A question on protocol..?

December 24 2012

I’ve been having a bit of a look around the Webcams lately and I have ahh, ‘found’ my cousin and his lovely new wife on cam a couple of times. What’s the protocol on this? Should I introduce myself with a private ‘whisper’, public chat or reply to their add? I cant not say anything! Makes me smile just thinking about it..

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    but next time you see them, how about mentioning that you have found a really good site online called Red Hot Pie.   Ask them if they have heard of it?   When they smile you can confess that actually you are a member and you visit the cam rooms and just add - its surprising who you see there....and just smile.   They will probably have a laugh and share some stories with you. Most RHP'ers are very open about their activities when they feel comfortable with other open minded people they know and trust. (except those "discreet" beings who have something to hide)   Love to hear how it goes....   Could lead to lots of interesting times..   SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Call your cousin,or send him a message here if you know his profile name.Or say nothing and don't go back into the chat rooms....or perhaps he reads the forums and now he knows.....I hope he likes banjo music

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I would find it rather creepy to get a whisper from a relative as I am on cam showing me bits or just finished showing my bits! And to say it publicly? Wow you really don't know much about discretion do you? If you did then you should expect a punch in the nose when he sees you next..and rightly so! To me it is just creepy and just wrong to be looking at your cousins cam! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Last thing in the world I want is for my family to get wind of what I like to get up to

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Maybe it turns him on?? Each to their own I guess :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Are you from Tasmania by any chance??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ghostbusters'Maybe it turns him on?? Each to their own I guess :p As Freya said...I can hear the Deliverance music from here...Just wonder if Jase will be the one squealing like a pig when his cousin finds out he's been perving on his wife! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you can in this country marry your first cousin,your aunt,your niece....so not tooo hinky I guess

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    bring it up in a face to face conversation rather than something online...that way you can control the conversation and respond as may see fir...maybe they dont want you to know?????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I can hear the sounds of rubber gloves being pulled on from here!! :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    GB are you bending over again

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Plastic surgeons a over the world are just waiting to help.....clear up the scar...the poor bugger...we should actually formulate a response I guess..........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    A "classic"movie Mr Sat told me..apart from fact Burt Reynolds looks like he had hadBtox way before we ever heard it was on the market has to be one of the most disturbing movies I've ever seen!! OP..um it's your cousin..now I'm thinking it's his lovely wife you have your tabs on..has the term "too close to home"something you are familiar with? If I were you I'd let it slide and actually say nothing..best in everyones interest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We had a cousin of Schatzi flirt us and she accidentally responded with the "yes yes yes" response..... The private messages that followed were quite funny :p- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My cousin messaged me on Facebook to tell me that he found my profile on here... We had a giggle about it and nothing has been said since.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Glad to see SchatziNstretch and SacralChakra also see the funny side to BadJase's situation. There is no need for it to be weird, "deliverance" style.   Anyone who puts themselves out there must realise that someone in the audience will eventually recognise them. It's just a matter of time. They are open and comfortable with their sexual relationship. Now they have someone they can joke about it with without being judged by those not enjoying the lifestyle.   You will be surprised at your cousin and his wife's response when you do let them know. After all you are in there too!   SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...don't go lettin' these here city folk chuck hot cow pies up aginst the wall of your barn, t'aint nuthin' havin' kin ya love to touch. Give that cousin twice removed on both yer mama and papa's side of the family a call, tell 'em ya'll will drag a few of the dead cars outta the back yard, chuck down a fresh mattress and party 'til the rooster starts a'crowin'. Hell boy, some folks done been married three or four times and never changed in-laws ya know? Personally, I'd take it for a miss and not mention it, imagine if the situation were reversed and you did say it was his lovely new wife...avoid the possibility embarrassment and upsetting a new marriage all around.If not, drop me a note and I'll send you the instructions on how to build a still and prepare the corm mash.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFox' Are you from Tasmania by any chance?? lol!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Send them a text while they are actually on line telling them that she looks even better naked than she did in her wedding dress. . Seriously, take your cousin out for a beer and talk to him. Christ, my daughter is on here and I have no issues discussing this with her. If they are on line then JUST DONT LOOK! and why have you found them A COUPLE OF TIMES HMMMMM? So you know thier profile name and keep going back do you? . Oh and Freya..I think it is SECOND cousins you can marry not first cousins.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    nope it is definitely your first cousin ,aunt,uncle,neice,nephew under Australian law...surprising but true

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    if someone looks at my cam well I'd check them out.. I notice you have a clear face shot on yours. I would assume your cousin knows it's you How about a simple sms off truth ... "so cuz I see you're on RHP too!" simple and leaves no doubt - Posted from rhpmobile

  • N4November

    N4November

    13 years ago

    I would block their profile so they can never see your details and not mention it to them. In this scenario, I would be so creeped out that my new husband's cousin (you) had been watching us on webcam ewwwwwwwwww#next_pages_container { width: 5px; hight: 5px; position: absolute; top: -100px; left: -100px; z-index: 2147483647 !important; } Just be privately pleased that they are living their lives authentically!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That's all I say and agree with baygirl completely.