A dilemma...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi Smiley...... Let it go, he's no longer your problem. Think yourself lucky to be out and not hurting anymore! A Leopard very rarely changes their spots, he did it to you, he's now doing it to her. Karma will come back and bite him on the butt without your help. You just need to do what's right for yourself and look after yourself. Question yourself.......would some one tell you if the roles were reversed? Would you believe them or hate them for telling you? Latte xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  First, you might want to consider whether perhaps he has permission to play?If not and you're the devious type, you might try phoning their home a few times, saying nothing when they answer and hanging up after a couple of confused seconds. If she answers, it may plant the seed that he's playing around and at least put her on guard for other signs. If he answers, his guilty conscience might lead him to think that she's playing around, giving him a well-deserved taste of his own medicine. Either way, he loses. It's evil, but then again, so is playing around...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Its a hard one. If she knows you are his Ex then she probably wouldnt beleive you any way... Though you could send her a letter with his web name on it & the site he is on. Then it is up to her if she checks it out & confronts him. Move on & leave his crap behind! Is there a blocking feature on that site? He made his choice when he cheated on you, I dont think he should have access to your sexy pictures! Block him! Mrs H xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Smiley, The question is do you want to go back there? What could be achieved by it? Do you tell her? Are you going to be better off for letting him back in? I can't answer these for you, but I know you have the support of all on here as you ponder your way through this dilema. Go with your gut feeling, it's normally right. xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thank you for your advice. I had already decided that I could not be the one to say anything, even had the advice told me to...I would have found another way to make her aware. The truth is I am still friends with both of these people, and have spent time with them both - how could I not have when he invited her into the home we had been sharing? Before you kick back on this one, that is a long story, and he has been incredibly good to me over the past few years (for those of you who bother to read and judge me - he helped me overcome something very major in my life, helped me pull myself back from hell)...I will be forever grateful to him, even if I would never ever get back together with him. The dilemma was made harder for me to bear when it came on top of the man's niece having her funeral that day. It was hard enough to say goodbye to a little girl, but then to find him trawling for a lover made me feel dirty...especially when I thought back on the way he comforted me more than his current woman after the service. Again, thanks for the comments, I will let it go and pretend that I saw nothing. xxJ

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  GROUP HUGS FOR LUVS, LET'S PUT A SMILE BACK ON HER FACE SHE DESERVES IT SHOW THE LUV

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Big hugs & kisses! Sealed with a lick cos a kiss wont stick! (it slides down the computer screen)

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