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All systems go

February 23 2014

When going for a meet and greet to evaluate whether or not I would get nekkid with the other person, I normally would meet in a public place like a pub or bar. Sitting across the table from the other person, I wait for this urge to come upon me - the urge to jump the table and do the other person then and there. I get visuals of me jumping the table and riding and grinding myself on him/her in front of everyone. I have found that if I went ahead and did the horizontal tanggo with the other person without "the urge", it always ends up being unsatisfactory. Besides the other person turning up, how do you know when its all systems go for you? Do you have some thing/feeling/mood ring/etc that lets you know when its right for you? Is it any different if you went ahead without this thing/feeling?

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madotara69

12 years ago

dewata, if we happened to be at a nearby table and saw you crawl over the setting to jump some lucky guys bones right there in the open. We would feel out of place if you scorned us for having a bit of a perve. Popcorn? Mado Tara xx

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RHP User

12 years ago

pretty much exactly the same for me. I almost always know during a first meet if I want to fuck someone, because I'll start thinking about it even while we're talking.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'Luckdragon23'pretty much exactly the same for me. I almost always know during a first meet if I want to fuck someone, because I'll start thinking about it even while we're talking. Mostly. Though sometimes I won't decide until the next morning, especially if there was alcohol involved on the night. I never sleep with someone on the first date, and find that works for me. Though I have to add that I will never sit across the table from someone, it's just not intimate enough for me. Should we find ourselves on opposite sides, I will move my chair to sit a bit closer.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I think we all know within minutes of meeting someone if that chemistry is present. Unfortunately it doesn't guarantee a great union every time.

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RHP User

12 years ago

If there is no urge there is NO GO. Whether it's jumping the table or arranging a second or 3rd date, I have to feel the connection. For me it's usually if I can't take my eyes off him, feeling the need to kiss him, or just staring into his eyes while he talks. If I feel the urge I usually find myself thinking, "Shut up, and kiss me so I can feel if you make my toes curl".

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RHP User

12 years ago

My time is precious, so I strive to know most of what I need to know at during phone conversations, and then when I make the decision to meet someone..... The rest is merely confirmed (or not) in person.... but I won't go there at the first meeting. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

If she's agreed to meet me, and she turns up , and she is actually a woman (or a passable cd/tv) I'll probably have the urge. Perhaps I'm being slightly hard on myself, I'm actually about 3% more discerning than that!

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MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

After today I am OVERWHELMED, not WHELMED! ;) Chocolate mud cake eyes - AGAIN! Lunch was delicious! The URGE was....... Foxy was a good girl today. XX

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RHP User

12 years ago

You tart!

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Paradisepair

12 years ago

Just a glint in the eyes, the right glint, combined with the right mental image...

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'Luckdragon23'I almost always know during a first meet if I want to fuck someone, because I'll start thinking about it even while we're talking. I just had THE hottest date in ages.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Hottest first date in ages.

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MsSuperFoxy

12 years ago

Quoting 'Meander' Hottest first date in ages. then met up again today for lunch. Foxy

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RHP User

12 years ago

I cant hear a word they say, but I cant stop looking at their lips and want to kiss.I know as soon as they walk towards me. Its instant for me. no amount of being nice, or good looking or charming or what ever I am primal in my need. Its instant attraction or none at all

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RHP User

12 years ago

There wouldn't be any scorning happening. I would be busy being a cowgirl. Just pass me some of the popcorn. I would find something useful to do with them

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On_Safari

12 years ago

Quoting Lady Tuscan : "when they talk I cant hear a word they say, but I cant stop looking at their lips and want to kiss. I know as soon as they walk towards me. Its instant for me. no amount of being nice, or good looking or charming or what ever I am primal in my need. Its instant attraction or none at all" I like an easy, flowing conversation and yes I watch them, the way their lips move and they use there hands/body whilst chatting. Aesthetics help but they aren't the be all and end all. If I'm into you I'm into you and, if the interest turns out to be mutual; there'll definately be a second meeting, followed by a 3rd and so on and on and up and down we go 😍

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RHP User

12 years ago

Mrs Alf here I sometimes cant help myself, we have met single guys and girls before and I jumped the gun on occasion. Once in the back of our car myself and the hot sexy girl we met up with were practically naked before we arrived at the hotel car park.We ended up having to get dressed to get in the lift and poor hubby had the biggest hard on to disguise.

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