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All the "kinky" single ladies
January 06 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Girls have it made, girls have more funGirls have their way, to get lovers anytime they wantAnytime she needs some lovingAnytime she just gives the signIt won't take her long to find a man to obligeGuy's got to plot, guy's got to planGuy's got to lie, cheat, steal, do anything he canAnything to get her loving, anything to make her agreeThat's the way it's been since Adam and EveGirls can get it, anytime they wantGirls can get it, where a man often won'tEverybody's always after some loving now and thenA woman gets it faster than any man canGirls can get it, anytime they likeGirls can get it, a fact of lifeIf she calls you for some loving in the middle of the nightShe can get a man running at the speed of lightWe all look for love, somewhere, sometimeGirls find it first, they find it morning, noon and nightAnd it's a wonder of nature, eighth wonder of the worldThat a man's got to chase her if he's gonna get the girlWhen a woman wants love, a woman gets loveAnd it's for sure she's gonna find it before the sun comes upGirls can get it, they pick and chooseGirls can get it, men are always in the moodIf she calls you for some loving in the middle of the nightShe can get a man running at the speed of lightGirls can get it, anytime they likeGirls can get it, a fact of lifeOh you know she'll find it easy, you know that she canIt's like givin' a little water to a thirsty manGirls can get it, anytime they wantGirls can get it, where a man often won't...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Most of my girl friends are quiet conservative sexually and wouldn't dream of being on an adult sex site and they would never in a million years understand the relationship you have with your husband. Accept it. We are unicorns :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
*holds hand up to forehead with index finger pointing to the sky in my best unicorn impersonation* I've only embraced who I am after leaving my ex. He was always intimidated by my sexuality and belittled me for it. After each wonderful encounter I've had since (and last night.... PPPPHHHWWOOOAAARRRR!) all I can say is .... well ..... just put 3 unicorns in a room together and see what transpires..... ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Isn't the term "Unicorn" specific to single girls wanting to play with couples?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why does it have to be MsD. A unicorn is used when you are describing a rare thing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
no shit, I got told that it was full lol so after they wrote to me saying please come to our swingers party...and I was going to bring a girlfriend as well I got a message to say , they had too many people bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah sniff sniff sniff I mean , they looked at my profile and then wrote to me to ask me to come? there I was neeked and driiving to the swingers, and got the call dont come, were full no room at the inn so I speed around and around the block till a nice policeman stopped me he said lady, go home and iron that birthday suit!
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RHP User
13 years ago
andsingle and learning ... And happy to share x
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RHP User
13 years ago
The real no strings attached, open minded, free spirited and well ... Just plain desirable.
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RHP User
13 years ago
MrsBom - have you ever read The Bride Stripped Bare, written by Nikki Gemmell? It's a semi-autobiographical fiction novel, and was originally written by Gemmell with the intent for her to remain anonymous, to allow for maximum 'openness' and 'freedom' whilst she was writing. It's an observation on those contradictions you hint at in your post, ones that women perhaps struggle with more than men - how to be a 'proper' wife, a mother, fit in with society's expectations.. and still get what she wants out of life, sexually. Why do so many women feel they can't be honest about their 'sexual' selves? The novel really creates more questions than it answers, but I found it an interesting read simply because it seemed to reflect some of my inner dialogue. I first read this during the last couple of years of high school, and I think it had an influence on the development of my ability to express my sexuality. Unfortunately it had a bit of a delayed reaction, as it didn't stop me marrying the wrong man and falling into the same 'trap' as the main character, however it certainly planted a seed which sprouted in later years, once I'd grown up a little and perhaps gained more confidence in myself.I prefer RHP to the 'real world' when looking for play partners. I find it easier, firstly because I get what I want (and hopefully visa versa!) and secondly because I don't have to worry about judgement (or worse, potentially violence) in pubs/clubs if trying to pick up people who aren't into this lifestyle. Quite a few of my 'real life' friends are aware of what I get up to, but only the ones who I feel are open-minded enough to deal with the information. I'm not ashamed of who I am or what I get up to, but I do know that there are some people who simply wouldn't understand. Thankfully, the number of people in my inner circle who I feel would struggle with the information is actually very small. It's not my job to change their minds!It definitely still seems to be a niche however. I can think of only one person that I've told that seemed somewhat uncomfortable with the information, everyone else was somewhere between nonchalant or very curious. However, NOBODY has said "Me too!!!"
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RHP User
13 years ago
What Meeka said is the same for me also...most of the women I know are also quite conservative sexually, and even IF they were single (which for most would probably never happen because even if their relationship is rubbish they show no inclination to leave), I very strongly doubt that they would even consider a site like this. For me personally, another reason for joining was that I wasn't meeting many people 'in real life', so I thought I'd give it a go, then met a few guys and had some good experiences, and it went from there. Lately I've also been thinking about wanting to expand my 'sexual horizons' so that was another impetus for joining up again. And living where I do, in a small city, there's not really much opportunity for single women in their 30s to meet other single people, particularly people who want to experience more than just vanilla sex all the time. So I thought, if I don't give it a go, I'll never know!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'paintme'The real no strings attached, open minded, free spirited and well ... Just plain desirable. That would be pretty much all of us!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have a huge culture of slut-shaming to overcome before the majority of women can allow ourselves the freedom to enjoy our own sexual empowerment. Keeps the minds closed and the numbers low, unfortunately. I think The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton should be in the high school reading list but I'm not gonna hold my breath. xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
They're on my book shelf next to my bible :-) I read the bride stripped bare in my late teens and perhaps missed quite a bit of what the book was truly about....in saying that, so much of it has stuck with me and I find myself thinking about it when being truly challenged about the moral implications of my lifestyle...Christian upbringing :S Anyways- I think what truly brought it in was listening to my foster daughter taking about a gf of hers at high school (year 12, 17yrs old) that ha a mfm threesome. Not sec mind, just handjobs simultaneously . But what they were saying!!! Oh. My. God. I was devastated...for this girl. Labeled straight away - I know kids are cruel, but geez. For whatever reason she had done it - wether it was peer pressure, or her own pleasure.... Dolly Doctor NEVER tackles this one!
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BigJLittleC
13 years ago
In my opinion I feel it comes down to wanting to have someone to share the experience with, it's all well and good for a single girl to meet a couple and have an enjoyable evening with them, but in the end she goes home alone where the couple get to debrief on what they both shared during it, find out what each other liked and didn't and work towards a better experience. Where the single girl then has to start from scratch again with someone else. Plus I can imagine it would be quite dunting for a single woman to meet a couple for the first time and to find out how stable thier relationship is and whether she is going to cause further issues or not. So I can see why it would be preferable for single women to find a partner first, someone who is like minded and go from there, hence the elusive unicorn. I know personally I've enjoyed sharing the experiences I've had on here with someone who we now know more of what each other likes and work on improving it :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Like most of you, most of my gfs are in solid relationships and when the conversation of sex comes up its generally them thinking of new excuses to avoid sex or them whinging about their partners wanting it too much. I've always known that I'm the horniest and kinkiest out of my friends and they'd be horrified to know of some of my adventures, which is why I relish the friends I've made online as we can see over a beer and compare stories without judgment. Over a dinner party recently the topic of bdsm came up and they were genuninely shocked that i knew all of the answers to the questions floating around the table ;) Men are genetically and physically pre-disposed to be sexual creatures, far more than women, thus they are far more likely to seek gratification in this way and to kink social norms to find other, more pleasurable ways to satisfy themselves. Women who explore this lifestyle for themselves and not just for the sake of their partner are genuinely unicorns :) And I don't think thats a bad thing ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had an FB at 16/17 years old, and we discussed openly the idea of a MFM threesome. Didn't eventuate because we couldn't find the right candidate (due to risk of judgement at the time and lack of RHP!), He was bisexual also and very open about it. BUT I never told anyone about it until years later. I think their reaction at the time would've been like your foster daughter's! Now it's normal. Although possibly less so for a 16 year old ;) I cannot work out why I am so comfortable expressing what I want. I don't come from a particularly liberal OR conservative household. I don't recall my parents talking openly about sex, I don't think I saw them nude after I was a small child. I didn't even know what a lesbian was until about 12 when my parents had to explain that my best friend's mum was one! So, no obvious major triggers there! I don't know why it is the case, but I'm glad that I am the way that I am!
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