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September 08 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Far out. You must know him some how? Some people are fuckwits and don't know when to keep their mouth shut. I rarely tell people my real name.
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RHP User
11 years ago
More than likely he was at a party or club you were at, however that doesn't matter!!! If your friends were definite as to where this information came from, then set up a fake FB account (with your pics) and ask "do we know each other ?"............ Nip this idiot in the bud.......... Good luck guys, hope it works out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No matter how you try to protect yourself. Anyone can see this site by not logging in. they can go to the forums page and see your picture. It is not rocket science. I have been recognized four times now while out in public. It can be very tricky and also the last thing we want is our family or friends to find out , if that is our choice. in the end we are all out there its the social network thing it can bite you all on the bum I have had people email me with my full name, my home phone and mobile and a picture of my house. the email started like this I am not a stalker...BUT the only way to do this is to not do this, if you do not want people to find out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why on earth would someone know so much about you?? It's almost stalkerish :/ I would approach him and tell him to stop talking... Don't know if it would work though :( Otherwise I would deny and remove any evidence. That's such a horrible situation- good luck. Xxviolet
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Innercircle
11 years ago
I think ill just ring him. He seems to take a lot of 'adult' photos so I wonder just how many people off here he is talking about. He told our friend he knows us via all the events we go to. We have absolutely never met this guy ever. He's a single guy from what we can tell, and we only attend couple events. So, I guess we will find out after a phone call! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd be FURIOUS! And would get in contact and give him a piece of my mind. Also the mutual scene friend or whoever it was who passed on info. Not ok!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
My solution: deny, deny, deny and say "Oh for fuck sake, is he doing that again? Last year he made up some story about a couple being into necrophfilia! You think he has Munchausen's?"
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Innercircle
11 years ago
No mutual friends spread any info. It was our close friend who told us this clown was spilling his guts, while she was being photographed for a modelling shoot. We are discrete, but have no issue with our friends knowing our lifestyle choices ON OUR TERMS. When that right, to tell or not tell our friends, is decided by someone we have never met, that is annoying. We will see how he responds, and if not extremely apologetic there will be absolute social media hell to pay. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Two_Tarts
11 years ago
We had a single guy that we have met socially at a couple of events happen to recognise us in a bar and point us out to the guy next to him and tell him that we were swingers who he knew from sex parties while offering to introduce him to us. Problem was that the random guy he was showing off to at the bar just happened to be the father of our daughters best friend from school and is most definitely not a swinger. Thankfully the dad from school has handled it very kindly and it has just become something we all pretend to forget ever happened, but it could have been much worse. The guy who rated us out got spoken to and was very apologetic but it just should never have happened. There are some things that you just do not have a right to share with the outside world and we would definitely be finding out who has told your friend and be having a quiet word with them about your right to privacy..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why there are those that live inside their heads.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
call him and tell him you had heard he was talking about you and if he does so again, you will flood his facebook about how unprofessional he is talking about private matters to clients and also get others to back up your claims.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have face pics on your profile and you describe things you like to do in your profile text. Anyone in the scene who happened to be at the same event as you could easily connect dots and have enough information about you to share stories with others. Maybe they embellish, maybe they suggest they know you more closely than they actually do. It happens. I don't believe he owes you any discretion, unless he is in fact a close friend with whom you have some kind of implicit or explicit agreement about confidentiality. And even then, how pure are we all really, when it comes to talking about others? If he's a relative stranger who has just crossed paths with you somewhere then his behaviour, while maybe unpleasant, is out of your control and, frankly, that's the risk you take by being on this site and being a swinger etc. IMO To all the people berating his actions, perhaps remember that next time you decide to gossip about someone ;)
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'Pink_Lotus' My solution: deny, deny, deny and say "Oh for fuck sake, is he doing that again? Last year he made up some story about a couple being into necrophfilia! You think he has Munchausen's?" That really actually made me laugh out loud! Thank you!!! x Me
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's a concerning situation. If this guy is a 'professional' photographer and he's shooting off at the mouth about you, then what the hell could he be doing with the images and photo's of the people he shoots?? Front him and hopefully he learns from it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Reiterate discretion is extremely important to you and that you'd appreciate in the future him keeping his mouth shut about the lifestyle. Him being single and with seemingly nothing to hide I guess it hasn't entered his head that others aren't in the same situation as him. If he's blabbed about you my guess is he has about others too. His conduct is extremely unprofessional (always a good word to drop if this guy is making money out of his photo shoots and not good for his reputation and future work). Is there anyway you can threaten to give a review of his photography work if he doesn't offer a remorseful apology? People often have weird ideas about discretion, it's extremely important to us and yet despite having had this conversation with people we have been burnt by the same people which just makes us extra wary of who we put our trust into.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To connect the dots. The first time I ran into my best friend after joining this site he fronted me about our activities. He's not a member but many ppl come and look for a gander and can put two and two together. We're not really concerned who finds out, as past the stage of having to worry about others, but it took me aback for a bit lol. Whether hes told my other friends etc i dont know. I work away so rarely cross paths with many people these days anyway lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lasttango' That's a concerning situation. If this guy is a 'professional' photographer and he's shooting off at the mouth about you, then what the hell could he be doing with the images and photo's of the people he shoots?? Front him and hopefully he learns from it. I am extremely careful. I do the shoot and I hand over the camera card. Or put it on a thumb drive and then delete everything of camera or computer in front of my clients. I never keep an image unless i have permission to keep it and use it for my art/photography web page. I never Photoshop any of my work at all. It is a breach of trust to do that what that guy did, but how many people are aware of all the hidden shots taken of them while at a play party? small cameras, mobile phones you name it. I once went to a swingers in a hotel room, I was not part of the even, just dropped a mate off and sat on the other bed for a while. I was actually watching the news on the TV in the hotel while ten people were fucking on the bed, and someone took a pictures but i did not release, i was often there in the background there i was in my office gear watching TV , it did look rather odd as i was not watching the bonking on the bed. But it was not good to know my pictures was going all over the place. Now I have to own it. I know once I put up a picture once I write on here, then it can and has come back to bite me on my saggy old bum. I just happen to have a very strict code of ethics myself when I work, many do not.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I try to be careful but have discovered 3 people I have randomly come in contact with on here that I work with. I do hope the information they have they will keep to themselves. It's no one else's business but yours - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
don't fight fire with fire, fight it with petrol!!
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