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"Am I being paid to talk"? WTF

July 17 2010

I have lingered around the fringes for a bit and tested the water a bit ...but now I need the thoughts of the all knowing forum~ I answer all the messages and most of the flirts I receive, my profile states clearly- I think~ that I don't meet-yes a whole other story!!!~ but "different strokes..." Well I do know that my profile is clever and articulate. I send a return message that states my attitude and again points out that I do not meet. Well on messaging one guy I gave my msn and he chatted -social - and he asked if I get paid to talk????? WTF....sorry but run that by me again....am I a professional???? OK well NO I am not so OH wise forum please excuse my naivety but does this happen and just because I speak and there fore write well am I to be thought of like this...? has anyone had such an experience? Do I need to "dumb down" and use my Kath'n'Kim accent just to appear to blend in? So gents what do you think? do you enjoy speaking to clear confident and articulate women? and Ladies do you find that you have been insulted or put in a pigeon hole by some of the people on the site. all that said on the whole the guys that have become my friends and hot-ties are nice and friendly - and I am one of those that has no issue with the relationship situation you are in.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hiya Joosedup,I think the guy may have asked if you get paind to talk because you don't meet people and he is probably thinking if you don't meet people then you must get paid to be on the RHP.Some people don't realise that alot of people use this site to communicate with others for any number of reasons like they live a fair distance from any major city or town. They just like to communicate with others and what better way than from the comfort of your own home.PK !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You have been honest and upfront when chatting with these men, so ... take it as a compliment! Obviously what you say and write comes across as someone who knows, loves and appreciates the craft of 'good communication skills' ! And if, like you say, that you 'never' do any meets... then it doesnt really matter what their relationship statis is hey? I mean, if the chit-chat was all sex talk and fantasies... there isnt that much difference from reading it in a magazine or on line really when you think about it... except that on here you get to decide where, when and how the fantasies start and end, and with whom! So, if some think you are getting paid to widen their imaginations, then yes... take it as a compliment and keep doing what you are doing! ...and enjoy it for what it is! -maple-

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If this was the matrix, your guy may have mistaken you for "The Oracle". I think you sound more like trinity, looking for Neo. Follow the white rabbit....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Being paid to talk? That'd be like heaven for some women. Hehe . Sounds like someone doesn't believe your profile is real... I.e. That you're on the staff around here. There was a post on here suggesting that my profile is fake so you're in great company bebe. Articulate women. Nom nom nom Hugs stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi, well I don't know if you write better than most of us on here, but it does come across as odd that a woman is actually requesting erotic chat only. I have seen profiles where females say that they are not here to meet anyone but just want to make friends or post on the forum, but it is unusual to find one that actually says what you do. Maybe that is why some people think you are paid to be here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i loosly look over the forums most times i visit and have a good laugh at some of the coments but PAID TO TALK is the best yet ,,,,,,,,,,,, If anyone is on here and not looking for fun or a good time In whatever way they wish it to be then that is their choice . If someone is rude to you then dont answer them back and if they are nice and you are still not interested then tell them straight but lets just be friendly and enjoy ourselves, andy

  • Frankiesgame

    Frankiesgame

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'desserts' Hi, well I don't know if you write better than most of us on here, but it does come across as odd that a woman is actually requesting erotic chat only. I have seen profiles where females say that they are not here to meet anyone but just want to make friends or post on the forum, but it is unusual to find one that actually says what you do. Maybe that is why some people think you are paid to be here. I dont know that she is unusual as far as just telling erotic tales , but her profile is pretty clear! maybe Joosed the guy meant that it was so good that you had to be professional! maybe take it as a compliment!! Hugs Frankie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Being paid to talk? That'd be like heaven for some women. Hehe . Sounds like someone doesn't believe your profile is real... I.e. That you're on the staff around here. There was a post on here suggesting that my profile is fake so you're in great company bebe. Articulate women. Nom nom nom Hugs stalky RHPers seem to have such suspicious natures... It has been posted that I must be on the staff... several times. No good denying it either or providing explanations for their queries. As I keep saying they'd know better if they knew me hahahahaha.Thanks for the post joosedup, good read. I really don't think people are asking because of your writing skills but more likely as desserts suggested because of your unusual profile. I think the suspicion that people are employed by RHP is a common one.Hugs... Mrs P'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Has the oh wise forum given you guidence oh confused one? Allow me to hypothysis, so you also have an uneducated explaination, commonly known as a guess. Maybe when you were asked if you were getting paid to talk, shouldn't really be something seen as offensive, and you should even feel complemented. Maybe the person who asked you if you get paid to talk, has a low self esteem issue, and just found it hard to believe or comprehend that someone like yourself would even talk to them at all, and he was expecting attitude instead of personality, which isn't uncommon on websites such as this one. Maybe the only explaination he could think of, as to why a hot chick with a brain would even talk to him at all, is that she must be getting paid to. If you are who I think you are, then it is true that you do make a point of answering messages, and your replies have always shown your wicked personality. Chicks that have both personality and good looks, as well as an awesome sense of humour, are far and few between, so what ever you do, don't change that, just in order to blend in. As far as getting paid to talk......when has a chick ever needed a reason or any incentive at all to talk?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I thought you were. I even thought you slipped anywayi hope you don't get annoyed with me sayin this but you are probably like a mum to all of us. Well JMO. Lol sorry BJ using your tag line. Ssshhh Mrs P then you are very MILF. Lol did that get me outa trouble. Fab RFB5.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks Wicked 'yes `tis I, Mrs P and the wise ones... funny now I think on reflection...I am into sharing experiences, discoveries and pleasure...something "he" has now missed out on...tho' he did tell me that girls on RHP are like taxis and there is another one very few minutes!!! clearly he had never tried to get a cab in Perth on a Friday night........."PITY THE FOOL" please know that I am discrete as a matter of coarse-it being a concept rather than a buzz word and that if you share a story with me I DO NOT publish them on or in any forum they are your stories not mine... I feel I have created a bigger issue with the mention of stories and writing on here...thanks for the discussion and I will take it as a compliment....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I didn't say she was unusual in writing erotic stories, i was saying it is unusual to see it on a female's profile on here.  Jossedup, do you mean coarse or course??And i really don't think that there are certain people on here who are wiser than others!! I don't lay all my cards on the table here for sure, i don't even use my real name. This is just a side issue to my "real" life and a lot of stuff that i write is very tongue-in-cheek for sure!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    well just goes to show that Joose is not as smart as she thinks.... mmmmm...course .....oh wot eva lol

  • Frankiesgame

    Frankiesgame

    15 years ago

    soz hun misread your post, was actually agreeing with you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear' RHPers seem to have such suspicious natures... It has been posted that I must be on the staff... several times. No good denying it either or providing explanations for their queries. As I keep saying they'd know better if they knew me hahahahaha.Thanks for the post joosedup, good read. I really don't think people are asking because of your writing skills but more likely as desserts suggested because of your unusual profile. I think the suspicion that people are employed by RHP is a common one.Hugs... Mrs P' I myself thought you were on the staff MrsP...from the first time I came into Forums I thought that...and let me explain why...on the top of the Forum page it usually has something from RHP Editor (the very first 2 lines) and I noticed that your posts would be in there too. I didn't think any less or more of you...just thought you were on the staff. Lol hope that makes sense and eases your mind as to why people think you are one of the staffers. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Haha Fab, lucky you used past tense there. By all means, ask me if you'd like to know about my slip, (I don't mean asking if I'm wearing one or what colour it is either LOL). I know I'd like you to in no uncertain terms. Only kidding, I don't take trust for granted and would rather have people ask me straight out if they're uncertain rather than always wondering. Can only answer the same question so many times though, some people don't seem to want to get it from long past experience.Lol, Mum to all of you, I've heard that before too. Am I supposed tp be annoyed cos you're suggesting that I have been a very, very busy girl... then there's implications of what that could have done to my body, not to mention my mind... Now don't you be shhhing me young man, trouble's my middle name! Hehe Frankie... nice, your post wasn't there when I posted. Joosedup, I've been reminded that your topic touches on the topic of a thread I've posted in the forums. It's called Suspicion and was a direct response to the queries I mentioned above. It's locked now though and while we can look at it, we can't post LOL. I assume that was because of a post someone made on it just before I had to go out, which along with my quick post in reply, ended up getting deleted. Ironically, it was only in the last week or so that I heard from someone, "surely I must realise that there were rumours about me". I was thinking about it while busy earlier and had a laugh at the idea that if you, Stalky and I were really staff.... What really makes people think there is only one person behind the masquerading profiles??? Hehe, hugs... Mrs P'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear' RHPers seem to have such suspicious natures... It has been posted that I must be on the staff... several times. No good denying it either or providing explanations for their queries. As I keep saying they'd know better if they knew me hahahahaha.Thanks for the post joosedup, good read. I really don't think people are asking because of your writing skills but more likely as desserts suggested because of your unusual profile. I think the suspicion that people are employed by RHP is a common one.Hugs... Mrs P' I myself thought you were on the staff MrsP...from the first time I came into Forums I thought that...and let me explain why...on the top of the Forum page it usually has something from RHP Editor (the very first 2 lines) and I noticed that your posts would be in there too. I didn't think any less or more of you...just thought you were on the staff. Lol hope that makes sense and eases your mind as to why people think you are one of the staffers. xFunlovingx I'm not sure if you realise that it is always the same thread locked at the top of the list. A Forum Topic list I initially started for myself but after reading all the comments that people would like to be able to search the forums, I posted it there... and updated it recently. Oooo, I can see another UPDATE cumming on LOL. Pity it's not likely to make any difference seems as people will have to take the time to open the thread, scroll all the way to the end, read, comprehend and haha believe that Mrs P' does not work for RHP! It is disappointing to me that my efforts are that much less realised because people get to thinking I'm a member of the staff and paid for what I do. Ironically , there is a post on the Topic thread from Mars where he says that I should be paid for it and a reply from me that membership would do lol... no such luck!Thank you for caring how I feel Funloving, I have to say that there are times I understand why people might think I'm a staffer n other times I wonder why they would think that!!! LOL! What does get to me is that people don't accept that I am telling the truth when I deny that I am working for RHP. Even after go to the trouble to provide explanations for their questions. Hugs... Mrs P' xOx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We don't drawl on like Kath & Kim do we really? That's a little offensive.Take every single conversation you have on here joosedup, with a pinch of salt. I very much so agree with Wickid. People can't comprehend a genuine person in amongst a sea of douchebags and fakes. We've been accused of being a fake profile too - people are wary of being "too good to be true".

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    15 years ago

    i got the whole "r u paid to advertise".....just becoz i like a certain venue and event and that i say it to most ppl who are interested doesnt mean that i get paid to do it....although that would be a great advantage! paid to advertise and flirt with ppl for an event that i like.....it would b the most rewarding job around..... like being a sex worker and having sex with another hot individual who knows what they are doing.....i can only dream..... lol