Advice for a newbie

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You had already both considered a prostitute??? Correct me if I'm wrong but doesn't that mean you've already broached it ?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  are sometimes just that. Many couples complain that getting another woman that is suitable is a very hard thing to do so it may take some time for your fantasy to be come a reality. And just because she gets horny fantasizing about it does not necessarily mean she wants to go ahead with it in reality so tread carefully when bringing it up. Make sure you are both emotionally ready before going for it And good luck :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Plus the fact that you actually don't say that you have a partner in your profile - that is going to make it near impossible! Pusscat xxx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  A lot of people will check out your profile before responding and you state seperated, no mention of a partner, so if your circumstances have changed make sure you change your profile, if you are attatched and have put up a seperated profile up in the hope of getting a bit on the side whilst Mrs is away (seperated by miles, hmmmmm) your gonna get a roasting. Ralf is right, fantasy and reality are much different things, make sure you talk about it outside of the bedroom, get her to do her own research and discuss how you will deal with feelings and actions if you BOTH decide to go ahead with it. These things shouldn't be rushed and need both partners to be open and able to communicate honestly.

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  Hottie1

  11 years ago

  We started playing with male escorts at first. I wouldn't change a thing, though it was costly. They didn't do anything more sexually than what I get at home, it just helped me deal with my issues of being naked and sexual with another person other than hubby. And having two men fawn all over me is delicious. As Ralf has said, is your wife emotionally ready to see you fuck another women, you might say and do things with another woman that you haven't done with your wife. How will she feel?If your relationship extends to further playing, how will you feel when your wife asks to fuck another guy? When she says and does things that she hasn't done with you?I hadn't even considered emotional readiness because I introduced the threesome idea. If I was watching hubby at first with another woman, back then I may not have been ready. As another forumite (Thanks Mado Tara) has previously said, you have to adjust quickly to any issues that arise, are you both ready?As pussycat has highlighted, I would change your profile, make it inclusive of your wife, and tell her how to access it so she can have a look (whilst overseas) then look at it together again when she returns. Good luckMary xx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You are all assuming that he is married! His profile says he is separated........ and maybe the partner he is referring to in his post is a girlfriend. You don't know.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  if you've both considered a pro, then she is keen. if she is getting horny over the idea then she is keen. however may be upset that you have moved forward without her..... tell her you found a website to explore together and let her find a woman that she connects with. and it does take a really long time to find the right n=lady

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  the profile pic might be a bit of a turn off for some ladies. To me it screams misogynist privileged male needing a good ego stroke. But I might be reading a little into it and might not be the best person to comment lol.But I think you should have a couples profile that specifically states what you are actually looking for, rather than the profile you have which doesn't so much.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Guy who pretends to be in a relationship with a woman who is keen?? Bullshit is my opinion....................... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Great advice from all . Thanks so much. I intend to show her RHP when she gets home next week. I'm not looking for a bit on the side, I wouldn't do anything without her. Thanks for heads up on profile . It was written without much forethought. . Maybe I shouldn't have put up a profile at all until she was ready to go on there with me. Anyway I've got what I wanted. Great words from some obviously wiser and more experienced people than I. Thankyou

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Oh by the way. She's my girlfriend not my wife. Separated for more than 4 years. Gonna take my profile down and talk to my partner first. Looked at it with different eyes and you're wright, it looks like I'm looking for a bit on the side. I'm not,

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  There's not exactly a huge cache of single females looking for couples..It's a very popular fantasy for couples however the reality of occurance is not consistent with the popularity..Noah should have had a Unicorn breeding program on the Ark.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

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