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A little noise goes a long way?

March 12 2012

So here I am, spending a little time pondering the intricacies of sex noises and whether they are a good thing, bad thing or indifferent and this led me to wonder what others think? I'm thinking more about moans, groans, oohs and aaahs specifically.Does a little noise go a long way or would you prefer a more silent lover?Does it matter whether its gentle little whimpers, slightly more enthusiastic 'When Harry Met Sally' style or screaming the place down kinda noise?

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    No one likes to fuck a silent ninja! So the more groaning and moaning the better... I also like lots of talking too. Dirty and not so dirty. Now don't get me wrong... I love ruff fuck me hard against the wall sex where nothing but heavy breathing and moaning is heard, but sometimes just having a laugh during it all is lots of fun too if the mood is right. xx Meeka

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Im a bit of a screamer myself, though I like to think I have good reason when I'm being roughly impaled on a big rock hard cock, and guys seem to love that about me. Infact an ex of mine used to get worried something was wrong when I DIDN'T scream And seemed to take it personally..lol but although I love it rough n scream a lil hehe, somehow we always end up laughing at times :) rough, hard n fast, in a frenzy slammed up against a wall and breaking furniture, ornaments etc but cheeky n fun falling off the bed laughing while still trying to stay..connected;) and I wouldn't have it any other way. X

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    It always makes me cum harder hearing him or her enjoying themselves

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I love a vocal woman probably why i married my wife they are such a turn on. For me the sound lights up that part of the brain that makes me horny and keeps me interested i have tried the '"sleeping Nija" in the past but a screamer is so much more fun.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Parenting. Parents are all well versed in the art of silence, on account of the highly likely prospect of coitus interruptus when noisy. However, when the opportunity exists, it's quite a relief to enjoy the freedom of expression that sexual gratification can induce.Kind regardsStalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    lol Stalky so true!!! and we have our tandems down to a fine art too..... quickies for as long as possible hahaha- 2-5 min intervals start/finish/start/finish etc. Just so that if we are interrupted we have at been able to finish at least once, Although we have been interrupted 1 min in .Noises are necessary to communicate the build ups- what's good, what's not, what's too much what needs more. All messages can be decoded from a moan/groan and whimper. Even if they are little noises or muffled by a hand over my mouth. Not much of a screamer myself though.Cass xxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Love a little Noise ... Blow job muffled screams of Joy are the Best

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    A lot of noise and down right dirty banter is a huge turn on, but not when it's faked exhilaration LOL

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Agree with Stalky and Multiples   Its hard to be noisy when u have kids in the house (unless u want to scar them for life) so i have learnt to control myself as i used to be a screamer now its more of a whimper or a groan or muffled sounds coming from the pillow. But when im not home or the kids are out i do become a bit more vocal

  • N4November

    N4November

    14 years ago

    EXCEPT for that time in Brisbane I hosted a party in my hotel and a woman barked constantly like a chihuahua and broke into random bursts of opera singing!!!! She was also a mad squirter and her hubby was a jackhammer. It was funny at first but WTF?!! lolBut any other time than that - it's HOT!!!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'baygirl2315' EXCEPT for that time in Brisbane I hosted a party in my hotel and a woman barked constantly like a chihuahua and broke into random bursts of opera singing!!!! She was also a mad squirter and her hubby was a jackhammer. It was funny at first but WTF?!! lolBut any other time than that - it's HOT!!!Goodness me! Guess I have nothing to worry about then...no barking or singing coming out of this mouth..

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I confess to loving my lovers to yelp ,moan ,groan,sigh says to me that they are enjoying themselves and expressing their appreciation and joy., With the exception of one man, who although very skilfull made the MOST off putting sounds, consisting mainly of YUM YUM YUM YUM,OH YEAH DELICIOUS.His eyes were closed and while I was happy he was having a good time I did feel like a roast beef sandwich !!!!!!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...are always delightful, you know even without a spoken word what you are sharing with your partner. Whether a low and rumbly growl from deep inside the throat to a more intense cry into the night...it is one way to communicate our lust and passion. | I also like "pillow talk"...and let's face it shared laughter can be as sensual as the spoken word. It also gives me a chance to explain all those things I may have said in Spanish whilst whispering into your ear or just below it against your neck. | Carnal communication...and primal instincts.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    My neighbor has made mention of our noise....and her house is about 50 metres away!!Time to buy some ball gags - for us this time. lol

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Kind regards, Stalky?? I hope you haven't been writing that on business correspondence?? LMFAO.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Mr likes girls who make lots and lots of noise while mrs enjoys men who Show there enjoyment with a nice sticky ending and some noise bahahah Def no barking or singing ;-/

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I've never been one for the more energetic vocal performances. Makes me feel a little self conscious I think.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' My neighbor has made mention of our noise....and her house is about 50 metres away!!Time to buy some ball gags - for us this time. lol Me too...just last week, I was enjoying some err, special 'alone time' where I just happened to have a few toys out and I forgot to close my window....I only realised after I'd climaxed noisily and heard my neighbour exclaiming "disgusting behaviour" Ooops...my bad *** I'm usually quite quiet when going solo...it's in the company of others I get loud***

  • secure2

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    14 years ago

    A litle bit of noise from all involved is always good, not oonly lets you know you're hitting the right spot but spurs you on

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Carnal communication...and primal instincts. Carnal communication...and primal plangency. RE OP Screaming and making remarks during sex seems like a put on to me like a performance which I am not natural at.....so I am not vocal..... much. I am a little bit curious about the theatre of sex but I think I would need a costume to get into character :)Cass xxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Im with kimmy. A little moan and grone when its on the spot is so much more sensual. lots of noise puts me off.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hardly think that it is disgusting behaviour i would of asked for a invtie lol

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    When my partner totally gives in to pleasure, disregarding rules and concerns about neighbours, people in the hotel room next door or the open window.. That is hard to find, I found her and I loved it! Loud, wild & sexy.. I did witness the best multiple orgasms, and each was louder than the one before.. I know location can make a difference - more of a reason to make time to find a suitable playground - I have also been known to be a master of "sneaky" sex, I am a big fan of the "quiet" scream ;) Body arching, toes curling, fingernails digging on your skin... Yum td&h

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    14 years ago

    You can always tell a woman who has kids in the house because the first thing she does when things start getting hot and heavy and she is appreciating it is that she looks for a pillow to bury her face in!!!!!   Seriously though. Noise is good. I always feel better when I can make a noise although I have learned to turn it down when required. I heard a story about a vocal friend of ours being shushed during a play date. She was most offended and the guy did not get a repeat!.   It playing with someone who makes no noise at all is very off putting as you feel like you are doing something wrong or they are impassive to their efforts. I will say though I have been at clubs and wondered if all the noise was genuine and that wasn't so horny.