M40 F41
All talk, no action
May 04 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
A lot of attraction is personality, and yours scares me!
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RHP User
14 years ago
one thing you will learn from this site is tolerance and patience.... and the need not to yell.......then maybe you might find someone to 'fuck' you and your partner
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think not Welcome to the world of internet "dating"- we all have had your experience...all of us have encountered timewasters (ton of them), tossers, liars, dickheads, etc etc etc........its where cyber world and reality collide....and its best now if you learn that there are very few "real" , genuine people on here....it is what it is... But I have to say, that if there were any potential playmates out there at the mo, perusing your profile and then they flicked over to read your forum post ( which is attached to your profile) , you know ......to get a further feel for what your like .....YIKES...so much anger in one so young...and yeah Mrs Tri, your rite...scarey
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mrs Tri is correct,attitude goes a long way and if I was ...not just in my mind...but really, a 25 year old young woman reading this topic Austin ,I too would be scared. You are obviously very physically attractive, but maybe there are not many single women in your age range, wanting to play with a couple. Good looks will only get you so far,intelligence and a degree of charm, the rest of the way.XHugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chin up Jessie, unfortunantly you can sift through heaps of dirt here to find gold: people only looking, people who wish they could, those in a relationship who dont feel wanted, inactives ect ect. hang in there Jessie, meeting a likeminded stranger for sex is such a rush
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MrsTri' A lot of attraction is personality, and yours scares me! BWAHAHAHAHAHA! Best thing I've heard all day.Totally agree with the OP though. I wish to high fuck that I could fucking-well find someone to fucking fuck me, for fuck's sake!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes i agree with everything above -thats a way to aggressive post OP and not going to earn you any favours But to address the issue questioned... i have to agree with them... ooops! 1 - dont play games with me, im way too old to learn the new ones!!! 2 - dont ask me to see any pics when you clearly have none!!! and mostly importantly 3 - just read my bloody profile!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
While it would be great to have a magic filter that weeded out the rejects. Presenting you with a list of perfectly matched genuine profiles . Unfortunately you have to do your own filtering and this can be frustrating.You have control, save some frustration and don't wast to much of your time beating a dead horse. Try and put a little check list togeather of common traits you are finding with the fake time waster profile's. You will soon see patterns and become better at picking a fake from a genuine person.Once you have some idea of what profiles are worth messaging and you do get in contact or others contact you.lay out your rules of engagement early . For us we always need to see face pics, and if the other party-person likes what they see and we do to. Then next step is exchange numbers and meet in person .We don't get caught up in silly MSN diversions or 100,00000 small talk messages on RHP. We find this way if they are keen like thay say they are then they will get in contact , If they don't no loss as we have put the ball in there court. Anyone who try's to make it harder than it needs to be just gets very little or any of our attention and non of our time .It should be fun and easy and it is with the good genuine people.Stressing and getting angry on the forum doesn't give of the best vibe.Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
The problem is... sex and alcahol are so closely related... People go OUT of an evening, get horny, and hit on someone, OR fck anyone who hits on them.. No problems in this.. If they miss out, they come back.. get on the computer and RHP, and create a profile... thinking someone os going to materialize out of their computer to fck them straight away. Of course - well.. they contact people, and flirt and say things they probably shouldn't say, then sober up... and the OP gets pissed... Hang in there Jessie... eventually, you will find someone who wasn;t drunk when they set up the profile, or isn't drunkenly horny when they are contacting you, and you will hit it off... In the meantime, IF you bump into ANY FEMALE who MIGHT want to do an old cranky caveman.. flick them my way please... I could do with scoring on here.... *grins* caveman... waiting was our best weapon
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RHP User
14 years ago
hahaha I am the female in the relationship and I wrote this. RHP is advertised as a sex site and we pay money, we have been on it for 2-3 months and it's just annoying! I'd rather pay that money to a pro at a brothel, at least I know they are tested.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I get what you are saying OP..and basically it's what heaps have said before you. Even though there are a heap of female profiles that state that they want couples, when push comes to shove..( or even a polite " how are you" ) There is either no interest, no reply, no whateverrrrs.Don't be disheartend, you guys look uber sexy you will pick through the bogus profiles eventually. Can I say though and this is only a thought on my part but I do believe that the percentage of REAL SINGLE women looking for hot threesomes is such a small percentage on here or anywhere. I do not believe its an inate thing in a women to want to join in on some one elses party as such. Thats why i find it intriguing that men are all for MFF but not so MFM..just my thoughtsalways with a PS:In the end whilst its you guys as a couple and it should all be about the fun, it disturbs me when couples have this "it's all about US...and have a" joie de vivre" attitude.. no matter who you are bringing in to your world be it female or the maligned male , they should always get the respect they deserve.
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RHP User
14 years ago
just perhaps... you need to to go outside and put your hands down your pants and pull yourself together before posting in frustration. Just sayin
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RHP User
14 years ago
Everyone is entitled to Freedom of Choice and a lot on here go by Sexual Chemistry if it is not there even though the willing participants(future ones that is) are good looking, have excellent bodies and are horny as hell it doesn't necessarily mean others are attracted to them, and being angry abusive etc is only going to put people off, intimidating and putting people down simply because you are not their cup of tea is a major turn off, softly softly some people need coaxing and some are quite willing to jump in.
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RHP User
14 years ago
For some connection is a major selling point, if there is no chemistry, if someone tries to force the issue then gets abusive and angry because it is a one way street then you are only going to turn them away, some are bi curious but you won't win if you are too aggressive, they may want to test the waters gently and your attitude is only going to scare them away and who knows they might be very good in bed but being impatient and forceful you have missed your chance.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Bare in mnd, when you receive the"I think you're hot, what do you think of me flrt" -it's just an auto flirt sent when someone has rated your pictures.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and what does Jacob have to say on the matter?
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RHP User
14 years ago
thats scary,all that aggression cos you cant get a fuk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Guys by now you must have realised that only about 5% of people on here & other sites will actually lead to any bedroom fun. To add to that, the 'elusive female' will require a lot more patience and heaps of hard work from your side. That means putting in the time to make yourselves seem desirable + more.To weed out the fakes, limit messages to a few intro's, with no online chat & then move on to the phone calls, where you can really workout what you want to do with real people. Also, don't get tied up with profile pics - they are just abstract works of art.happy searching - Ed
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RHP User
14 years ago
Your attitude is a HUGE turn off.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Jessie, so really what you're saying is - "Who do I have to fuck to get a fuck around here?" Let me guess??! .. You're hate-fuckers aren't you? :-P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lighten up people, I think your hot and your Mrs too. If your ever in Darwin drop us a line...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Best thing I've heard all day. Totally agree with the OP though. I wish to high fuck that I could fucking-well find someone to fucking fuck me, for fuck's sake!this had me laughing !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Don't get me wrong I love making friends and I will talk to anyone and everyone. One of you said it, I was having a really bad day. You all don't know me but at least I don't hide behind anything (oh yeah we have faces in our pic) and what you see is what you get. Oh and I have a really bad habit of foot in mouth, but you don't know me so don't judge me. My dog died that day and I was upset and then I got a bit tipsy and angry frusturated jess came out. So don't be nasty. I wasn't aiming this at anyone in particular but you are aim crap at me. And no we don't have angry sex! Peace Out.
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RHP User
14 years ago
this thread alone is enough to scare off any prospective playmates..... congrats for that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...you did kind of paint a bullseye on your orehead with that OP.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...is even worse than the writing. Are you sure this is something you are both willingly participating in?Or has one of you been coerced?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Dont think thats going to help your cause...
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Innercircle
14 years ago
haha, all the old RHPers coming in here and getting all worked up over a couple f-bombs... awesome.Jacob, Jess, you guys will find a lot of genuine people if you start attending events and private parties... a good one coming up soon ;) Limiting yourselves to F and FF only is going to make it hard though...PS, Victoria now?!?!?!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jacobandjessie'Don't get me wrong I love making friends and I will talk to anyone and everyone. One of you said it, I was having a really bad day. You all don't know me but at least I don't hide behind anything (oh yeah we have faces in our pic) and what you see is what you get. Oh and I have a really bad habit of foot in mouth, but you don't know me so don't judge me. My dog died that day and I was upset and then I got a bit tipsy and angry frusturated jess came out. So don't be nasty. I wasn't aiming this at anyone in particular but you are aim crap at me. And no we don't have angry sex! Peace Out. Don't let the negative attitudes get to you hun...I agree with RockerCouple....try some events and private parties and see how you go there! I reckon that you and hubby and the Rockers should get together as friends...I just have a feeling you would get on great and they would be good friends! So sorry to hear about your dog...it is very hard when you lose them. Good luck with everything xox xFunlovingx
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
Ok first of all i understand your frustration but as nearly everyone has mentioned already it is NOT a good idea to post angry.Having looked at your profile i must say that if I was in your age range and what you were looking for i STILL wouldn't contact you because you two are as intimidating as hell!! (and i mean that as a compliment) you are both smoking hot but you don't have an 'approachable' vibe about you.also what you are after is a very specific criteria (nothing wrong with that) and therefore the number of ladies who fit that criteria in the first place is going to be low and then statistically of the ones who do fit only a very small percentage will be for real. It's just how it is.Rest assured that you are not alone in this situation pretty much everyone here is the same. What i cant understand is that couples are often on here complaining about lack of 'single women' to play yet I have found a sever lack of couples who actually go through with a meet themselves. Ok i am not single but i do have permission to play alone (as does hubby) and i have been trying for near on 12 months to find a lovely couple i could help out with a FFM and not once does it go anywhere. My criteria are simple, us ladies talk on the phone (they never call) we arrange a drink if all good off we go!! seems to me that in my experience the man does all the chasing and i never see the wife let alone speak to her but i have come to the understanding that at some point it will happen and when it does it will be worth it because i have not lowered my standards to achieve it.The best thing is definitely meet people in person at parties/clubs, this way people get to see the real you straight up and you can see them in the same light which eliminates a whole heap of time wasting.Best of luck in your search guys and hang in there,WBYM Ps sorry to hear about your dog
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'wannabyummymummy'Ok first of all i understand your frustration but as nearly everyone has mentioned already it is NOT a good idea to post angry.Having looked at your profile i must say that if I was in your age range and what you were looking for i STILL wouldn't contact you because you two are as intimidating as hell!! (and i mean that as a compliment) you are both smoking hot but you don't have an 'approachable' vibe about you.The best thing is definitely meet people in person at parties/clubs, this way people get to see the real you straight up and you can see them in the same light which eliminates a whole heap of time wasting.WBYM Ps sorry to hear about your dog Sorry WBYM but I don't agree with that statement at all...I "read" people's pics and I find this couple to be warm and approachable and also find that they are fiercely protective of their friends ... they are so in love and I can tell...very down to earth! Attractiveness has nothing to do with it...If people are intimidated by such a gorgeous couple then they have insecurity problems within themselves...it is the person within that counts in the end....and they are attractive inside and out! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just went and checked your profile Jacob & Jessie, you guys are gorgeous! I think it's rotten if you guys can't find what you're looking for. Rockercouple always have the best advice for couples so take their advice on board and hopefully have lots of fun.Oh and yeah, sometimes when you get flirts from the "Hot or not" feature people haven't even viewed your profile, so try not to get upset over those.Sorry to hear about your puppy.PS. There should be more tipsy forum posts :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Sorry WBYM but I don't agree with that statement at all...I "read" people's pics and I find this couple to be warm and approachable and also find that they are fiercely protective of their friends ... they are so in love and I can tell...very down to earth! Attractiveness has nothing to do with it...If people are intimidated by such a gorgeous couple then they have insecurity problems within themselves...it is the person within that counts in the end....and they are attractive inside and out!Yep - I agree, their pictures are smoking hot and not just due to the physcial, it's obvious how much they are into each other. There's no look of coercion to their pics at all. I wish every couple you see on RHP had the same vibe about their pictures.
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Sorry WBYM but I don't agree with that statement at all...I "read" people's pics and I find this couple to be warm and approachable and also find that they are fiercely protective of their friends ... they are so in love and I can tell...very down to earth! Attractiveness has nothing to do with it...If people are intimidated by such a gorgeous couple then they have insecurity problems within themselves...it is the person within that counts in the end....and they are attractive inside and out! Hugs...xFunlovingxI am not saying they are not lovely people and of course that is just my impression of their profile (more so than the pics) I have no doubt that they are completely into each other.As for the intimidation part I wouldn't say i was intimidated because of their attractiveness just from the general vibe (that I got) from the profile and from the original post.of course we are all free to agree to disagree
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RHP User
14 years ago
I really feel sorry for this OP .. Go take a look at the "angry profiles" topic for some posters with serious anger management issues..
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RHP User
14 years ago
if only 5% of people are for real on this site how come any of us bother? I think there is a bigger percentage of people willing to do something but they end up backing out after they realize that they are going to have to actually commit to what they say on-line. A little unfair to the people who are actually on here for the reason that this web site was created.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Naw thank you, nice poster's, my lanuage gets out of hand sometimes lol I'm glad i didn't write the c bomb like I normally do when i'm tipsy and upset haha. Please don't pass too much judgement on the both of us for something I said haha, please talk to us! I'm a huge dork and jake will tell you this, very dorky and awkward. Jake's a hotty but is my best friend and my partner in crime, we both equally want this and are 100% comfortable and understanding of eachother. Jake is currently in melbourne and I get there on thursday night and we would love to meet new people in the city we will be living in from now on. We are a tiny bit scared of the parties, If anyone from melb goes to any send us your number so we can maybe organise to go together, so it's a little less scary.
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RHP User
14 years ago
But why did you post something like this if you don't want to be judged? I do not understand. You've given everyone a set amount of information on you. Then turned around and gotten upset because they've taken that information and drawn conclusions from it? If you want people to think you're nice, post nice. If you want people to think you're nasty, post nasty. Simple. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Jess , totally get your frustration . It is tough to connect with the genuine profiles after filtering through all the fake, old profiles but unfortunately we all cop it and this site won't help. We have made numerous suggestion to this site to help its genuine members with not one implemented. Eg compulsory verification after certain time . Profile closed if inactive for 3 months. Sign on once a month minmum, or go invisible. Filtering ability to weed out non active or locked profiles . Re-verify every 12 months etc etc . If they helped their genuine members then their 2.5 million Members would be closer to 5000 ! And only 2% of that would be real single girls which makes your task even harder to near impossible. Then why do we all persist? Because on the rare occasion you meet and make some great friends but the process could be a Hell of a lot easier and "less frustrating" but the site is about making money not getting us laid, so hang in there and be berry berry patient :-))
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RHP User
14 years ago
+1 on all this.Tim Quoting 'Hebe1' Jess , totally get your frustration . It is tough to connect with the genuine profiles after filtering through all the fake, old profiles but unfortunately we all cop it and this site won't help. We have made numerous suggestion to this site to help its genuine members with not one implemented. Eg compulsory verification after certain time . Profile closed if inactive for 3 months. Sign on once a month minmum, or go invisible. Filtering ability to weed out non active or locked profiles . Re-verify every 12 months etc etc . If they helped their genuine members then their 2.5 million Members would be closer to 5000 ! And only 2% of that would be real single girls which makes your task even harder to near impossible. Then why do we all persist? Because on the rare occasion you meet and make some great friends but the process could be a Hell of a lot easier and "less frustrating" but the site is about making money not getting us laid, so hang in there and be berry berry patient :-))
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BronxxxGotSkillz
14 years ago
I have been messed around many times on this site by girls that are willing to lead you on while you boost their ego's, they never have any intention to meet up but will string you on with text messaging and emails. Even if their profile states they are not looking for relationships and just looking for hook ups this is not usually the case, Many are just looking for someone to tell them how pretty they are to fill a void in their boring lives! It would be freat if people could be straight up about their intensions, grow up, and stop playing games with other peoples emotions. While you make yourself feel better what do you think it is doing to the other person? Not just harmless fun, can be hurtfull and frustrating.
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RHP User
14 years ago
you get more fun from champagne than vinegar so weed out the frauds and have a good time
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
I'm an arrogant, loud-mouthed, attention-seeking snob online, but if you put me in a room full of people I don't know I will hide in a dark corner and shake like the terrified mouse I really am.I have asked couples in the past if I could meet the lady first 1 on 1 (so that I'm not as terrified of the incredibly hot couple with huge brains who want to rip my clothes off) but I have yet to chat to a couple who are actually open to doing that. To be clear I'm not asking to play with the lady first, I just want to meet and chat and see if there is a good vibe. I also think this is the best approach when the lady half is unsure if she wants to have sex with a woman (ie 'bi-curious') because it can become terribly uncomfortable if she decides she's not into women simply because she's not into me...Cheers,MS
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RHP User
14 years ago
You've been here 2-3 months and YOU'RE frustrated?? I've been here 2 fucking years I'm nearly bald for fuck sake!!! :p Seriously though I have been here 2-3 years, and while I don't get many replies, it doesn't phase me too much. The people you're finding obviously aren't worth your time so just move on.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would never fuck you or your partner. I'm a sensitive romantic. I don't have sex,fuck or make love..I MAKE FUCK!! I do appreciate your rant though Ms Jessie it may be confronting yet passionate and well there is a niche for that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Quoting 'MrsTri' A lot of attraction is personality, and yours scares me! BWAHAHAHAHAHA! Best thing I've heard all day. Totally agree with the OP though. I wish to high fuck that I could fucking-well find someone to fucking fuck me, for fuck's sake!I firmly in your cheek.
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RHP User
14 years ago
1. I have my own reasons for not putting up a face or body pic and those reasons have absolutely nothing to do with you at all. It is my business how I conduct myself and my profile. One of which is privacy. Body pic? Maybe I have many distinguishing marks. I am on here because I want to be. . 2. Once again, my profile states exactly why am on here...not that it is any of your business for that matter. . 3. Sometimes I flirt just because I like what someone has said in the forums...I guess I wont be sending any your way. Sometimes it is because I particularly like the way a profile is written. Sometimes it is just to be cheeky. . With an attitude like yours then I dont think you will be getting too many girls to "fuck you and your partner" My advice would be to start visiting the local brothel. Maybe a bottle of mouth wash first? . And no I dont feel the same way as you do.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65'I really feel sorry for this OP .. Go take a look at the "angry profiles" topic for some posters with serious anger management issues.. I was thinking the same.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Haha Mr and mrs geekthats how i feel as well, I think you have to gel with a person first yes I get that attraction is more personality, trust me this is how I have found all my partners and friends. I go for personality and Jake will back me up. (He looks at my ex's and says what were you thinking?) But I loved them for them, and looks had 0 to do with it. Hardtruckin2011 you made me lol :-). Skilful- I have been told i'm scary but only because I teach mma gf so I get a little passionate with classes. Handmaiden, I really don't care. Sorry. I will say it AGAIN! I AM SORRY I OFFENDED ANYONE. But I am up at 3am when this site is advertised and SEX SEX SEX is what it is advertised for. Oh yeah ms handmaiden I FUCKING LOVE GOING TO THE BROTHELS! the girls are mega hot.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Wow you paid money did you think that would entitile you to free sex?? I think most of us have learnt it takes time energy and we all have lives but when I want sex I seek it out and I succeed.This site is not always what everyone has in mind its what you make of it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
No this site is what the site advertises! geeeze now i am getting angry. If I wanted friends i'd stick to my facebook friends. This site is advertised as a SEX site! fb is free and this is paid for that is the basic thing I am saying. If I want sex (from a man as a single girl) all i would have to say is 'hey want to come back to my house' the vagina is a very powerful tool. But you're a woman so u would know this. On the other hand. I love females, I love meeting them, being friends with them, and taking them home, but when you meet a female in the street this is very intimidating and if they are drunk on top of that (being female myself) I automaticly think 'am I taking advantage of them?' So no, I didn't think this would be free sex, and quite frankly free sex scares me a little (or alot) but paying for myself and my partner to go to the brothel cost $500+ so I thought this was the place to find and become friends and take home that 1 in a million girl. Do you all get what I am saying? Can I not explain myself any more clear????
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hun, I got that in your original post that you were venting frustration, but when you wrote this.... this is a DISGUSTING attitude, and only goes to show your immaturity in this game. For example, If you go to an adult club you could pay $100 plus to gain entry as a couple THAT DOES NOT ENTITLE YOU TO HAVE SEX THERE, if you have no interest shown towards you, well that's just the gamble you take. Just because you attend a private play party.. THAT WILL NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL GET THE CHANCE TO PLAY WITH ANYONE. If you started sprouting and complaining at these events that you are getting knocked back, guess what?? YOU WOULD BE ASKED TO LEAVE! As a single lady who attends both kinds of play venues/events, who have played with couples, I find your whole attitude needs adjusting. Then you might get "lucky". Because that's what it is.. luck, not expectation.Anna Quoting 'jacobandjessie' hahaha I am the female in the relationship and I wrote this. RHP is advertised as a sex site and we pay money, we have been on it for 2-3 months and it's just annoying! I'd rather pay that money to a pro at a brothel, at least I know they are tested.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have Premium membership, but its not for messaging, although I get 5 per day, I rarely have to start off a new message as the replies to guys and couples who make the initial contact keeps me well and truly too busy. I'm only a paid member so I can go into the chat rooms!!!I know a lot of ladies don't pay membership, and most wouldn't realise that they can message a platinum member for free, but again I'll say it, ladies don't have to do the chasing so why would they message you? You have paid the big bucks in having platinum membership, you get 50 messages a day. I know when I'm talking to guy and couple members, they say they have to send out at least 20 messages to get 2 replies. So my question to you is, are you doing enough to be active in sending out your intro messages, what are your messages like? If they are "hey come fuck me and my man" for example you won't get many responses! I don't mind receiving messages like that from established friends on here! But not as an opening message.You have also mentioned that you have yet to attend a club in Melbourne because its a scary thought, how scary do you think it is for a single lady? Its actually worse going to meet a couple at their house cos lets face it, its 2 against 1. So you have to make yourselves non threatening, not pushy, go with the flow and see what happens we aren't expecting anything people.... But to be honest after reading your posts, I truly would be scared to hook up with you guys, simply because you are so expectant.. what? would you hold me down until you got your money's worth???I think its your type, who are the time wasters on this siteAnna
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redhotozz
14 years ago
Hi Guys - saw your post, and you do have a specific age range (25 - 30) and only want a bi-chick. Our experience is that finding bi chicks is one of the more difficult tasks on RHP, suggest that you could think of the following options.a) Broaden your age range to 20 to 35, but then sift to find ones you are interested in - there are damn fine looking 35 yr old bi ladies...think of the experience they have!b) Go to some parties (Debauchery, Stiletto's) where there are younger couples with bi ladies, many couples with a bi chick are happy for the girls to play, same deal, just sort out those who interest you, the guys get to watch, or play with their own lady at the time.Just something to consider, its really your choice. Nice Ink, by the way.
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
(stands up and applauds loudly)Thanks Annabella well put.Like you i took the original post as venting, then some nicer posts (somewhat apologetic) made me think maybe i had misjudged then yet another angry rant to show the true colors.I do find it interesting that there were some supportive people here defending the OP I must say i have to wonder if she was a less physically attractive person making such angry posts would people be so forgiving??? i think not!!! Quoting 'Annabella237' I have Premium membership, but its not for messaging, although I get 5 per day, I rarely have to start off a new message as the replies to guys and couples who make the initial contact keeps me well and truly too busy. I'm only a paid member so I can go into the chat rooms!!!I know a lot of ladies don't pay membership, and most wouldn't realise that they can message a platinum member for free, but again I'll say it, ladies don't have to do the chasing so why would they message you? You have paid the big bucks in having platinum membership, you get 50 messages a day. I know when I'm talking to guy and couple members, they say they have to send out at least 20 messages to get 2 replies. So my question to you is, are you doing enough to be active in sending out your intro messages, what are your messages like? If they are "hey come fuck me and my man" for example you won't get many responses! I don't mind receiving messages like that from established friends on here! But not as an opening message.You have also mentioned that you have yet to attend a club in Melbourne because its a scary thought, how scary do you think it is for a single lady? Its actually worse going to meet a couple at their house cos lets face it, its 2 against 1. So you have to make yourselves non threatening, not pushy, go with the flow and see what happens we aren't expecting anything people.... But to be honest after reading your posts, I truly would be scared to hook up with you guys, simply because you are so expectant.. what? would you hold me down until you got your money's worth???I think its your type, who are the time wasters on this siteAnna
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have read a lot of what has been said here (not all) and for what it is worth I have been with other couples, as a couple, from another site. My ex wife was a larger woman and we received only 3 or 4 invites to meet and had some wonderful experiences in doing so. others we met kept telling us about how they had only drama and problem play dates. All I can say is that with each couple we may not have been attracted to them if we walked past them in the street, they may not have found us attractive in the same forum, but start talking to a couple you know love to, and want to play, in the privacy of a bedroom and the whole night can lead to some wonderful experiences. I have been rejected more than I thought I would when showing my face photo. I am not unattractive and have had women hit on me at supermarkets, but some people are so judgemental that it almost doesn't make sense. Give the person your time, effort, energy and above all respect and you can be surprised. If you have trouble with a girl being nervous...let her choose a place where she is comfortable to be. best not to have her somewhere she may start to stress. You seem ready to go in a moments notice, but she could be out of her comfort zone anywhere but the beach! Start there, start a friendship, have some fun and if it goes further to a second round plan something different at your place. The hardest part is making them feel comfortable, the rest is easy (no pun intended, but we are on a sex site anyway). cheers.
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RHP User
14 years ago
This would seem like the rantings of a pretty girl used to getting what she wants and this time its not happening welcome to world of 99.9% of guys on this site. We get the girls and couples all keen to meetwe turn up to the meeting place as arranged no other party there so you go home try to contact them only to find you are blocked so all i can suggest is harden up princess and get over it .
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fuck fuck fuckity fucky FARRRRRKKKK, such a well written forum topic, really made me feel like writing a well thought out response NOT!!! So sick of everyone thinking that what they think this website is IS. WELL IT ISN'T! fuck ahy! fuck me? nah fuck slippery Quoting 'slippery_halo' Quoting 'MrsTri' A lot of attraction is personality, and yours scares me! BWAHAHAHAHAHA! Best thing I've heard all day. Totally agree with the OP though. I wish to high fuck that I could fucking-well find someone to fucking fuck me, for fuck's sake!
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RHP User
14 years ago
think these guys had their say.....toned things down and explained the background behind the original topic, and its wording........ease up just a bit, and read all the postings, before breaking the caps and the criticisms out.....its all good.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Kinky_Charlie' FG- what are you waiting for...? ....I wil pay the plane ticket to Melbourne for you..... ,....LOL... It's actually a ticket to Brisbane but I'm still very grateful, wherever I live! I knew if I just stuck around long enough someone would eventually take pity on me and donate the necessary plane ticket to get me laid.
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RHP User
14 years ago
MrsTri - best two posts in a row now! Hahaha Refreshing to see others responding to this madness. A
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jacobandjessie' No this site is what the site advertises! geeeze now i am getting angry. If I wanted friends i'd stick to my facebook friends. This site is advertised as a SEX site! fb is free and this is paid for that is the basic thing I am saying. If I want sex (from a man as a single girl) all i would have to say is 'hey want to come back to my house' the vagina is a very powerful tool. But you're a woman so u would know this. On the other hand. I love females, I love meeting them, being friends with them, and taking them home, but when you meet a female in the street this is very intimidating and if they are drunk on top of that (being female myself) I automaticly think 'am I taking advantage of them?' So no, I didn't think this would be free sex, and quite frankly free sex scares me a little (or alot) but paying for myself and my partner to go to the brothel cost $500+ so I thought this was the place to find and become friends and take home that 1 in a million girl. Do you all get what I am saying? Can I not explain myself any more clear???? Sorry to be the one to tell you what you signed up for....(Available under the "Terms of Use" Link at the bottom of any page)this is copied and pasted from RedHotPies's own Media KitAvailable in pdf format in the Media section."So what’s so awesome about RedHotPie? Well imagine your favourite onlinecommunities with the sexy turned up to eleven! That’s what we’re all about inPie Land, and with the features on offer it’s no wonder the numbers are going upfaster than Hef’s Viagra bill! We’re talking seriously fun stuff including webchat,live member forums, amateur pics, Date Finder, competitions, Date Doctors,messaging, flirting, parties and events guides, polls, news and entertainmentarticles, celeb interviews, monthly newsletters and a whole lot more."
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RHP User
14 years ago
You must be very very sexualy frustrated ... Sorry but your attitude is bloody awful. You are acting as though people on here have to *fuck* .. no .. no .. This is where mature persons come to share their sexual interests and to also socialise and meet like minded people and IF they want , they welcome intimate encounters.
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