All talk - no action

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  Cheekyarses

  13 years ago

  They are called Time Wasters!! There are lots and lots of these "All talk - No action" ppl on this site.... on any site like this...It is wasting your time more so then wasting their time.I agree with you 'why look' or why even respond or send a message or a flirt, if they know very well that they are All Talk and No Action....Its very frustrating and annoying.....Great post btw xxxx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  What can happen, you talk to someone and you find out it’s not what you like after all. I don’t know, sometimes I talk to men and after a while they piss me of. I take a while to meet someone, when I made up my mind I will meet, and even then sometimes it doesn’t get to having sex, even it looked before we would rip our clothes of but being in the presence of someone it doesn’t work. Some people look at you and look at you never send a flirt or message and you think what the fuck are they looking at my profile….I ask one man, but he even was to shy to say anything. So don’t get angry or disappointed, it’s what it is, so many are on here just for a kick, pretending they would like to and spice up the fantasy they carry in there mind. I come to a conclusion so many men are on here because it is cheaper to speak dirty with some women and wank then ringing a paid worker. These males will never meet you, never. We are in the same boot, you get them we get them. Some men fascinate you, but you are too scared to meet these males. I am guilty of it too, why I am scared of meeting them? I have no idea, thinking about it. Maybe I don’t want to admit, they could be dangerous for my heart who knows. So there is no wrong or right we have all shades of people on here. Cheers Litonya

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  This is the reason why I do not become a paying member on any dating sites now.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  actually reside in a parallel universe,they enter through a gap in the RHP portal.....or perhaps they are twelve year old boys with a good vocabulary,or the male half of the couple,or they are chatting to other people and decided to have hot jungle sex with one of them. Human beings easygoing, love to consort with perversity...don't expect to understand ,just shrug and mooooove on.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hey thanks for your comments - I was guessing as much. I was thinking 'Is there some formula that actually works ie:- words/topics to avoid and then good ones to use?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'PassionateMoment'This is the reason why I do not become a paying member on any dating sites now. So whats the point if you can't email them?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  It is just you as you haven't taken anyone else's point of view & pointed out that blokes do it, too. "It" being time wasting. In the first scenario that couple were all action no talk, not all talk no action. Maybe they recognise you? You need to live up to your name & just be easy-going. If you want real issues, sign up as a female & try reading all the waffle that comes your way..but that's just being a rule breaker, so I'd expect you don't. No woman or couple is under any obligation to message you, they also have every right to view your profile unless you block them.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Sheezahandful'It is just you as you haven't taken anyone else's point of view & pointed out that blokes do it, too. "It" being time wasting. In the first scenario that couple were all action no talk, not all talk no action. Maybe they recognise you? You need to live up to your name & just be easy-going. If you want real issues, sign up as a female & try reading all the waffle that comes your way..but that's just being a rule breaker, so I'd expect you don't. No woman or couple is under any obligation to message you, they also have every right to view your profile unless you block them. Yep point taken. I fully understand that women get lots of crap messages on here. One lady I met went thru 6 'no-shows' before I turned up ... we had a great night although we didnt go home together ..yep I get u.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  But quite a few guys are all dork and no talk

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  All talk and no pork Pooh dear what a dork Hahaaa

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  There are more men in here than women, that means women( if they wish) can be choosy or wont accept anything less than they are looking for( whatever that may be). In the end if they choose not to meet, it is because u dont fit their criteria. But hey dont be dis heartened. There are plenty of more fish in the sea. So chin up and stay positive. And all the best of luck in your search. This is just my opinion, so dont judge me. And yes it is unfair about the Male to Female ratio, but shit happens!!! Its just the law of nature.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Well said Cheekyarses..

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  And imagine if the shopkeepers all came out bleating at us because we only window shop and never stop to buy. Would it make a positive impact on other observers who could be potential customers? I doubt it. Actually I don't mind the window shoppers and especially not if they are good looking. Today I sent a flirt to a guy who looks at my profile almost every day just to see his reaction. He's looked at my profile 4 or 5 times since I sent it. Think I'll go don my black satin gloves and take some new saucy photos to upload.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  we get that some guys think that if you look at their profile...its a promise to play....that if you politely say...'thanks for the message/flirt/whateve'r.....its a promise to play.....that if you have a conversation.....its a promise to play..... that if you dont say 'fuck off idiot' ...... its a promise to play...that if you indicate that there may be similarities in their wants to yours......its a promise to play....that if you say 'no thanks' 14 times..... its a promise to play.... the truth of it is, that there are no gurantees, and that even if someone says 'yes please'...things change....there are no 'promises to play' at any stage, and if your experience is like ours.... you may think you've found an ideal playmate, a dozen times in a row, only to be disappointed on meeting, on speaking over the phone, or on exchange of message or photo...we deal with it.... and move on, as we realise that its just how things go round here....

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  talk and no action... Its funny but I have met a couple of women on here and they have been action aplenty but I wasn't all fireworks over them sooo...   Sometimes its just not that easy to find someone that is a good fit for you.   Its all part of internet dating.   Mike

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