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Age?

August 05 2010

I've been meaning to get your thoughts about age. I often find people are fairly specific about age, while I understand the social appeal of meeting with similar age for a more common ground lifestyle. I have friends from as young as 20 and as old as 60+, genuine friends aswell not just acquaintances. I want to see what people think about age that makes them exclude someone young or old? I've started to believe in pansexuality and as part of that an open appreciation of person regardless of age. I feel out of the normal in that sense and want your thoughts.Why do you state X - X age requirements? what are you hoping to avoid or to get by stating these?Thanks Rob

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Rob you make my brain hurt sometimes when you make me think hehehe as you all know i will and do talk to anyone any age all you have to do is send me a message...i have friends from 15-60 so yeah i get where your coming from there if you are over or under my age limits il let you know there will be no playing, so then if you just want to chat thats up to you...well unless i really want to play with you then all bets are off ;-) but i have my age limits set at 30-45 only because if a man is closer to my mums age, sorry i maybe couldnt go there lol....on the flip side if your young enough to date one of my kids i couldnt do that either....but they are not set in stone, i am flexible on the age thing if i found the right man and he was 50 or 25 then yeah i wouldnt have a problem so age really doesnt worry me when it comes to friends...but i do have my limits when it comes to play mates roxxy....off to get a panadol, cause i have a headache lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    not older than halfway to mum... so 45 would really be the max...DEPENDING on looks & demeanour.      Youngest well keeps getting younger... Maybe 20 now :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I would like to have something to be able to chat about in between shags. PLUS there is what I'm attracted to. Just like calling me racist won't make me attracted to one particular ethnicity calling me ageist won't make me find old men attractive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Younger guys just don't appeal to me, sexually... I'm into the older men. When I say older, I mean older than me, but not old enough to be my father (or grandfather!).So for me, anyone in the 35 to 45ish age range... I don't even look at flirts sent by younger guys, and will only read messages from younger guys if they have made the subject line interesting... but I usually send the standard "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for". And yes, I realise that I may be missing out on "the one", lol... but it's a chance I'm willing to take.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey,Answering your question... I exclude younger men because I deem a lot of them to be immature. That's not to say that ALL younger men are immature... (I'm 28, so a younger man would be from 18 - 25) As for pansexuality, so you're up for anyone on the gender spectrum? Is that just because you want the experience ? Or is more of an appreciation for the person regardless of their gender / sexuality?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    All these goddesses still interested in men to 45...I'm still good for another year!!! WooHoo!!!

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    15 years ago

    just for profile wise i put an age limit for i have had the odd 50+ men saying hello babe lets go for a fun night out. really i dont need a daddy figure :)but in real life, if i was to meet you somewhere unexpected and get along with you, i dont care about age. age is but a number but when weeding out through this site, you need to have some limits!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Age is creeping up on all of us... so be carefull you dont say something that will come back and smack you in the face. OK we are guilty of stating age with what we require. but just like Bubbaj... we only do that to allow us some sort of control on RHP. Otherwise it becomes open slather and outta hand. Think about this... how will you feel when some younger person put you out to pasture and yet you are still sexually active and attractive ? It will happen and you will remember... What you say today will one day apply to you. Just a thought.... but true

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'rainbow_bright' Hey,Answering your question... I exclude younger men because I deem a lot of them to be immature. That's not to say that ALL younger men are immature... (I'm 28, so a younger man would be from 18 - 25) As for pansexuality, so you're up for anyone on the gender spectrum? Is that just because you want the experience ? Or is more of an appreciation for the person regardless of their gender / sexuality? I understand pansexuality to be an attraction for the person not the parts. I dont know where I fit into the sexuality spectrum and as such am in no hurry to label it. The bit I associate with about pansexuality is the open mind approach to attraction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'alex66' All these goddesses still interested in men to 45...I'm still good for another year!!! WooHoo!!! Alex, the age diff between us will always be the same and you'll never get closer to my mum's age than me, so you'll always be in with me! ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We generally abide by people's age restrictions, although sometimes it's impossible to resist if they are just too yummy! We know that most of the time we will get a rejection (although it would be nice if it was an ACTUAL rejection rather than an implied rejection via no response at all), but because we have pics up and have put some effort into our profile we would like to think people at least bother to take a look before making their minds up. We're young and heart and (if I say so myself) I think we are wearing pretty well for our age too! Still...it's all about what YOU are looking for ....all of you. What turns you on, whether you're looking for friends, fuckbuddies, or just one nighters (which we're not...). If there's a mutual curiosity to begin with, then we're happy to see what happens. As long as people are upfront and honest, it's amazing the friendships that arise! We've found we need people with mutual personalities for it to work. Gotta have a sense of humour! :)Mr O