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A not so common Fantasy? But an adoptable one?

May 13 2011

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This is my first post, and in a world i am still to learn, and perhaps this is more common than i think. You tell me.I came on here and as a lot of people do, and I've opted to protect your face by hiding it in a private gallery because you never know if a friend, neighbor, cousin or sex chasing co-worker might come across your profile of which may cause some red faces. Anyway since looking amongst these sites i have developed a fantasy that i had never previously considered, and it's made me not only excited to try to fulfill it, despite its challenges but also wonder if its more common than i thought given faces are commonly concealed here.Anyway, to the point - the fantasy!I've started dreaming and thinking about (an unhealthy amount at inappropriate times) what it would be like to strike up a conversation and interaction with someone local from this site. Then with a reasonable degree of organisation pay them a visit one day for a night, or many night of fun.So far, this is pretty much the focus of this site!The catch, and what has me hooked it that i would do it with them never having seen my face, and possibly me never seeing theirs. To an even hotter extreme, for them to never really see me at all. I'd love to just plan a meet, go up to an unlocked door, quietly slip my way inside and towards their bedroom (basic map for guidance preferred! don't want to find an unsuspecting house mate), find them waiting, blindfolded in bed.With the help of some light bondage to ensure no peaking and naught touching explore their body with my hands, my tongue and my lips my whole body, leaving them nothing by my touch, perhaps never saying a word, just my smell and the feeling on their tongue, lips and mouth, breasts and thighs to go by to identify who i am and what i might look like.A few hours later after the fun has been had, i would slip away, the blindfold still, satisfaction by all had and with them left wondering who their late night admirer was and what they looked life. A perfect stranger! Was it that man beside me in traffic. Left thinking if the guy i just passed at the shops smelt just like him...With every visit learning more but never knowing for sure. And after i left i'd leave a simple calling card, so they would know it was me, an Ace of Spades! Could you do it?So tell me ladies, as a fantasy maker, would this do it for you and would you participate. In a world of paranoid people is it too much to trust a stranger whilst you are at your most vulnerable, or are you like me, and is that what makes it the most exciting?Ace of ♠

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    For a robber! xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sounds totally hot... and very dangerous for the woman. So tell me secretaff would you do it? Would you be blindfolded and tied up and trust me to come into your bedroom??I mean you don't know who I am, you don't know if I am alone, I might bring a girlfriend or maybe a boyfriend along, you don't know that I am wearing a huge mighty strapon with your name on it. Would you do it? xxMeeka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I would be careful...about the time you sneak up and try to bag a beauty with a hood, you might find out that she is one of the sneaky ones that will launch your knurlys half way to Samoa with one kick. There are a couple of them here that can do that, you know. | And don't make it too much of a surprise... | ...if she screams, there is no telling who might hear it. | | Although...you can get free chewing gum at 7-11 if you look really scary.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks, there are all great points.Thats a great idea chill, having a friend in another room and the stop word.My ideas were a little less BDSM, more blindfold and very sensual play...To answer your question about would i trust someone to do it to me. If i felt the right connection i think i could.I would just want to be sure that they were the person on their profile.I'm also on AMM and have licence verified there. I think as long as someone knows your playing, and who with the law is still a very good protection.Thoughts?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' So tell me secretaff would you do it? Would you be blindfolded and tied up and trust me to come into your bedroom??I mean you don't know who I am, you don't know if I am alone, I might bring a girlfriend or maybe a boyfriend along, you don't know that I am wearing a huge mighty strapon with your name on it. Would you do it? If I have never met the person before, there is no way I would expose myself to such a potentially violating experience. However, with the right host in control... or perhaps even at the right venue with the lights down low... it's an enjoyable experience. The issue here is the line between safety and control... or none. It is all fine to relinquish control for that BDSM experience... but I know very few people who will do that without regard for their own safety. Of those I know who would... well, let's just say that the perp is more exposed to danger than they know.HugsS

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Perhaps host a party. Host (or hostess) leads one person to room and applies blindfold. Host brings other person in later but hangs around to make sure all is safe. Maybe even blindfolds other person so neither knows who they were with. Sounds like a plan to me.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I had a friend arrange exactly this fantasy....... He picked the guys (yes 3 of them) I totally trusted his judgement....so felt very safe...... He told them what the rules were & they werent allowed to break the rules..... He stayed at the house out of sight (even tho he knew the guys) I was hooded & tied to my bed & at different times I would have a visitor.. The antisipation of hearing him walk thru the door & not knowing what was going to happen was sooooooo exciting...... No talking at all...... The smell of different ppl....... The different touches.... This all happened within 4hours..... Even now I meet his mates & I wonder was he one of the guys I can die happy now....That was the only FANTASY I have ever had Dazi

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Doesn't even matter really how many sites like this you may be registered on and/or under how many alias names etc. even if they are verified or registered to your personal identification. This is really starting to sound like how someone may troll for a victim...and that may or may not be true but close enough not to award even a cheap cigar. | Just my very humble opinion of course...and people can be on as many of these types of sites as they like and the truths remain the same. | ♞ Black Knights ♞

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  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    15 years ago

    There's no way!It's far too unsafe.Actually, I've even begun to adopt a general security protocol for general 'meetings' all together.Where I was once only too happy to entertain in my own home; I will no longer do so until I've established rapport with the person.Where I once willingly parted with my mobile number; I now screen people before they earn the right to communicate with me via that medium.Why?There are some really bad, nasty and unsavoury people in the world and you never know who they might be.I've had 4 separate instances on this site in the month that I've been here that has made me adjust my way of thinking.17 (unanswered) phone calls, 2 voicemail and 3 txts in half an hour from someone I'd never met and all because I sussed him out for being a player and indicated I wasn't interested! Then to get abusive and threatening!! Like you will ever hear from me again twat!! Imagine if I'd let this knob into my house?Trust me when I say that it will only take for you to have 1 or possibly 2 bad experiences on sites like this before you learn your lesson and adopt a more security conscious approach.Then again - you did clearly state this is a fantasy which begs the question; are you really likely to act on it?CheersHan

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'It is all fine to relinquish control for that BDSM experience... but I know very few people who will do that without regard for their own safety. Of those I know who would... well, let's just say that the perp is more exposed to danger than they know.Do you really think they wouldn't know on some level that they are putting themselves in a potentially dangerous situation? Maybe that is a big part of the buzz for some people. xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Appreciate the excitement point of view, the thrill of anonymity, etc etc. . I agree with Stalky. My safety would be paramount and I couldn't guarantee it enough in this situation. . And I personally get no satisfaction whatsoever from loss of control and danger. . Flirty x

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Its a good point that there is a huge security issue with this. It would be stupid to ignore it.But isn't there a security issue when hooking up with anyone. I'm new to this site and these sites in general and have not actually met up with anyone in any circumstances yet but by the same token aren't you just as at risk from general nutters getting into a cab, or going home drunk from a club with a stranger to their home...I though that by giving the other person the safety of their own home, the ability to have friends at home / nearby that it would reduce that threat alot.What can really be done to you behind a closed door if your blindfolded that when people know where you are that can't be done to you if you have seen their face and your in their room.Also, yes this is a fantasy, and the thing about fantasies are that they are outrageous and ignore all of the rules of logic, like the idea the strippers at a club would slip you their number for a private after work party with their friends. It will prob never happen, but it could, and that is what makes it exciting. I'm sure every man would call that number if it was given to them but the same issues with security could be raised.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'secretaff' What can really be done to you behind a closed door if your blindfolded that when people know where you are that can't be done to you if you have seen their face and your in their room.Also, yes this is a fantasy, and the thing about fantasies are that they are outrageous and ignore all of the rules of logic, You do have a point but to be tied up and blindfolded with someone you have never met or seen or even the guy you have just picked up is a totally different ball game. If they turn out to be crazy you have no chance at all... all they need to do is put something in your mouth and no one will even hear you scream. So even if you have friends close by that may not save you. I think it is hard for guys to truly appreciate how it feels to be overpowered.Also secretaff a lot of people are on this site to make their fantasies come true... which is why everyone has reacted so strongly to the danger element in your fantasy. Have fun! xxMeeka

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