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Age!
January 02 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi there cheeky arses i agree with your comment about older guys i am 60 and still can keep up and satisfy women in their 30s and 40s i can usually keep it up and cum at least 3 times a night
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is so much to enjoy about us older guys cheeky !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
whats best for us is our own ages...give or take 5 or so years..... we enjoy the company of people with whom we have the most common....and thats always going to be those from our own age group............
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RHP User
13 years ago
I seem to be finding myself, more often than not, playing with those who are older than me (5+ years). Up to 15 years older than me in one case. For me its because they have had more experience than most younger ones and are less likely to want to indulge in acts that Ive already under taken before, Im less of an experiment for them, something to cross off their fucket list and are also more likely to be willing to take the time to help me achieve an orgasm than younger guys. Of course this is not a hard and fast rule but just a general observation from my own experiences. Oh and this includes both men and women. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's what's between their ears.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
With was 59. She didn't look a day over 35 in my book, and holy crap, what a whole lot of fun...she is/was a sex worker that worked at a brothel I went to once.
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RHP User
13 years ago
So I guess that around forty-five (plus or minus twenty years) would be fine by me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...when the OP is so very right.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't know what it is but for me right now but YOUNGER does it for me...as in no more than 10yrs.. any younger and I'd feel like their mother..... I think cause I feel good, have heaps of energy and feel young at heart?? Don't know??? just like them..yet they are immature mentally. I've always been with men older and now I just don't get turned on by them-physically.. Sorry older men but when I look all I see is beer guts, shreek feet and bad dress sense...but mentally conversations are great!!! Call me shallow...am yet to be convinced- if opportunity came tho and Connection all round then yeah would go there.. Sheeze can't win right now....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I recently changed my age preferences from 30-50 to 40-55. Thinking of possibly going further and starting from 45 onwards. Not always true, but for the most part, they have the maturity, confidence, self awareness and know how to respect a woman and usually have decent manners, and yes can hold a conversation which isn't always about themselves or their cock. Some are masters of the art of seduction.....yummy! SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
uSeems to be a trend lately for younger women wanting more mature males. Almost half of the women who check out my profile are now aged 30 - 40. Those l get to chat with make it clear of thier desire to be with or try a mature male. Maybe the tide is turning and the cougars are getting a run for their money... lol...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to agree that the maturity of people over 40 is very refreshing. Not that I pick people based on age, apart from people under 25-30 that is. I do not get involved the young as they still have not developed any emotional security. Tried it when I first started online dating some years back. But OMG that was a mistake. If its to be a casual encounter/date I don't want to spend weeks having to deal with their emotional up's and down's. Did not really like them in the first place.Conversation is what does it for me, and the awkward batter of the young is just a bore. Living at the UNI I have to deal with a lot of young people. But then I remember what I was like at that age. Cringe. I have also hear from the ladies, that men don't grow up till way over 40. Some profession successful men seem to be emotional cripples. This is a generalization of courseSo go for us over 40's. I still feel like a kid, and my dad at 85 tells me the same. Life starts at 40 but i'll be back at 50 to say the same I think...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Geez! Ive gotta wait awhile then to age.... gracefully :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
From ButlerStigs perspective a comparison can be drawn to the original question from a males perspective. I find it far more interesting mentally to be with an older women, late 30's to early 40's. The conversation flows easier, I find it easier to be myself and non pretentious. You judge not the book by it's cover but by the words within it's pages The bonus on top of the mental attitude, the physical game play is arousing as all hell. No inhibitions, just raw carnal sex and you can not only enjoy the serious element to it but the ability to laugh during and after, adds to the experience.
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
(MrsPP) Started when I was 16 and continued on from there. But since we've been playing late 20's is about as young as I want to go and like CheekyA I find I am preferring the company of those closer in age, 35+.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's all in the name what more can I say other than 20yrs ago I would never have thought 50 was such a hot place to be.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Older men definately mmmm my parnter is 10yrs older than me and OMG!!! on all levels, mentally, spiritually, emotionally and PHYSICALLY!!!! nuff sed
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RHP User
13 years ago
Over a few yrs online dating I have met with 3 guys one I was a fuc buddy for a few yrs,was a constant battle as he drank too much for confidence and by the time it was to party he couldn't keep it up, the other 2 were 49 and how embarrassingis it is when they are impotent,they build themselves up saying they are so great in bed. The young guys I have met are mostly gentleman and it is good sex. Recently i met a guy and yes he has trouble sometimes with erection,but he i a smart man,he wants to please me,so lucky me,I can have all the fun I want as he thinks I am sexy. He is a nice guy and a pure gentleman so improvision,he welcomes others to join his goddess. So I can have my cake and eat it too,woo hoo. Taken a few years to find him,but now the party He is 52, that is my oldest! you never know they say,so be open and happiness may find you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I me more then 3 guys just 3 guys I felt were oldies,yes i know i am older.
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RHP User
13 years ago
When I was single and not looking for anything long term then guys my age or younger were my preferred playmates. That was until I met an older guy with a younger outlook and now I'm not single anymore
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RHP User
13 years ago
He said he was 21 but he was 18 actually. He said he was 57 but ,,,, Doent matter, If you get on well with a person then... things happen.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Look for men a little younger than myself, as men my own age tend to have erectile dysfunction. I i guess if I were looking something more permanent then I would have to look more To my own age bracket. Suppose that would mean little blue pills as I like lots n lots n lots.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I got to a friends Christmas Eve party. There is an engaging young woman, we strike up a conversation.Two hours later I invent the term Intellectual Chemistry.We move to the privacy of a rug someone has spread in the shadows of the back lawn. Although I never get that "Please lean in and kiss me" signal from her, we are still , slowly building a connection of some sort.Just after 11pm she suddenly says "Wow, your nearly 45!""No Dusty, I'm much older than that"..I see her body language change a little..~sigh~See me by the way I look, act and think. Not by the number on my birthday card!! It’s a little galling to think I've been generalized against the average 50 year old. Bloody generalizations!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to admit in my experience age is nothing more than a number. If the person has the outlook of a younger person cool, most women comment on the fact I do not look my age, that is due mainly to good genes and knowing how to take care of myself when i was a young pup. No smoking or drinking to excess, no drugs or doing stressful things that can come back and haunt you later. Having the stamina isn't an issue if you do some form of exercise, mental sharpness is still there due to the creative work I do. Being at 50+ has it's bonus , we tend to listen more than talk, years of conversations has taught this lesson and knowing what a woman wants is a definite plus due to our experience. I tend to deal with women from age 39-54, initially I found most woman in their 50's to have decided to "retire" from life, they figure "hey husband gone, kids are gone, done my job, now I can relax". However, there are the few that have taken the opposite approach to retiring by getting out and playing, enjoying life to the fullest with new adventures. Those are the ones that are having the time of their life... even learning some new tricks.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We like to stick to people around our age as its a lot more fun and a better under standing with them too....Just find don't have a lot in common with people under 45, and friendship in very important to us, sex is just something we enjoy.... GT
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1playfulcpl
13 years ago
we have played with younger an older all have there good b bad we find just see wat the moment brings regardless of the age
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RHP User
13 years ago
A few years back, my preference was 55+, it wasnt about the number it was about their outlook, the generation they were born in, and although the age said something it was about the person, they needed to also be lively, virile not sitting in a rocking chair! As I am getting older, I am finding that as each year goes by, what was about an age difference of 20+ years, I seem to be interracting with more men closer to my age, younger or older. Those who were older that generation are getting too close to the rocking chair and less are still as active as they were when I was younger.... so as my age changes, without any reason, the age of the men is changing with me. Bottom line, its not the number for me, but the number has significance, so if I was talking with a 70 male and they looked much younger, acted younger etc then the number wouldnt be what influenced me. He would be what influenced my attraction ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
if only the 50 yr olds had bodies like the 35 year olds.........id be in my element
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'" It’s a little galling to think I've been generalized against the average 50 year old. Bloody generalizations!!" I resemble that remark ! Not really average makes my skin crawl.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Blindman - you are a breath of fresh air!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Heehe, nothing surprising in that. Us old farts are fuckin' hot.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'CheekyArses'Blindman - you are a breath of fresh air!!! I just farted.
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RHP User
13 years ago
They know how to please a woman none of this wham bam thank you mam!
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RHP User
13 years ago
My lovers range between 24 ( one of my current fwb) and 52(my husband) most of my men are between these ages but my preference is 32 to 37 as there is no relationship going to happen and its just pure sex for me. sometimes the hot young ones are fit and I get my girlfriend to tag team with me. In my studio there are two other women I paint with, not on rhp and we share paints, canvas and men. They like younger men , as they do not want a relationship and its less complicated if its kept as FWB. I guess it depends what your looking for, no way would I be with my lovers out of bed. Even though they often say lets go out to dinner or coffee. The guy who is 24 has the brains of a person much older and is willing to listen, unlike some of any age. We have the trifuckter test if a guy fucks the three of us,(one at a time) and he only satisfies himself then its a NO from all of us we give him a fair shot, and with some history repeats its self over and over. If he passes he then gets on the fuckit list. some men just need a lesson in how to please a woman and not themselves all the time. a lot of young men are like that and it will serve them no good in the future as if you do not bother to learn along the way, then your wife will soon tire of your selfish crap in the future. age has to do with attitude as well. am I treating men like meat? maybe I am but they are not crying about it
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Jensman I thought I could smell something - lol xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm finding myself steering away from younger guys....yeah they might have a hot body but most of them are just too selfish, immature, and frankly irritating, and there's no decent intellectual stimulation (to me a very important component of sexual attraction). Even a lot of guys around my own age are still all about themselves and how great they are and why you should just fall at their feet...blah blah blah. In going older...generally not more than about 10 years older because I find then that the physical attraction isn't there for me. But these are generalisations of course, and there are always exceptions....
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RHP User
13 years ago
i beg my pardon..~smiles~ Quoting '50zcool' Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'" It’s a little galling to think I've been generalized against the average 50 year old. Bloody generalizations!!" I resemble that remark ! Not really average makes my skin crawl.
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RHP User
13 years ago
what ever talk all that shit im a young stud and much better then all you oldies lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jonnyboy25' what ever talk all that shit im a young stud and much better then all you oldies lol Me thinks someone is blowing smoke up his own arse.......Thinks you have a lot to learn yet my youngling apprentices......(1) Never blow smoke up your own arse cause it makes you look like an ASS..... GT
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jonnyboy25'what ever talk all that shit im a young stud and much better then all you oldies lol walks away with a shake of my head. You just blew it for a lot of young men on here by those words. You just proved a point. What did you get that information from your right hand or your left hand?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jonnyboy25' what ever talk all that shit im a young stud and much better then all you oldies lol I was once young, dumb, and fulla cum, too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'jonnyboy25'what ever talk all that shit im a young stud and much better then all you oldies lol walks away with a shake of my head. You just blew it for a lot of young men on here by those words. You just proved a point. What did you get that information from your right hand or your left hand? Ive just had a bit of a run with younger guys...................interesting , fun and it was good for my ego.........but never again.....too much arrogance and attitude..and its all about them So like Sensory back to the older guys.............................who have some life experience and empathy The Quest continues...
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RHP User
13 years ago
On the low side - 40, on the high side - 50.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have had an issue for a long time with women on these sites that seem to think guys over 50 years of age lose it and are not capable of pleasuring a woman. I could have registered for this site and others and lied about my age,but I dont think this is the right way to do things, it always appears that if I had I may have been considered more often. I am here for fun, LIFE IS TO SHORT.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Quoting 'CheekyArses'Blindman - you are a breath of fresh air!!! I just farted. Thanks, you make me feel so special....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not all the younger guys focus on just them selfs, I my self focus all my attention on the girl I'm with, my satisfaction is the last thing on my mind, there are a lot of guys my age out there, granted they probably won't have a ripped body but we listen, care and above all want to do our best to put a smile on our girls face! Lol. I'm more into older women ( 30 to 45 ).
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jonnyboy25' what ever talk all that shit im a young stud and much better then all you oldies lol I would say you were a close friend of Mrs Palmer and her five daughters with that attitude.Young 'uns just don't have the technique.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
No matter how old....or how young....it's not about what you can or can't do.....it should never be about what you TRY to do....you just need to be YOU.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am 22 and my horny hot lover who pleases me in every way is 40 ..I have had younger guys from 20 to 34 yrs but they just dont compare...couldnt be happierMel xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Down on the farm the young stud stallions have to be helped to service the mares. The old ones know what to do!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Welcome to the club, Jonnyboy. Nice to have another fisherman aboard.
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RHP User
13 years ago
glad to see that people are relising that age has its benefits - so many times people think that over 40 people are dead and dont have sex! You have gotta be joking! My guy - coming up to 50 - is amazing!
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RHP User
13 years ago
who are over 50 rarely contact me....18-25 year olds, yes,but older men no...in fact I must be in the 1 per cent of women here who receive very few messages...ever...almost never...but if I read my mocking posts I wouldn't contact me either
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was getting a little worried about growing old ... you know once your over 35 with the whole club pub scene ie ibetha partys , europe backpacking and stuff ! I never did any of it ! After reading this forum i have a renewed zest ... not at all worried about the naughty forties ahead.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thats soo true seen it many times the young bull rushes in and gets one the old bull sits back and gets then all
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' who are over 50 rarely contact me....18-25 year olds, yes,but older men no...in fact I must be in the 1 per cent of women here who receive very few messages...ever...almost never...but if I read my mocking posts I wouldn't contact me either Oh Freya darling I would contact you any day but there's only one big problem: Me WA You QLDI love sexy (older girls) (LOL) GT
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honestly Freya, I think it's because you are not slutty enough. Well that's what I think, and I know other women who don't get messages either. Full facial pictures where you are fully clothed make you a real person. And may I say a very nice and genuine person too. Men, in my most likely naive opinion, are thinking usually thinking with their peckers and are looking for NSA fun. Maybe your profile says I want more. I know when I have said things like that on my profile my messages drop dramatically. If I mention sex or have a lot of sexual innuendos or comments the messages are high. Guarantee it! If you have in your profile you are after fun and excitement without strings and add a few sexual fetishes, that you want to experiment, or even mention group sex. You will probably find things would change for you. But do you want that?
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RHP User
13 years ago
you are too,too kind,,sigh
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RHP User
13 years ago
thank you for your kind words,my profile is absolutely how I want it,and will attact the kind of person who interests me..or not..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Exactly Freya! Why waste time on what you don't want. And obviously you are after the young, cultured discerning gentleman. :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
ah you know me too well
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madotara69
13 years ago
I had, best start acting my ageMado
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RHP User
13 years ago
Convinced I would not have sex with any man under the age of thirty. But a 22 year-old left my house an hour ago. And I'm still smiling.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Honestly Freya, I think it's because you are not slutty enough. Well that's what I think, and I know other women who don't get messages either. Full facial pictures where you are fully clothed make you a real person. And may I say a very nice and genuine person too. Men, in my most likely naive opinion, are thinking usually thinking with their peckers and are looking for NSA fun. Maybe your profile says I want more. I know when I have said things like that on my profile my messages drop dramatically. If I mention sex or have a lot of sexual innuendos or comments the messages are high. Guarantee it! If you have in your profile you are after fun and excitement without strings and add a few sexual fetishes, that you want to experiment, or even mention group sex. You will probably find things would change for you. But do you want that? I get a lot of mail, and I love it. But it just like Meeka says if I put some new sexy pictures up or I write something naughty in the forums...its like bingo! now you my friend can put in interested in having hot sex while reading the complete works of will Shakespeare have read the karma sutra, in five different languages.. Loves to have nose in book while getting doggie. Loves to give a man a tongue lashing Is a great orator, that should get em thinking Writes poetry on table clothes
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RHP User
13 years ago
TR I shall just have to say ''looking for a slutty sapiosexual '' that will surely fill up the litter box...oops male box
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have found that age is merely a number and although we have had many good times with people much older than us, we have also had equally good times with people our age or younger. It really comes down to whether there is sexual compatibility or not. Our obsrevation is that age doesn't necessarily equal experience.
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RHP User
13 years ago
finding myself single at 40 i can honestly say ive never been happier with no shortage of choice ive met one guy here that keeps me pretty happy and while ile admit i like a young boy & he was out of my age range ime glad i did take the time too reply despite of that age is just a no and dosn't matter at all when it comes too people physically connecting ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
the only thing I know about age is we should be getting older and wiser yes ???? so why do I keep makeing the same mistakes ,,,,,,,,,,,?? AE
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RHP User
13 years ago
you dont have to be young to have a hot body, and young mind. what you have is lazy men and active men, regardless of age..........find the active ones. My best bet is ..........the "majority" (not all) of single guys you find on here!!!!!!.......are the lazy ones, too lazy to get out and meet people.......let your fingers do the walking has become an excuse. Oh' and OP,,,,,,your dead right .
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RHP User
13 years ago
What is best for me is all about attracting the person into my life who demonstrates confidence, experience, zest for life and listening skills (whether it be friend or lover). I have met people who exhibit these fine qualities irrespective of their ‘age’.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Younger guys gain experience if older women are not interested in their age bracket because I would love to start gaining some experience from cougars who are willing to teach me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'scottlmuir'Younger guys gain experience if older women are not interested in their age bracket because I would love to start gaining some experience from cougars who are willing to teach me - Posted from rhpmobile get riid of the finger picture, it does not say I a a shy boy your not a shy boy , your just a guy like a lot of younger men that want to get their dick wet you do not have to ask for a cougar on here, just ask for a woman a woman will find you and seduce you and then the result will be with a little luck that you will get a clue
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'scottlmuir' Younger guys gain experience if older women are not interested in their age bracket because I would love to start gaining some experience from cougars who are willing to teach me - Posted from rhpmobile Think like a WOMAN...ACT like a MAN!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Superfox, not all older men have beer guts and bad dress sense (unless they wear dresses !!) I have offen been thoughts as younger than my age
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's time like these I wish I was older :-(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'scottlmuir' Younger guys gain experience if older women are not interested in their age bracket because I would love to start gaining some experience from cougars who are willing to teach me - Posted from rhpmobileGo read your "?" thread ... Superfox
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RHP User
13 years ago
I realised I am getting older when I decided that Mit Romney (US politics) was super hot. I looked at his age and thought... OMG I find someone who is 65 sexy!
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RHP User
13 years ago
attraction is not age orientated i would have thought, you like what you like regardless of age. Maybe it's just the men that have these qualities you seek, tend to be in that age bracket ..hence the appeal. There's always exceptions to the rule of course.
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RHP User
13 years ago
seems younger ones are doing it for me ...theyre the majority that are messaging me too....no complaints so far. You forget the age difference when youre with them anyway!!
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On_Safari
13 years ago
I'll take experience over youthful Exuberance everytime. Like the lion says, an old rogue doesn't need to prance around loudly proclaiming his prowess. He does it through stealth, cunning and (dare he say) trickiness. Gimme a man over a boy anyday..... Hungry Safari
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On_Safari
13 years ago
(shakes head and walks away) BUT I guess kudos to you for joining the discussion. Can't wait to hear about your success when you finally bridge the evolutionary gap that has you fundamentally floored. Kisses x
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RHP User
13 years ago
So now I'm a younger old guy? At 42? Oh shit.... Am I a MAN COUGAR? Good God.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a 25 year old, I can't stand most guys around my age!They say men mature at a slower rate to women and I totally agree with that. I need someone to stimulate me and have a witty and articulate conversation with. Playing beer pong and getting drunk on a first meet isn't fun!In saying I like older men, they MUST be suave and in touch with today, especailly regarding dress sense. An older man who takes care of himself and dresses well just oozes confidence and sex appeal to me.On a sexual level, I find older guys are more giving. They get off on what get's me off. They take the time to explore my body. Young guys just rush through to anything that feels good for THEM (in my experience that is)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have my little comfort zone and I rarely stray from it. Although that's 100% a confidence thing, I haven't travelled the world, haven't been there and done that yet so I feel a bit out of place, especially when they start discussing the pros and cons of travelling here or there, how set they are in their careers etc. I get really shy and introverted when I have nothing to offer a conversation and that is often misconstrued as being rude or disinterested
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'buttsylicious'As a 25 year old, I can't stand most guys around my age!They say men mature at a slower rate to women and I totally agree with that. I need someone to stimulate me and have a witty and articulate conversation with. Playing beer pong and getting drunk on a first meet isn't fun!In saying I like older men, they MUST be suave and in touch with today, especailly regarding dress sense. An older man who takes care of himself and dresses well just oozes confidence and sex appeal to me.On a sexual level, I find older guys are more giving. They get off on what get's me off. They take the time to explore my body. Young guys just rush through to anything that feels good for THEM (in my experience that is)The brain starts to take charge of things again post 30 ;)
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