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October 12 2010

On entry to Adult chat room states "VERY NAUGHTY STUFF GOING ON INISDE"..So tell why has it turned into a Mothers group..The convo daily my child this my child that like hello..I don't want to go into Adult chat and read about your child.I go there for perving playing and enjoying.Keep your child talk to the social rooms..Don't you people realise alot sick people do get of on your child talk or you just don't care?..Am sure alot of guys and gals who go Adult room don't wanna read it either..Adult room is an Adult room

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yep.. i think i have heard those conversations hahaha. Oh well shit happens

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I haveto agree with u TIT... I sometimes go in their and amongst some of the sex talk is one or 3 members talking about their children. Thats not good and yes sickos would get off on that too... Trips xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh them the ones who carry on because they can't play because kids still awake...Yeah doesn't matter what time of day still children talk..And i reckon take it to social room with rest mothers group lol Titty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    which is why I am hardly ever in the WA rooms these days! now it's all being carried over in to the adult room grrrr

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You just need to pick your times differently/better I'm usually not in the webchat room til after seven pm - but there's all manner of mental and or other stimulation going on. The fact im usually in some kind of hat and partially nude being a minx helps also... a very cheeky Lotus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    My thoughts exactly .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    why parents are even in the Adult Chatroom while their kids are up and running around anyway!! Shouldn't they be paying their kids attention? Would it really kill to be out of a Chat Room till after they go to bed or get to School? I truly feel sorry for the kids that get ignored...just so Mum can get "attention" or Dad have a "perve"...pffttt... And when I see kids in the background while they are on cam...grrrrrrr!! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have been in chat and have seen all different types of conversations going on and have participated in all sorts of different things.. The regular chatters know each other and have formed friendships. Like all of us .. we don't just have sex all day long with nothing else interspersed surely ? If you don't want to 'listen/read' what others are saying .. don't read it .. Often there can be an array of things going on .. one line will be a flirt, another the debate on some blokes hot body and cock, another some woman's very enticing playing and the other asking someone how their broken leg is. At the end of the day .. we make it what we want. Deb xxx Maybe we need to loosen up a bit about what this site is and just enjoy what we get out of it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    So you think it is acceptable that child talk happens where a heap of people are wanking and fingering themselves? My post has nothing to do with broken legs it is pointed to the talk of children in a room that is supposably about "VERY NAUGHTY STUFF GOING ON INISDE"..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    we tryed checking out the chat rooms. but after finding the same old regulars talking about their weeds growing too fast , and abusing us for asking questions or trying to start some fun sex convos...we now dont bother. The queen bees rule there...lol and all the lapdog single guys begging for some attention...its funny as. If we wanted penpals who we never meet, to talk about the latest boots for sale at City Bitch, we'd go on messenger or facespace. Leave the chat rooms for serious sex talk and arrangment of meetings would be our suggestions

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think the point TIT is trying to make is there all are the attention seekers that come in and whine about their pensions,kids etc It begins to sound like a really bad country and western song.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks to those who get my drift.And agree and understand.Also glad am not the only one seeing this all the time.. Funloving it happens to offen kids on cam and i am not scared to say i will be dobbing those in who have there kids on cam. Titty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    is beyond comprehension! I saw one woman name her child this morning. Her child had a unique name. 100 strangers in chat now know it! people should think...

  • rover35

    rover35

    15 years ago

    TOTAL agree with TIT on this one........theres a time and place for everything but as the name of the room states this area should be for one thing only and all other chiut chat should be done in the Social rooms.....its not that hard is it people......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I didnt get drift .. and yeah maybe we need to point out chit chat about kids could go elsewhere .. I for one completely agree about dobbing in anyone who has a child on cam. sassy .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Another one who has no idea.....I didn't say was a sex chat room..You said that I stated it says "VERY NAUGHTY STUFF GOING ON INISDE"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    the fact is that the adult room is 99% social chat with the odd guy tossing and the odd girl flashing the boobs and toosh.....if someone wants actual adult chat then probably the best bet is to arrange to go to one of the empty social rooms.....no one is ever in the state rooms bar WA which seems to have a regular crowd of about 20.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I really liked

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TIT_witch'Keep your child talk to the social rooms..Don't you people realise alot sick people do get of on your child talk or you just don't care?. lol, so won't these sickos just hang out in the social chat room then!?talking about your kids in adult chat room might be innappropriate because it is off-topic, but taking the conversation elsewhere that is just as easily reached does nothing to stop people who want to read that sort of stuff - you're just shifting the location. Hell, what if moving it all into the one place just makes for some super concentrated combination - sickos will be getting heat rash from all the rubbing with excitement. Or is that the cunning plan? to sneakliy have them fry their bits with friction burns?Now, if you go outside the forum and wanna ban the sick sort of stuff that Anne Geddes is peddling, I'll happily back you on that. ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    there was a thread showing how much enthusiasm there was for cock cams. Maybe try and be a bit more positive hmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    bahahahaha Extreme blonde well well ...... its bout time you came up for a name for yourself!!!!!!!!!!!! you are one of the gals who have many guys wanking over u, showing some skin and need i say have done more on cam in chat ..... yet on many occassions you speak of your children. Any parent that can sit in a room with others who are complete strangers and speak about their kids is beyond me and automatically get the block button..... TITTY i so hear ya babe from me aka funfunfun hehehe xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    This is an ADULT site where most of us pay money for a membership....... Lets keep it that way shall we people? I for one would be much happier if there were no kids AT ALL on cam. Regardless of excuses.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hey who wnats a big cock??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Is talking about kids in a room with strangers in it a no-no to you because it is deathly boring and nobody wants to hear about it - or for some other reason? Would it be different if the people in the conversation knew each other in person? IMO some of the people getting all worried could do with reading the Free Range Kids blog.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ok i can see some valid concerns about the privacy of the chat room and minors being in the room of rhp members whilst chatting - which i do not advocate or approve of, but where do we start censoring what is ok to talk about in the adult chat room? Is politics a big no-no, is only sexually explicit talk allowed?? There are a lot of people in that room who are friends who have met and why should they not ask about their job or partner or children??? Let's not become a nanny state based on fear. Sexual stimulation comes in many forms - not all of us are purely visual creatures, i for one like to be a naughty little tease but i love, absolutely love to talk - ask random questions - and why the hell should i not stimulate in other ways??? Just on a side note lifeofspice - the tone in your post about Extreme Blonde's actions in the chat room appears to be based on you having a problem with her sexual behaviour in the room not about her choice of discussion topics - a wee bit personal perhaps? if you have a problem with her talking about her kids that's fine and understandable and your right to express that opinion. However when you bang on about her showing some skin and 'sometimes more' well what is wrong with that in the adult room i want to know? It comes across as judgemental and more than a little bit condescending. Do you have an inherent dislike of women who make the choice to be nude or semi-nude and why? Just trying to understand the problem your words imply. Ok - off my opinionated high horse.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    As a parent and a primary teacher, I get frustrated with society's increasing tendency to over-protect children and smother them in cotton wool. I loved my 'free range' childhood and struggle with the lack of independence we give our kids these days. Parents won't let students go on simple school excursions because they are too dangerous. However, my personal views on raising children aside, several comments in this forum are based around the fact that stimulation is purely of a physical, sexual nature and that talking about kids and life in general is inappropriate within this space. Some of us want to build friendships with good, like-minded people, not just concentrate on getting off (which, admittedly I enjoy too). It is perfectly reasonable to have a genuine conversation and to spice it up with some innuendo, flirting and suggestion. A bit of everything suits me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ive shown skin yes..Not like ive said i haven't.My Son is an adult actually..He is not underage.Actually he is of age where he can join the site as well..Glad he hasn't actually.Censoring it in ways is good considering some use there names and what they do..And i said nothing about Extreme Blonde doing what she does Who cares what she does I brought this up because of the constant mothers group going on about my child this my child that when you have adults more off than less talking sexual..Well you tell me whats right with it .Alot of the time you have females and males typing dirty stuff showing flesh enjoying and the the chat of children mixed up in it all hmmm..Maybe i just don't find it very appealing..But then this my opinion on the subject like everyone elses who have replied.I find it some what wrong seems alot don't.. And i thought social room would be better considering it states . "State rooms are for social (non-adult) webcam chat, please observe the rules" Titty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Kids are a part of life and sharing our experiences with kids can be a very enjoyable and stimulating experience. They make us who we are so why shouldn't we be able to talk about them with others. I love talking about sex like most others, it turns me on. However, I find that honest conversation with others provides an attraction that doesn't come from conversations about fucking. To those who raise concerns about the welfare of kids who are discussed here, I agree that no names should ever be mentioned and using a webcam is an experience they should not be around to see. However, SydneyBoy had a point about the need to raise Free Range kids, we are over protective and wrap our kids in cotton wool. People making judgements about the parenting of others has led to a culture of parents being over-cautious for fear of criticism. I had a wonderful free range upbringing and don't regret it for a minute. Kids will always be apart of my conversation alongside some devious flirting and sexual innuendo ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In response to lotus...... the tone was purely a retaliation to EB's words about girls who show themselves on cam """"" get over it for ffs, the sicko's are the desperados that wank over some nasty trash supplying free porn"""" when infact I have seen her do the same thing... i know that part was a lil off topic but hell i couldnt help myself, hyprocrites dont mesh well with me. I don't have an issue with girls on cam at all hell i am one of them ..... i love it ..... what i personally dont like is while i am flicking my mouse and just about to reach the point of no return i look up and see people talking about little jimmy has a cold or lil suzy is being annoying....... I just really think that for a place where u have to be 18 and over it is a lil unappropriate to bring conversations about your children/have ur child on cam ..... would you walk up to a stanger on the street and talk about your kids??? i know the conversations mite be to specific person in the room but there are also 98 more people who u have no clue who they are,,,,, but they know ur suburb, they know what u look like meh yes i do tend to overthink things but i personally talk to people offsite about more personal things like my family after i have figured out a trust bond between them and I .... but hey thats just my opinion and i guess thats what forums are for hey

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Always re-read your post before submitting it! My previous post makes me sound like a pervert. By "experiences with kids" I obviously meant life experiences, nothing suspect, lol! Doh! I might crawl under a very large stone and hide....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    There is a 'social' element in all levels of chat, which is great...BUT, there has become an influx of members that are purely on RHP to chat (women are able to chat for free, so this is a great opportunity to allow them to gain attention they are missing in their lives), but whinging about their kids wanting to be fed or helped with their homework, while mum chats online is .....sad. It's not about 'cotton wool', it's about common sense and not neglecting the ones who should come first. Surely spending time with your kids is better than watching a guy with a 4 inch cock on cam...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I agree freogirl66 that it is sad that some people choose to put this website over the welfare of their children but clearly this site serves a multitude of purposes for different people. Maybe I am an optimist but I would hope most people would wait until an appropriate time to login, like now, after I have put my daughter to bed. Still, it is not our place to be judgmental. Personally, I find chat rooms boring as all hell anyway, Lots of small talk and no substance. Much rather actually be with the person I am talking to, or at least texting them directly. Maybe they should just charge women to chat and remove this issue? Chris

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You already had me cracking up at you in the earlier post...... Quoting 'funandmischief' not just concentrate on getting off (which, admittedly I enjoy too). It is perfectly reasonable to have a genuine conversation and to spice it up with some innuendo, flirting and suggestion. A bit of everything suits me. I always like to read what you have to say by the way, and agree with everything you have said here. Although must admit I'm always getting distracted by your pic, and wish I could have a peep round the corner to see the whole package? "I love talking about sex like most others, it turns me on. However, I find that honest conversation with others provides an attraction that doesn't come from conversations about fucking." So very true. How long can a friendship or partnership survive, when sex is the only topic of conversation, boooorrrrrrrrrrring! Alot of girls say the same thing in the forums etc. Like in the 'girls only' forum, there is a recent topic on "What first approach do you like?" Almost every girl says how much we all (or most) hate the guys whose message will read "Hey, how about some hot sex, etc..?" We really do prefer normal, genuine conversation/men, who will take the time to say something quirky, or original...or something personal that is written in their profiles etc. Not 'foul' messages asking for sex, although that's what we all say we're here for? hmmmm... Yes we all know this is a SEX SITE, another topic of on the forum board!? I think alot of people are here for all sorts of reasons. Some I see are just here to read and reply to the forums! Loneliness? Boredom? Voyeurism? 'Showing skin'? It's just somewhere to escape for a bit of 'me' time throughought the day or night.(..Eg. When the children are at school, in bed etc. ) If it's to talk about sex, their new haircut they love or their children, if that's what makes them happy then leave them be. I do NOT however think there should be children under the age of 18 on cam, or veiwing cams at ANY time..as it would probably also state on the page prior to entering the chat room. I have seen some pretty shocking scenes on rhp over the years. I should've reported this to the police now I think about it?? About 4 years ago, I saw an irresponsible, young mother in the chat room with her 11 year old son. She was talking up how 'cool' she was, and she she smoked pipes. Then persisted on force feeding her 11 year old son to smoke a bong. For those who don't know... a bong is a untensil used for the smoking of marijuana!!! DISGUSTING........ the poor kid choked, and coughed, and you could tell he didn't like it. It brought me to tears..I came here just to say that...? I also find the chat room all a bit mind numbing at times, same 'ol, same 'ol. Admittedly, the only time I'll jump in there these days is late at night, for my ME time... in hope to catch some of this VERY NAUGHTY STUFF going on! Or should I say, in hope there are people in there to watch me doing some very naughty stuff. Whatever floats your boat. I've now discovered if I want to waste time, I come and read some of these! I really enjoy some of them, much more interesting. Back to your comment funandmischief. Although I was initially here looking to 'get off' like evryone else, I much prefer some genuine conversation over repetative sex talk. I also love the men who will write something or ask a question about you, or something in your profile..as it shows they have actually read it! A little while back I was infact in the chat room, and made a terrible joke..I thought it was funny, ( I tend to entertain myself in there..?) but noone else did, so I promptly exited the room...as I was about to anyway!! he hee.. But when I went to log out, I had a message waiting for me, with the title "I thought it was funny ;) " OMG..hahahaa...I knew he must've been talking about the joke. Someone must've heard it, damn. He had written a great witty message, also metioned a couple of other totally non sex related topics that I was discussing with others. Which were excersize and baby shows!!? He lived on the other side of the country, and although I'm really not into wasting time with pen pals I'm ever going to meet etc. We still message eachother, and I look forward to hearing his crazy 'life' updates, jokes, etc.. Not one word had ever been spoken about sex, much, not between the two of us anyway, experiences, funny stories etc yes. I'm glad to have made that dodgy joke, and my dodgy funny new friend. It brightens my day!! But I did because you can talk about, and say exactly what you like On entry to Adult chat room states "VERY NAUGHTY STUFF GOING ON INISDE"....Am sure alot of guys and gals who go Adult room don't wanna read it either.... It warns you that there is some naughty stuff going on in there if you so choose to look at it, it doesn't say "SMUTTY SEX TALK ALLOWED ONLY". I liked that earlier coment, if you dont 'wanna' read it, block them and you won't have to.. TUESDAYS!! DID YOU KNOW TUESDAY IS THE MOST COMMON DAY FOR SUICIDE IN AUSTRALIA?? Be nice to everyone on Tuesdays if you can ok? Or if you could do it everyday, it will certainly inturn make you feel awesome about being NICE to people!...and for caring! Try it.. So on Tuesdays, on rhp and in our daily lives, let's not talk about sex and ask someone how they really are,....not in bed.... you say "Hello" ( and smile ) and ask how their day was! Or maybe even try and compliment as may people in your day as you can, the things that you really do think "Wow, she has a lovely smile/funky dress sense/cool tattoo etc" ( I've recently made friends with a gorgeous lady who lost her young teenage son to suicide. I was just thinking of it.... The suicide rate in Australia is appaulling....so so sad. )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Missed that, sorry. That reeeaaaallly gets up my nose too!! It's not just recently, although you say there's been an influx..? lol..Great!? It used to upset me firstly seeing these poor littlies running around in the background at 7pm, while mummy is there groping her boobs on cam. But then when she says, "Gotta go'n feed these fuckin' whingin' kids!! BBS!". Disgusting... I've been on and off rhp for about 6 years now. I have a child but have never spoken about her as such, her first steps, day at school etc. Like I said, I spoke about baby shows as I was again trying to be funny by saying I was crowned "Miss Mattamatta" in.....1985, in some kind of conversation about Miss Australia. Been thinking about it, and maybe I do think if you do 'just' want to come in for your midday chinwag, to meet 'the girls' and catch up on the milestones of their kids, take it to the social room? If you are coming in to try and strike up a witty conversation, with a potential 'partner' casual or whatever, to take it further eg. HOT SEX. Then general chat adult chat about various topics is ok. Time and a place for everything. Oh! And funandmischief, no no....charging females is not a good idea...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The kids part aside.. which I think is no no. You don't want social chat but don't understand a woman wanting to watcha 4' cock on cam. Suggest you have a look at your underlying anger symptoms and then go into the chatroom witha different approach. Why do you think there are rooms called social and adult. Which beggars the question why were you in Social chat in the first place.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes the kid talk has become more and more in the main chat rooms and it is a turn off for us. We have not gone into chat as much of late cause of the as Mrs Cuma would say 'cup a tea chat' liven it back up and but the zingback into chat without the kiddy/hairdresser appointment details!