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A girl's mission to find out if another girl is interested...

August 11 2010

Need a bit of help! My friends and I went for a drink the other night and I turned into a stuttering mess when a gorgeous cutie served us. I have never chased a girl before, so how do I approach this situation? How do you find out if a girl likes girls without making either of us uncomfortable or embarrassed? I've thought about her heaps, but I am lost on how to make things happen. Help please... Kat xoxox

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just Bite the Bullet.... ask the question... then move on!!! You never know; you may be surprised by the answere But hey...What would I know.... Just a Male

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sorry, I have never approached anyone of my same gender but if you want a few one liners to approach a gorgeous woman...I can offer my assistance? | None of them work very well...but sometimes laughter is a great ice breaker? | "Hey...aren't you the girl that I met in France last year at the Cannes International film festival? Gawd, that dress you had on did nothing for you! If I had known you were as incredibly beautiful and as sensual as you are..I would have introduced myself more formally then and told you how attractive you really are! Did you get that role in the movie?"| You have to say it with a straight face if you think it might work. But laugh as you say it...who knows? | Or just try asking, three possible anwsers. Yes, maybe and no... | ...two out of three are not "no" so the odds are in your favour!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You all make interesting points! I forgot to mention a rather crucial detail, I have a boyfriend and we are looking for a girl to join in on our fun. So it's not just a girl on girl thing, it's possibly raising the bar a bit more! We've been really quite unsuccessful in our RHP searches, and to be honest I would prefer to meet someone 'the old fashioned way', ie; in a bar and not online! So, do I admire from afar (thank you Capital!), or just get it out in the open and ask (thank you CountG!), or bullshit my way through an elaborate string of nonsense about ficticious parties I attended in France (thank you Chasing Midnight, that was funny!!). I popped into the bar today and had a coffee and she remebered me from the other night, but for the wrong reasons as I was a bit merry and she asked how bad my hangover was the next day. Hmm. She was friendly and I got all nervous and toungue twisted and my heart was pounding and I probably looked like a nutbag. Thanks for your responses guys, keep 'em coming! Kat xoxox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Take the risk and ask yes it could go wrong but it could also go the way you want it :-) me and my ex used to meet ppl the old fashioned way and let me tell you it turned out better then meeting ppl off the net ! Just make sure u go ther next time with ur bf and both of uz dress rlly sexy and I would maybe get ur bf to approach her good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Is it your Favourite bar/pub/club. If it is i would be leaving well enough alone, otherwise if she takes offence at your offer to have sex with your hubby and you, it could be awkward!Otherwise instead of just beating her over the head with your proposition, just get to know her, and slowly introduce the concept over a few weeks in such a way that you can withdraw without doing any harm You know it is possible she could be straight as a die!Cheers Nev