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*Advice needed* best way to get the missus more open to being showed off.
July 29 2017
- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ummm a total change in how our culture views female sexuality...or her learning not to give a fuck.
RHP User
7 years ago
Strip her off or not, up to you, and attach a collar and lead....
Drag her arse down the street and ask people what they think!!!
:p
- Posted from rhpmobile
MsJonesy
7 years ago
In what setting you are referring to? Everyday life? Swingers parties?
If its everyday, then yes, she may have a point. Women don't have a great reputation of positively acknowledging one of their own when she presents as a self confident woman who is happy to be admired.
You might be happy about it, she doesn't appear to be. Maybe a case of baby steps.....or no steps at all of she really doesn't want to do it. Either way, it's her choice.
Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
There are no clues in your empty profile and your topic is a bit vague
Are you asking a question about confidence.....or is there an agenda you have in mind??
Because the way you've written your topic this sounds a bit more about what you want than what she does
🤔RHP User
7 years ago
I would say there's not a thing you can do to change how she feels.
It's her self journey..... if she wants to be able to flaunt herself without hangups, she will have to address her own inner voice and overcome whatever the issues are.
If she has no desire to flaunt, then you'll have to hopefully respect who she is and accept that it's not a turn on for her.
Best of luck to you and your wife :)
Mrs LAL
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Yep I'm with you. I just learnt not to give a fuck 😀
RHP User
7 years ago
I'm an expert. I flaunt it like there's no tomorrow. Figure I could be dead by tomorrow. So how can I help? Waiting at the keyboard, in between shameless flirting/flaunting. My inner slut has definitely escaped 😇
lovebitten
7 years ago
Maybe your wife has no self esteem excuse hubby is a cheating bastard
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
IMO, there is a huge difference between a woman feeling confident and happy within herself, and enjoying flaunting herself (go you good things!), and being flaunted by a partner, as if she is a trophy. I would absolutely rebel if my husband, or one of my lovers, attempted to objectify me because it turns them on.
I am a person, not an object. I get to be proud of me and show myself off, or not. I do not belong to anyone else, including my husband, and therefore, no one else gets to show me off...
On the other hand, if your partner enjoys flaunting herself and is able to embrace her desire to do so, by all means be hugely proud of her for her courage and sass. Be proud of who she is, not the fact that she's "yours". If that also turns you on, bonus 👍🏼RHP User
7 years ago
On the other hand, if your partner enjoys flaunting herself and is able to embrace her desire to do so, by all means be hugely proud of her for her courage and sass. Be proud of who she is, not the fact that she's "yours". If that also turns you on, bonus 👍🏼
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