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January 26 2025

Hi all new to this site not a lot going on in my area but I'm happy to travel, I don't really know how to break the ice on here any experienced people got any advice for a newbie?

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NeoAndTrin
2 months ago
I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but as a single male here you're unfortunately in the position of guilty until proven innocent.

Because of your status which you currently have no control over, there will be... judgement. From a few people in here at the very least.

Best advice is to read people's profiles FULLY and if you don't align with what they want, move along. No point messaging if that's the case. If someone says no thanks, again just move along. If you can take rejection this shouldn't be a problem. If you can't RHP isn't the place for you.

Perseverance and a good attitude will be your best friends

You'll probably get more responses from people showing up in person to events and meet and greets.
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FeistyFatty
2 months ago
Attend events... Newbies Nights, Meet and Greets etc. Online is no different than real life in respect to how you approach and start a conversation. Read profiles BEFORE contacting people abd only send messages to those who it appears you match (what you both seek etc).
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Reefplay
2 months ago
Mate go to the nearest trendiest coffee shop next to Woollies or Coles after school drop off in am.
Better luck there if you’re smooth and well presented.
If unsuccessful proceed with the shopping for a second opportunity maybe offering to shout coffee after they do groceries.
Good luck and remember to post your story on RHP 🤣🤣🤣
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BurnieBunny
2 months ago
It says yr in the UK? Mainly I'd say we are based in Australia. Should you find urself in Tasmania give me a yell 😏
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RHP User
2 months ago
I had a look at how many women in England have profiles that are verified and have at least one picture. A grand total of 14.

I'd suggest another site that is more popular in the UK.
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RHP User
2 months ago
Honestly I’d say this app is a waste of time. As much as you match with people etc etc, you show them respect but may replying to conversations but they cannot have the same respect towards you to do so.

Might be full of scammers and bots I don’t know but that’s my experience
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