M55
Age Discrepancies
September 15 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have, once, she said she was twenty nine, turns out she was thirty four eventually...lol and you know what.....who cares!....lol....not me! I, like lots of guys, take women at face value, its not how old they are, its who they are that attracts me.Do they do it because of their own insecurities or do they think they need to appeal to target age group?I reckon women on the whole are a lot more ageist than us blokes.....i have no idea why....but there ya go! Of course i am generalising! lolCheers... Epsteins mum!
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me personally.....if people are not truthful about their age group, then what else are they not truthful about? But it's attitude I go by, not what their actual age is. Age sounds so much better when it's grouped, like "late 30's to early 40's", "mid 40's"...etc...well thats what I think anyway. Jx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have contemplated dropping off 5 years from age of 50 but at the end of the day, I am hoping that people will be pleasantly surprised what they will see :-)
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Quiserasera
15 years ago
i've put as my actual age of 48 on my profile now because I had people not believing that was my actual age and not the early 40's they thought I was, so you can't win either way
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RHP User
15 years ago
but clearly state Im older in the profile .... As I have indicated in a post some time ago .. I just prefer men that have a young look about them.. personal preference but I do always tell them as soon as Im messaged .. sassy xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
well im 41 n my hubby 61 ppl dont want to know us this site coz of his age we have had women saying he 2 old which i find alaod of shit,age shouldnt matter its the person,that matters.he does look his age.but coz women wont look at us i have taken his pic of ou profile 4 the reason..there r heaps of guys on here that r much older than my hubby.i have looked.i just think its wrong i dont care how old u r as long as u know how to treat a girl...thanks rednwetpussy....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is just a number, Truth is as long as it moves, and close your eyes xxxxsexxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
As long as you are both happy and the sex is great why worry about snob's (up them)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Rednwet.....the only consolation you can take is that eventually the people rejecting you because of your age, will also be rejected because of their age!and on and on it goes!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just looked at your profile.... Its not age its because you are straight Unfortunately there are not too many swingers here that are happy with straight partner swapping. Todays fad is couples with lesbian tentencies.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nah rednwetpussy ....not many swingers out there! Its not age its because you are straight. The fade now is couples with Lesbian tentencies compulsary. xxxxsesxxxxxx.......swapping partners
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sure it's only a small untruth but what else are they hiding !!!! I'm 39 and i don't care who knows it, maybe I am too honest for my own good sometimes
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RHP User
15 years ago
we really r a nice couple ok i have had guys but i only have 1 who i play with on my own.i feel bad that my hubby cant play with girls.maybe if the the tables were turn how would they feel.we have had made sum good friends on here but i really want to get off here but hubby says no stay on.he doesnt look his age he is so sweet n kind.i have b told its me the guys love i am fun to be a round i get along with every1 n thats what my hubby says.they c that in me n want me.but i have had my bad 1s they cum here we play they say hay we catch up again n guess what i never from them again...all want is my hubby 2 enjoy what i do his age should not b a turn off 4 any1..... xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
it shouldnt matter that we r straight we r not changing 4 no1 on here ppl should take us how we r...or not at all...yes we play...we 4 realjust read my file n u will c...
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Quiserasera
15 years ago
I think a lot of it doesn't come down to age, more the fact that people don't know exactly what they are looking for and find any reason they can to say no thanks.They ask for the perfect match but fail to look in the mirror at themselves instead of just looking for good company and whatever comes with it
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RHP User
15 years ago
RednWet, You would have to agree 20 years is a big difference between both of you. Are you willing to play with couples in the 55 to 65 age group?? We have been turned down on age when both of us were younger than the ones saying they wanted younger,,,figure that!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Think redhotpussy just needs to shut up and read other posts or does she not understand??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Couples look for 5 -10 yrs younger than themselves and of course they just havnt had time to update their profiles for the last 2- 7 years! The bottom line is are we willing to play in plus our true age group by 5 yrs as a guide. Which group is window shopping?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Would be better if you could just enter your year of birth then it would automatically update Some of us have been on RHP for a number of years might accidently (on purpose) forget to change our age
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RHP User
15 years ago
swingersnsw... we r happy to play with ppl who r older we dont have a problem with ppls ages..we look 4 what we c in a person....i dont care what age u r as long as they do the job im happy..
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RHP User
15 years ago
i hope that wasnt aimed at me thommy2..tho we had sumthing going...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'thommy2'Think redhotpussy just needs to shut up and read other posts or does she not understand?? Who the hell is 'redhotpussy', I looked and looked but could see no post under that name. Maybe the pot who is calling the kettle out should check prior to hitting the button to post!
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RHP User
15 years ago
To a lot of couples if your straight, many many couples like to engage in Bi play, be it either one or both partners. Personally i don't mind if the guy is straight, because i have a regular guy playmate, but 95% of the time Kj will say No thanks if the fem is not Bi.It also works the other way, many straight couples won't go near a couple that includes a Bi male!I might also add that quite a few guys who proclaim to be straight aren't !.....not that we mind....lolCheers Nev
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
I find it amazing the number of people I see on here who are complaining about not being able to get partners because they are too old, too young, too fat, straight, bi or whatever. Is it really that hard? Or is it more because we don't just take no for an answer and move on. Does it really matter if we can't find a partner every time we feel the desire for a play? If no one in interested or available surely as enlightened people we can dream up something to do between ourselves for the evening? Isn't playing meant to be an extra curricular activity? Why do people act like they have the right to have an additional partner who meets all THEIR criteria fall into THEIR lap just because THEY have stated the wish to have one? Why does it piss them off when they discover that no one out there is exactly where they are at and THEY don't meet OTHER people's criteria??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just went to look at your profile Rednwet, why is it that everything for the fella is "ask me" that always make me suspicious, and that is the point where i would hit the back button. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
to nevand kj the reason why i have put that on 4 my hubby is coz he asked me to do it .he is 61 n no woman is interested in playing with him coz of his age.i also had a pic of him but he asked him to take it off. that is way he wants it...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'lord_lady69' I find it amazing the number of people I see on here who are complaining about not being able to get partners because they are too old, too young, too fat, straight, bi or whatever. Is it really that hard? Or is it more because we don't just take no for an answer and move on. Does it really matter if we can't find a partner every time we feel the desire for a play? If no one in interested or available surely as enlightened people we can dream up something to do between ourselves for the evening? Isn't playing meant to be an extra curricular activity? Why do people act like they have the right to have an additional partner who meets all THEIR criteria fall into THEIR lap just because THEY have stated the wish to have one? Why does it piss them off when they discover that no one out there is exactly where they are at and THEY don't meet OTHER people's criteria?? Once upon a time, we met people in person first, experienced and related to that person in some capacity....now it's all about data analysis! Before we have even met them! The computer says "no"...lol Jx
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
Quoting 'OneBrightStar' Once upon a time, we met people in person first, experienced and related to that person in some capacity....now it's all about data analysis! Before we have even met them! The computer says "no"...lol Jx Yes Onebright you are very right. So many times we look at a profile and think "Well this doesn't tell us anything we need to at least talk to them because they seem like nice people." Yet we are stuck with the internet and computers.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'lord_lady69' Quoting 'OneBrightStar' Once upon a time, we met people in person first, experienced and related to that person in some capacity....now it's all about data analysis! Before we have even met them! The computer says "no"...lol Jx Yes Onebright you are very right. So many times we look at a profile and think "Well this doesn't tell us anything we need to at least talk to them because they seem like nice people." Yet we are stuck with the internet and computers. Don't I know the truth of that statement! It's how I met my partner/ fiance - his profile told me nothing, but a 2 hr phone call told me everything! / But I reckon you have a good point in your previous post....people looking for perfection. I think the reality is that we live in a world of shared information and understanding. The challenge is not to know it all, but to know how to know..ergo, your statement "well this doesn't tell us anything we need to at least talk to them because they seem like nice people". Good post :) Jx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Having spent a few weeks corresponding with a fellow RHP ooze pondie we finally decided to talk via the phone. All went well so we decided to take the plunge and meet.His profile stated he was 41, a little younger than I feel comfortable with & height listed as 5'7, however he seemed genuine so why not give it a shot? I could barely conceal my shock when he arrived, not only was he not the dark haired man of his pic he was significantly shorter than me. At 5'6, I towered over him! He admitted he lied (oh really??!). He'd just turned 50 & barely made the 5'ft mark. I understand why he felt it necessary to shave a few yrs off his age (age discrimination is apparently rife around here) however 9 yrs is a bit over the top. As many have said on Forum previously, where there is one lie, theres likely to be others & this was definately the case. He completely misrepresented himself, in all aspects from character to intentions. I hope he learnt his lesson, however, I sincerely doubt it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
My age has bothered me in the past and so I lowered it in my profile. Mainly hoping to be seen in more searches. Never entered my head to READ my profile lmao. There it was...my real age. Then I realised nothing comes to those who wait. Paid my membership and started sending messages. Now my profile is there for those who I contact, to check out and that obviously includes my PG. My aim is to meet people so what is the point of lying. WYSIWIG. OBS put it very well, people use the computer as a filter..to my way of thinking it is they're loss. Attraction is not purely physical and whatever statistics I put on here will not change the way I look. But as myname points out there is the shock of the meet. Why lie when the first meet is going to be a so vastly different to what they were expecting to see.
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boots_69
15 years ago
At 41 this year I just find it amazing that all of a sudden I am no longer compatable for those looking for some aged to 40.But I think its all about how you connect not the age have had great nights out with both 19yr old and 65 yr old ladies and would go out with both again.Boots
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
...what you see is what you get! Our photos are as we look & we list our ages truthfully which can sometimes go against us..oh well. Those that are overly strict on ages will eventually get their turn in older shoes LOL !! We personally don't discriminate against age..we have a ball park figure of course but will go outside that, if the people have looked after themselves & have a great attitude & youthful outlook on life.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think ageism is a load of bollocks. It's mainly about your life experience and how you look after yourself inside and out. My last partner was ten years younger than me and we had an amazing relationship. Now she did want an older guy and I, a younger girl, but neither or us knew the distance was so great. If we were judging each other by numbers on the internet, she might not have searched in my age bracket, and we might have missed a magical two years together.Also, as we are on a site that has a pretense of getting sex, many people are largely concerned with looks, so I think if you need to make it a couple of years up or down to hit the age bracket that people generally judge you as in real life, it could be reasonable to do so. If you change it to a point that it's not representative of how old people generally judge you for, or if it is no longer a reasonable indicator of how much life experience you may have had, then it is getting into the realm of unacceptable dishonesty...Personally I like people who are not so shallow to be scared by a number, and I hope these people would open up their search criteria by a bracket either way when using RHP anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to admit that for a few years I lied about my age. In fact I lied about my age when I first contacted the lady who ended up being Mrs O a couple of years later. The reason I did it was because I was finding people to be very judgemental, and (being totally honest) I didn't relate as well to people my age as I did to those who were younger. It was only a couple of years ago that I came clean, and to my surprise it hasn't made hardly any difference. I do think that's now because I have a gorgeous younger wife to help me out though! lol Mr O
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've never understood why people freak out about age? you're as old as you are and it doesn't bother me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm actually only 18, but women always seem to prefer more mature guys, so I added 30 years to my age on my profile.Okay, that's not true, but it provides me with an opportunity to share one of my favourites lines when a younger woman asks my age - I tell her quite faux-coyly that I'm closer to 30 than 20. It often gets a laugh and lets her know that I'm not at all self-conscious about my age, so if it's not a big deal to her, we move on.Age is a silly measure of who a person is, but many people can't get past it. Of course, you're always more likely to hear that from someone whose getting up there in years...
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RHP User
15 years ago
People lie about alot more than there ages on here. I think alot of couples can't be honest with themselves let alone others. Other than that I couldn't care less how old someone is if the chemistry is there. Mrs xox
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