms_dimples4fun' BUMMER!!! LOL got to try everything once or twice........... i like it especially after an orgasm a different pleasure feeling...first time is yes scarey and ouch!!! but practice makes perfect, just dont make an ASS of yourself and empty those bowels before trying LOL. Yea, lost my cherry with someone and then after that I've done it 2 times since, the first two times I didn't get off but the 3rd time really went nuts... and it was ok.. just have to have the right partner and she needs to be understanding.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i love a woman to use a strap on on me and what a great feeling admittedly i only take a small one but when i cum it is so intense and amazing
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anal sex is the greatest
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MrCarrotRHP
13 years ago
Tried once and it felt like i was putting it in a brick...as for the lady, apparently it depends on the shape of her anatomy.A guy enteringthere may stimulate certain errogenous zones better.For most i would guess its painful... what else!!From my male point of view a nice pussy is more than enough LOL....
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