M56
A predator in the midst
May 28 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Let her continue the challenge. Every relationship depends on trust, respect and a strong bond if these guys are choosing to deceive their partners well they deserve every bit of fallout. Just maybe we should make her the official rhp SCRT "swinging couples relationship tester" hey you could be the male version sent out to test the ladies. Shae xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Very sorry to hear that is going on. I am sure there are plenty of single men that she could persue. You might consider posting a note of warning in the couples corner. I am not sure about exposing her but I do understand ur reasoning behind it. See what everyone else says. She obviously has a lot of problems. As far as men and tempting goes maybe the male in the relationship might reconsider before he goes there and weighs up his loses. I think any couple that play are lucky to have the trust and oportunnity if that's what they both want. But if you have agreed to play as a couple then the rules need to be talked through and followed through. Miss K
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RHP User
16 years ago
Anyone who doesn't see this risk playing on a sex site isn't living in the real world or is very naive. Your parents lie (re Santa, Easter Bunny & the tooth fairy), politicians lie, employers/employees lie, what makes people think this won't happen to them? Can't have been a solid relationship to start with.
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RHP User
16 years ago
YES!
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RHP User
16 years ago
YES!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dont play up behind your partners back and there would not be a problem, it is really quiet simple. An orgasm is not worth a relationship break up. Just my opinion. Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't envy you your task or decision in this single1, and I don't know what to tell you. Perhaps this warning may be enough should couples decide to read it. As Miss K has suggested, a posting in the couples corner may be enough to warn the unsuspecting about the scruples of this woman, but I don't think you should publish a name for all to see. Maybe the couples could contact you should they think they need to know the unscrupulous one's name...then it is private between you and the couple. Is there something that RHP can do about having her stop this behaviour? Her immorality, as professed by you, should be enough for them to send a warning about her behaviour. Good luck with your conscience and whatever you decide to to about it. I hope she reads this and stops that behaviour as it is reprehensible. xxILTS
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RHP User
16 years ago
the wife/ex is being a real PITA with things... maybe I need to seek out this gal to help get her off my back..... Wayne
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Innercircle
16 years ago
We know of a girl on this site from WA, who does exactly this. Many couples have come up against her, and lost. Its a game to her. She nearly got us. Nearly.Send us the "I noticed you noticed me, and now I’ve noticed you too." flirt, and we will reply with a mesage :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thats my motto. She couldn't break them up if there were not underlying issues not already being dealt with. Still she is not playiong fair, is she?
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RHP User
16 years ago
firstly can i just say wow you girls have some very hot pics happening right there....couplesint and Mrs S WOW ok now to topic lol....im not a swinger so please nobody take this wrong...its just my opinion but i think it is the mans fault...he is the one that is taken and no matter what, he is the one that has the most to lose if he lets this woman do this...he looses his wife and kids you havent said but let me guess once she gets him she pisses him off for the next one, its women like this that give the rest of us a bad name what an awful game to play with a persons life good luck to you all...i hope now that you all know this woman is around you will all be very careful xxx roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
What a way to fcuk up a good thing..We shouldnt have to piss on trees like dogs to know who is with who..The third person is a guest..They should act like it..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sure this woman's a BITCH but.... lets count all the bastards most women encounter on here ? I was chatting to a fellow MALE RHPer this morning and we discovered we have something in common. We are both in relationships and no longer seeing others but we are BOTH struggling getting the ex playmates to back off and we have both experienced abuse from playmates when we say we aren't interested anymore ! From my chat this morning I realise that men and women can be very similar in their jealousy and predatory behaviour. Last night I got a phone call from a guy who I have NEVER played with but did have coffee with twice LAST YEAR, he asked how I was and I told him how happy I am in my relationship etc. He said, "well I just wasted a phone call then didn't I" and he hung up ! Temptation will ALWAYS be there and it's the individuals responsibility to resist the temptation. We can rid the community of one predator but another will take his or her place. The only thing we are in control of is our own actions. Hugs, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry single, No I dont think you should expose her, if men will go where temptation is offered thats up to them and their morals or lack of and surely their partners dont think the guys are on here for tupperware parties?? I would, as a single person assume any man married/attached or single on here is looking for sex, if they are not beside you one can assume they are chasing skirt, or pants. As to it breaking up relationships, maybe the relationship wasn't that strong in the first place? As for painting all females as man stealers?? ahhh I'd say thats a no lol, would anyone really want to keep some one that wanders off with any stray?Food for thought anywayDev xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would agree that the type of behaviour discussed is completely inappropriate in any sort of committed relationship however, placing the guilt upon the head of the female and "exposing her" to public evisceration would be both unwarranted and presumes some form of innocence of the others involved, particularly the men...albeit a wise word to the women may be to more carefully scrutinize who you welcome into your relationship? It is a difficult call and assumptions are often erroneous. Perhaps just your message here as thoughts for consideration will suffice.
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piercedfun
16 years ago
thats a nasty game to play but the old saying it takes two to tango good thing for me i cant dance haha now if only i can find this woman make up a fake wife as i am single i might get lucky haha
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, that is nasty. Being in a committed and wonderful marriage myself, i would hate to see this happen to us. And although i trust Mr Shy one can never under estimate the power of a woman when she is trying to seduce. To do it as a game though is just naaasssstttyyyy. I have however, been on the other end of this...where I have been "seduced" so to speak to stray...in secret. Altough I have of course been able to resist...part of the rules established between mr shy and myself... It is a part of life, like it or not...and it comes down to what you are willing to risk for a little bit of fun..would i risk my relationship..of course not. But yes..temptation is called that for a reason. Best to try not to fall into it when so much is on the line. The nasty thing about this whole thing...is that this woman allegedly seduces the man...but intends to break the relationship up. That is unforgiveable and just screwed up. Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would just say "every dog has their day" There is alot of bad karma heading her way and i would not want to be her when it catches up ....Steve ...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Firstly as tempting as it is i would suggest that if you want to keep your post alive don't name and shame or it will get pulled.Second, someone can only come between you if you let them, if you are now aware that this is her game then easy, neither of you play with her, stay right away, no temptation, end all contact and just say to her that the reason is you are not comfortable with what she is doing and that you don' want to hear from her again.As for the other couples, sad as it is it really isn't your problem and really if the guys went there they were always running a huge risk, for us it is not an issue as we allow each other to play alone and we know about it, all open and upfront so no harm can be done by these sort of women (or men, they are here as well) not that that is an option for everyone but it works well for us.Finally karma is a wonderful thing and what goes around comes around and one day she will find a man that is her whole world only to have some young thing come along and split them up so just look forward to that.Best of luck, have fun and be strong,Mrs GC
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ultimately....it is the MANS relationship...and if this woman chooses to be a homewrecker...then that's on her...but HE is the one cheating...so if her ploy works....and he thinks with his cock...its a lose/lose situation for all.People don't stray if they are getting everything they need at home.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Isnt it so sad that people( men and women) haveto stoop so low.. But you must ask yourself what was the male of the couple doing with this woman anyway??? I have found though that some men on this site do the same thing.... But who is really to blame?? As far as i know it takes 2 to tango. Everyone is taking a chance on any sex site.. that they enter into.. it is sad though that people like this get off on hurting others in the
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Excited62
16 years ago
Quoting 'rockercouple80'We know of a girl on this site from WA, who does exactly this. Many couples have come up against her, and lost. Its a game to her. She nearly got us. Nearly.Send us the "I noticed you noticed me, and now I’ve noticed you too." flirt, and we will reply with a mesage :) there is a lady in WA that hooks up with married/attached men and then contacts the wife to dob hubby in! was wondering if she was one and the same?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHO SHE IS! EXPOSE HER! I WOULD 4 SURE! TELL ME WHO SHE IS! I WILL! IF WE LET HER STAY UNEXPOSED! HOW MANY MORE! RELATIONSHIPS! WILL BE RUINED BY HER! ALL THE AFFECTS OF HER BEHAVIOUR! THE COUPLE & THEIR FAMILIES!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good onya for being "Community" minded and caring enough about the impact of thiswomans actions on others relationships to put up the Post.What i did find dissapointing was the "Not your/our problem so who cares" attitudeof some other posts. This is one of the biggest problems in society today, to few peoplewill look out for fellow man/woman/child.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
If the OP had said a guy was the one doing the breaking up, there would be instant condemnation for the arsehole, with a lineup of women with blunt rusty knives ready to perform a dickonopoty!But it is a female who is the predator, so naturally the male of the couple is at fault! We haven't been told the full story, we don't know what tricks the woman does to get the guy alone, we don't know what the woman is telling the female of the couple. Hell for all we know, the guy and the bitch could have met for a coffee under any pretense she came up with and she told the female of the couple something entirely different.! The OP stated that this is the game she plays, she likes breaking up couples - IT IS SHE WHO IS IN FAULT!Climbs down from the soapbox
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont know if it comes towho is at fault or apportioning blame, but the Judge, jury and executioner comment made me smile. Long live democracy Devine xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Yup, i agree, No one can break you up if you stick to the rules and always tell each other everything. If there's no amo there's no problem. Have nothing to hide and hide nothing. This is a dangerous game we're playing here, we're putting everything on the line for a fuck essentially.........get it right and there will be lots of fun and you won't pay more than you can afford to. Mrs S xx In the end it all comes down to asking yourself very important question. 1. Did i choose correctly and marry a decent human being who values his family more than his life, who has a concience and who has the smarts to know how truely worthless a random fuck/orgasm in comparisson to his childrens opinion of him and their security and their family. Someone who actually enjoys looking in the mirror in the morning and respecting the man he sees.If the answer is yes, you have nothing to be concerned about. The bitch can give it her best shot. Mrs S xx Absolutely agree 110%. Very well put! Quoting 'Taipan12' What a way to fcuk up a good thing..We shouldnt have to piss on trees like dogs to know who is with who..The third person is a guest..They should act like it.. Simple and makes a good point. It's about respect.Quoting 'MissBJ' Ultimately....it is the MANS relationship...and if this woman chooses to be a homewrecker...then that's on her...but HE is the one cheating...so if her ploy works....and he thinks with his cock...its a lose/lose situation for all.People don't stray if they are getting everything they need at home.JMO...BJxxx This is true, it is the man's relationship and he is breaking rules. She is obviously a vindictive and nasty biatch because she set out with intent to wreak havoc, but he strayed. She cleary has her own (im)moral code and karma will likely take care of that.Ruggedly_Rugged is right too. Dangerous games don't tend to favour the naive and stupid.Just my opinion (borrowed from snippets of everybody elses LOL)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mooka'If the OP had said a guy was the one doing the breaking up, there would be instant condemnation for the arsehole, with a lineup of women with blunt rusty knives ready to perform a dickonopoty!But it is a female who is the predator, so naturally the male of the couple is at fault! We haven't been told the full story, we don't know what tricks the woman does to get the guy alone, we don't know what the woman is telling the female of the couple. Hell for all we know, the guy and the bitch could have met for a coffee under any pretense she came up with and she told the female of the couple something entirely different.! The OP stated that this is the game she plays, she likes breaking up couples - IT IS SHE WHO IS IN FAULT!Climbs down from the soapbox On ya Mooka for stating the bleeding obvious that few choose to acknowledge :-) Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
why does the woman always get the blame in these situations?? it is the guy who is cheating and playing up on his wife/partner:she is a single woman so im afraid she can do as she chooses and isnt huring anyone. couples shouldnt swing unless they are very happy and confident in their relationship, and choose the other woman wisely...ur just putting temptation in the way. xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some of you need to take a good look at yourselves, why expose her? Why not expose the dip shits who strayed? Why not expose the women who didn't keep their guy on a leash? I think it's time people took responsibility for their deeds and stop looking for scapegoats. Why not start a list of cheating bastards in Secret Womens Business?
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RHP User
16 years ago
We are all predators, aren't we Some are just more dangerous than others...
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RHP User
16 years ago
"I know some of u will say its the guys fault, but hey, it can be a very hard temptation to resist"..to quote you single1_4funAnd its not only men!!..What a load of crap...if your honest and open to your partners...you'd see straight through people like that ..be it male or female and discuss any thoughts you feel with your partner. Too much thinking with the wrong head.Theres only one way to deal with people like that ...DELETE/BLOCK. People should have more respect for their partners.But yes..there are a few predators on here...men and women ..we have come across both.Leelee
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RHP User
16 years ago
I notice the comments are decidedly a sense of blame, either blaming males or females for infidelity (starting or responding). this is not a blame game scenario. This is about a sense of decency, stepping over the mark to steal someone for ones own personal gain is selfish and immoral. We are all humans and fail to live up to each other expectations all the time, some of us may give in to advances from people we may like (most of us, may have already). Gaining a sense of trust from a couple which this particular has done then enacted her devlish ways is repugnant, regardless of the predator being male or female. The male in the scenario, being human, fell for her charm and paid the ultimate price. As some of you have said cheating requires two people and that means decisions were made of a selfish nature by two parties. Perhaps naming the person involved isn't the best thing as there will be repurcussions if that happened.Best to be onguard for predators and equip yourself with defences :DCandyman
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