M65 F65
A gentle touch...
April 29 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
I totally agree with you 100% WOOSES UNITE!!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Cheers Fun, lol..glad I am not the only one...actually...'woose' never felt so good as when being delivered by a gentle lover..
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz.. you ladies have gotta make it known what you like instead of letting guys try and guess. What is it these days about people who fuck and dont talk... its not like your gagged ... oh wait. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why should we have to tell guys that we want a gentle touch? Can't they take the clue from OUR touch? Sweet D
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RHP User
16 years ago
Aly, You have obviously been missing a few Country Womens Association (CWA) meetings of late. The fast and furious fornication issue is a big problem in the bush particularly during the rodeo and buckjumping season when men have difficulty differentiating their "'mount and ride" technique from the paddock to the bedroom. The state executive of the CWA Myrtle, Beryl, Hilda,Gertrude and Violet engaged the services of Dr Feelgood to develop a thrusting reduction advice. Thus was born FFFRED (Fast and Furious Fornication Reduction Enabling Device) otherwise known as an electronic cattle prodder. One application of FFFRED to the fast and furious fornicators nether regions will prompt an immediate and permanent withdrawal of the fornicators member. It will also make the partners wife listening in the adjoining room jealous as hell, thinking her spouse is howling from an orgasm more intense than she has ever been able to give him. YOU WILL KNOW BETTER. NO BULL MMMM....no more bongs for me tonight
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'customer69'Sensual slow silky touches...You are not hammering a nail into a hole fellas!Trish Quoting 'sweet_desires' Why should we have to tell guys that we want a gentle touch? Can't they take the clue from OUR touch? Sweet D Quoting 'alyndrew'Cheers Fun, lol..glad I am not the only one...actually...'woose' never felt so good as when being delivered by a gentle lover.. Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I totally agree with you 100% WOOSES UNITE!!! xFunlovingx There are just as many women who have absolutly no idea of the meaning of "slow" and "Soft" and "gentle". I take offence at bein labled a "woose"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lolz good one Magadan. Fact is, when fucking women, men should really concentrate on trying to satisfy themselves. :p All this cry baby "why dont men know what I want" business is breaking my heart. lol. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Magadan, I rolled around in mirth after reading ur response and FFFRED, where do I git me one of those things..lol. Those CWA ladies, they have their fingers on the pulse..have to personally thank Myrtle, Beryl, Hilda, Gertrude and Violet for their foresight in hiring the services of the honorable Dr Feelgood and his invaluable 'tool' FFFRED. Now as for those men who forget the differences between their two mounts...I would call them 'cowboys' and as we know 'cowboys' are those who pretend a knowledge in matters of which they have not much clue..only to disappoint any who invest in their 'services' - thank goodness for the good ladies of the CWA, Dr Feelgood and FFFRED.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bend over Stalky...FFFRED is waiting for you....hehehe.
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RHP User
16 years ago
LMAO Magadan! Reply Of The Day for sure!Quoting 'stalky' Lolz good one Magadan. Fact is, when fucking women, men should really concentrate on trying to satisfy themselves. :p All this cry baby "why dont men know what I want" business is breaking my heart. lol. Hugs Stalky Yep! Very true! When you've explored enough of me to know what it is that I want, the whole neighbourhood knows you've found out!
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RHP User
16 years ago
We try to work into the conversation "There is no prize for making a lady sore the next day" Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
I heard that was called "rodeo sex"....you cup her breasts and say they're bigger than her sisters... then see if you can hang on for 8 seconds. But I think you're right.. it certainly is a lot of fun to rheem that twat like there's no tomorrow in doggy position..... hips should come with handlebars I reckon. I've been using a pillow looped under her hips but the good linen tears to shreds and is so expensive to replace. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been using a pillow looped under her hips but the good linen tears to shreds and is so expensive to replace. :p Hugs Stalky Stalky, 1000+ thread count egyptian cotton baby - handles like a dream and strength - goodness nothing going to tear that baby. You can always come check out mine. Kisses Focus
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Iabloke
16 years ago
Seem to remember the pointer sisters sang about that once apon a time.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Aly get yourself over to Sydney. At my age "slow, steady..a gentle pace before the big O is upon us." is all my body can take..lol. Conserving energy for the moment she urges an increase in speed is paramout. I mst say, on a serious note, that for some the Big O seesm to be the only goal. That I find sad because they miss all the finer moments to be had in the slow sensual stage which still leads to that Big O. Much prefer the scenic drive over the Freeway anyday. Sweet desires I agree you and would like to think most would "take the clue from OUR touch?". Its the woman who complain "what's wrong with men" when she gives conflicting clues or none at all. That's when communication is essential. Everyone is different, some women like being kissed behind the knee, others think you're gone stark staring mad. If my pace should increase a gentle 'who what's th rush slow down" is much preferred to the cattle prod.
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Loveknot
16 years ago
The urban assault How many of you girls have experienced this? The urban assault (as I call it) is when you are getting it on with a guy and like some kamikaze pilot he goes straight for your pussy and attacks! There’s nothing sensual about the urban assault, he goes straight for the kill with full force rubbing your pussy like a masseuse trying to get a knot out, your there writhing around, trying to get away from the offending hand, saying gentle, slow, but for some reason he doesn’t understand the meaning of those words and the assault continues, until eventually you pry his hand away explain how you want it, this time he goes in a bit more gently but before you know it the kamikaze returns and its another full force attack! This happened to me yet again the other day, so instead of grinning and bearing it I told him he had to leave, it wasn’t going to work for me. He was standing there with his hard on saying what am I supposed to do with this? I said whatever you want! It was difficult to get him out the door as he then morphed into an octopus and continued the attack in a futile attempt to get me to change my mind! How do men get to be 40 and still don’t know their way around a womans body?
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RHP User
16 years ago
"How do men get to be 40 and still don’t know their way around a womans body?' That's a fault down to your gender I'm afraid. Should be culling them in their 30s.
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RHP User
16 years ago
sometimes I like the kamikaze urban assualt.. does this make me less civilised or evolved than others? okay, maybe it does... but it still works for me! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's funny...because when I wrote this, I didn't actually specify men - I said person(s). I have had some 'gung-ho' women too - launch at my pink bits in an assault type fashion. Some great comments here and I do agree, to communicate is probably the answer. Oh yes..and the lady who mentioned 'taking the clue' from our touch, I thought that was particularly insightful - that is communication also...not all of it has to be the 'spoken' word and I think 'listening' to non verbal clues in the bedroom (or wherever u may be) is probably the cleverest thing we can do as lovers.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most men do not get non verbal signals. You have to tell them. They are not mind readers. Only one in ten can pick up hints. And only one in one hundred can pick up subtle body reactions. In general women need to speak up. How many times have I heard a guy say that he likes a woman to tell him what she wants? And if he doesnt get it first time then show him. Take his hand and guide it while telling him how good it will feel in your sexiest voice. Be nice, be playful. You may need to do it a few times. At least by then he should understand what you want. It always works for me. I shall now duck for cover.......!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I thought all males were in tune with the signs... The kissing and grinding..... sliding finger tips just inside the seams of her pantie and bra.... bit by bit caressing closer to the erogenous areas... massaging the sensitive parts rather than rubbing.... listening to the moans and breathing and feeling for the hips to tell you when to speed up.... inserting another finger and letting her push for more... That kind of thing?
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RHP User
16 years ago
so tell me.....ladies want great lovers, men dont know how to read body/non verbal language.......................... as a mother of a 22 years old lad......will it completely freak him out if i give him and discuss a book on tantric sex ?????? hmm maybe it will completely freak me out .....lol conscientious miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
i was reading this thread this morning thinking you are all mad... i want it rough and hard and the rougher and harder the better bend me over, pull my hair, spank me sex BUT after my date tonight...i had forgotton how beautiful a gentle touch was the gentleness of his fingers, softness of his tongue, the feel of a gentle hand running across your body the soft caress of his lips against your skin ohhhh boy i think iv been converted roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Give me BOTH WAYS!!! All depends on my mood and can be fun alternating. Communication well lack of can be most problem but then we got the men who don't really give fuck what you said they heard they listened but its whatever makes them blow and groan. Either way you get your good with your bad and half the fun is finding out who is good
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'I thought all males were in tune with the signs... The kissing and grinding..... sliding finger tips just inside the seams of her pantie and bra.... bit by bit caressing closer to the erogenous areas... massaging the sensitive parts rather than rubbing.... listening to the moans and breathing and feeling for the hips to tell you when to speed up.... inserting another finger and letting her push for more... That kind of thing? Ruggedly....will you marry me xxx roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personally, I think its best to use the soft approach as a default, and only get harder/or more aggresive if you get the signs as thats what is wanted. Although I know some women like the guy to tak the upper hand and dominate the action. As usual its complicated, and all about reading the obvious, and subliminal messages :) Haven't found many complaints from being too gentle/sensuous, but if you communicate well, boundaries can be defined.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Personally, I think its best to use the soft approach as a default, and only get harder/or more aggresive if you get the signs as thats what is wanted. Although I know some women like the guy to tak the upper hand and dominate the action. As usual its complicated, and all about reading the obvious, and subliminal messages :) Haven't found many complaints from being too gentle/sensuous, but if you communicate well, boundaries can be defined.
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol, soft ends up hard anyway, whichever way u wanna do it Lx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes Magadan. No more bongs for you! Lol!
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RHP User
16 years ago
mmmm perched on Ruggedly's bed yummmmm now that would be a fantasy come true roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
The soft the slow method, and if my partner likes it harder or faster I tell her to let me know, after all we are both there for mutual satisfaction and if one of us isn't enjoying it, just not nice in my book
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RHP User
16 years ago
great read so far Well in recent times i have experienced both ...... and while i like a good hard session as much as the next person ...... i think the gentle touch wins in the end :) ... it's all about the build up ... and then getting pushed over the edge ....... Now those with the 22 yr old sons ..... lets hope that they are with girls that tell them what they want I have a 21yr old friend ..... and after spending a really great night with him ..... i asked him if he was always that gentle and huggy and kissy with everyone ..... his reply ... no not at all ... not with the girls my age ..... cos they just lay there or they are just not that nice ... or they dont understand gentle .... or they dont know what they like .... (and this 21yr old seems to pick up every other weekend ) .. so maybe it is that us girls dont realise till we get older what it is we like ... or we just dont tell them cos we dont want to hurt their feelings .... i was with the ex for 14yrs ... and i let him believe that he was good at going down ..... but really he was terrible .... so i had to keep up that for the next 14yrs ..... so now cant be bothered faking it ..... if they hit the spot they will certainly know ... :) and if they are not the good i dont necessarily come out and tell them ... but i dont pretend they were good either
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RHP User
16 years ago
Rugged I think you have converted me back from hardcore to sensual. So there are guys that know what they are doing out there. Anychance I could get in before Roxxy and Mrs S?
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RHP User
16 years ago
if your asking with a cane in your hand..you can have him...the cane scares me, had it before and holy shit ouch but if not...then how rude, but maybe you could join us...now theres a 4some ruggedly couldnt refuse hehe roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
"There's a Fraction too much Friction" or was it "There's a Tractor in the Kitchen"? Either way it's too rough, too frenzie'd, too rampant and too many gears (with a tractor) Sensual, rhythmic, caressing while towing a combine-harvester.
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RHP User
16 years ago
What can I say but...... Dip me in chocolate and throw me to the girls in corsets!
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RHP User
16 years ago
To Mrs S and Roxxy - apologies I was referring to the distance we all have to cover to get to Rugged. My cane is only for those who kiss my feet and beg for it. Milk, dark or white Rugged?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think dark chocolate suits me, tastes great but too much will make you sick lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Will you be coating your whole body or only selected parts?
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RHP User
16 years ago
yay subterfuge... YAY, to stand up and say nup, no more sex for you, when a man or woman can not hear you... can not actually be with you... after repeated requests... tis time for many many more of us to do so. "I ain't had no complaints" is a place where a lot of people live, and it's a falsity that costs others! So, if you can't do it for yourself, do it for the next person that will be subjected to this kind of behaviour! Sex is incredible, precious and important enough to be desired as real as you like it... so make sure you get yours just the way you like it... even finding all the ways as to make sure s/he gets it they way they like it TOO!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dark chocolate mmmm I'm eating some now. Sipping Tokay. Mmmmmmmm alomst better than slow sensual sex. Where foreplay goes on for an hour before I even touch your panties. Mmmm. I enjoy slow. Hey Mrs S are you into Tantra. I can do the basics. But don't belive in most of the chakra stuff. Just a bit jaded as my last gf was into Wicca. Just wary of new age mumbo jumbo most of it is fake only the stupid and mentally damaged get sucked in by it all. I take what I want from what I've learnt. Fab xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some people have a knack of grabbing the essence of a topic ..... Hugs Stalky Quoting 'lushonaleash' lol, soft ends up hard anyway, whichever way u wanna do it Lx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'What can I say but...... Dip me in chocolate and throw me to the girls in corsets! OMG..i think i just passed out at the thought of ruggedly dipped in chocolate roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'I thought all males were in tune with the signs... The kissing and grinding..... sliding finger tips just inside the seams of her pantie and bra.... bit by bit caressing closer to the erogenous areas... massaging the sensitive parts rather than rubbing.... listening to the moans and breathing and feeling for the hips to tell you when to speed up.... inserting another finger and letting her push for more... That kind of thing? listen up rodeo clowns!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
the guys that get the 'twitchy' spot and keep at it! I've told them I don't like, it yet they persist in hitting the spot that twitches my leg...sorry, its not erotic, and its not me getting turned on..oh, and I don't find it amusing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I really do think that based on the repetiveness of these bad encounters that you could be attracting the wrong type of lover.Just as there are different sexualities amonst women , there are different sexualities amonst men.Select wisely is my recommendation for absolute bliss
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