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A woman's orgasm...how important is it?...

December 01 2009

I don't know if this has been covered before...so excuse me if it has...I always thought that a woman having an orgasm was the most important thing that a man could help her achieve...yes, yes, i know a woman doesn't need a man to orgasm, but i would like to think that it is much nicer for her to have a man...Apart from doing as many yummy things to a woman as possible, driving her out of her mind, making her feel so desired and then being a part of it as she has a mind-blowing orgasm...A couple of times, the woman i was with didn't...it was interesting, each time she said that it was just really nice to listen to umm...errrr....blush....me...yanno...me cum instead...i am a bit quiet and she said that it was nice to just listen to me have an orgasm instead...so, how important is it to you (THE WOMAN) to have an orgasm and is it A) no big deal if you don't or B) a big deal if you don't...Thank you for your input...CheersJose....

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    What woman doesnt enjoy the sound of a man in the throws of sheer ecstasy ?....mmm.Orgasms are important to me not only for the sensational orgasmic feelings..he-he...but it has other affects on our wellbeing....But for not having one.always had one/s..be ok for me if i was married or long term relationship......can always play catchups....heheNow has for the case of whatever..hehe....id make sure the guy took care of me... but !! it would work both ways.....so...yes an orgasm is important..thats why one plays...xoxoxheymummaPost your Comment

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Customer69 is right, us guys really enjoy sex, but when ensconced in a serious relationship, don't really need to come every time. But it's always nice to see your partner writhing away under your touch, and especially when she comes messily all over your cock.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Agreed, sex is enjoyable either way. Of course an orgasm is awesome, but if not its fun anyway

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I enjoy having orgasms as it leaves me feeling more fulfilled and alive its even better whe i have multiple orgams. i feel guilty though if i finish before my partner

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well the best way to explain it is,  You know how they say ''if a butterfly flaps its wings in China a cyclone rages in America'' well its many many many times more powerful then that, each time a lady has a orgasm,millions of light years away a star would burst into life. so there you go pretty darn important dont you think!!  Oh and in case you wondering,when a man comes, that butterfly we talk about earlier, it farts

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    How can you finish before your partner, Gutta_Angel?  Every woman I've been with has had multiple orgasms and the only reason that they've 'finished' is because of me. I can hold out for many minutes/hours, even to the stage of not cumming at all, if I want to. I find the best thing in sex is to have my partner ecstatic with orgasm after orgasm. And before you say otherwise, try me. A night of absolutely fantastic sex means from 8pm to 10am, and who sleeps?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    of course I love to cum...but sometimes...I just cant...or its taking too long and hes making faces or noises that make me think hes over it...so i say...meh...dont worry about it.Sometimes i tell them to stop coz ive just had enough and want them to finish and go to sleep.I find im needing the emotional connection now in order to cum...or i have to do it myself.Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    people can have mind blowing sex that doesnt last all night. awesomeone,  i would also like to quote miss bj 'Sometimes i tell them to stop coz ive just had enough and want them to finish and go to sleep.' not so much i want to go to sleep, more like my legs are stretched open in ways where i get to a point and ask them to stop coz i am sore as they hadnt been like that in a whilst.   however the chance of me staying up all night in the sack only increases with alcohol...something i dont drink all that often as i am one who cant be pressured into drinking to a point where i wake up the next morning regreting the night before

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    that I didn't have to have an orgasm every time we had sex lol... finally he accepted that... and now, with a lot more time to ourselves, it's an incredibly rare occasion that he doesn't get me excited enough to demand one mmmmmmmmmm... Mrs P

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Don't they? I think boys are a little more standard but then i have no experience.My 1st wife only came when i licked her. The best fuck buddy I ever had never came. (took me a while to get my head around that). My second wife can come in 30 seconds! Oh and she usually didn't cum until I did.Personally if i don't get there I don't mind and it gives me an excuse for more. S'pose I'm just happy just rootin'. That's why I'm here and not rsvp. But then that only my perception.Stick 'em and see. No disrespect. And I usually ask what makes them cum 'cause I'm always happy to oblige.