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Advice?! I’ve seen a lot of people asking.
February 14 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have no advice, just a welcome to the world of online dating 🤷🏼♀️
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hmmm... yep...it needs work... But... It’s a reflection of who you are in this very moment...and that makes it fine....
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yeah cheers, I just more shocked at the fact that 80% of the messages I get start with ‘nice profile, can I see you private pics?’ If that’s the first thing you send me you’re getting blocked. Called me old fashioned I guess 🤷♀️
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On_Safari
7 years ago
There's lots of them here looking for fodder for their wank bank. Mostly male I would assume but who am I to stereotype. It happens to all ages, couples, swingles, male and female. Only advice is to not give them access and to regularly check your lists and remove access from those that didn't lead to friendship, a coffee date or more. Your profile wouldn't tempt me to send you a flirt or message but my needs aren't the same (and I'm out of your age preference) **smiling gently** I'm still trying to figure out what'll happen this weekend if there's someone I want to have sex with at a party so my partner can watch and I can tick off a particular "thing" while we're at it. Safety is everything even in here ~ Indy
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luvsilver
7 years ago
If replying to a message sent to us we will certainly ask for a face pic.We are not asking for nudes or action shots but need a face pic to see if there is an initial interest.No point going any further if that first attraction isn't there.When meeting in real life you get the advantage of a possible connection of the minds first or a physical attraction (or hopefully both)Much harder on line.I don't think there will be many people that would want to meet sight unseen.Maybe have a private gallery that shows your face and the other gallery for whatever you like. Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
7 years ago
Cheers, I took a load of photos off trying to stop messages but it hasn’t done much, and I usually add people on Snapchat not on here for face pics ect if we’re getting along well. Thanks for the advice though I appreciate it!
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
No advice. Curious, are they females asking to see your PG? I find that suprising.
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madotara69
7 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' There's lots of them here looking for fodder for their wank bank. Mostly male I would assume but who am I to stereotype. It happens to all ages, couples, swingles, male and female. Only advice is to not give them access and to regularly check your lists and remove access from those that didn't lead to friendship, a coffee date or more. Your profile wouldn't tempt me to send you a flirt or message but my needs aren't the same (and I'm out of your age preference) **smiling gently** I'm still trying to figure out what'll happen this weekend if there's someone I want to have sex with at a party so my partner can watch and I can tick off a particular "thing" while we're at it. Safety is everything even in here ~ Indy Indy, lovely to see you posting, looking fine as ever....is it asking too much for you to send us a pic of you just before doing that thing and just after done with doing it too.....? Mado Mado Tara xx
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countrytouch82
7 years ago
50% is outstanding actually! Ok it hasn't been going further but still...
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bonefide
7 years ago
Patience grass hopper, your time will come.
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RHP User
7 years ago
If it was me, I'd be asking to see pics of your face, not your private gallery of nudes. Maybe that's why you're getting asked to open your PG? Some people do state in their profile that they omly have face pics locked away in their PG due to their work, being discreet...cheating, etc 🤣
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RHP User
7 years ago
i have face pics but its not what they ask for, and i like to keep my privacy but more then happy to share to someone thats not just looking for dick and body pics just pic collectors i guess hey.
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RHP User
7 years ago
no its like 60% F 40% M
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RHP User
7 years ago
Definitely a face picture, I'm sure you will see things change. I'm finding with our profile we get interest in waves lol feast or famine. Good luck on your journey.
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RHP User
7 years ago
How many open their pg in return for you? We prefer names and face pics before anything else - old fashioned but there are people behind the pics and they are much more interesting and alluring to get to know than viewing pics... and hopefully if we get to know them then we get to enjoy in real life - again so much more satisfying than pics
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' There's lots of them here looking for fodder for their wank bank. Mostly male I would assume but who am I to stereotype. It happens to all ages, couples, swingles, male and female. Only advice is to not give them access and to regularly check your lists and remove access from those that didn't lead to friendship, a coffee date or more. Your profile wouldn't tempt me to send you a flirt or message but my needs aren't the same (and I'm out of your age preference) **smiling gently** I'm still trying to figure out what'll happen this weekend if there's someone I want to have sex with at a party so my partner can watch and I can tick off a particular "thing" while we're at it. Safety is everything even in here ~ Indy i haven't changed my age prefs yet, i think that was made default or i just cant remember, but thanks for the advice! Glad to see theirs some genuine people on here
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On_Safari
7 years ago
**big wave!!** ummmmm my main concern is not in the act it’s in the approach to the “potentially appealing” person who’s indicated he’s going and whether or not I’ll be his type.... The “Act” and taking pictures of it would require a 4th person in the vicinity (laughing) but I’m happy to oblige if we have spectators with a camera handy 🤪👅
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