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A covert life
February 10 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
besides the fact that our parents are too old to really indulge..... if this were the 70's, they'd be here...... but.. its not..they had to do it all the 'old fashioned' pre-internet way.... we were raised in a fairly open household...parents were nudists, and although they never stated it.... played a little as well.....its no 'big deal' after all...they are adults also..and products of the 'swinging 60's' and 'free love' generations......lol i can remember going to the beach with a group of their friends.....and seeing all of them disrobe and frolic in the surf lol...... we have family members with profiles here...and at other sites.... we've seen each others profiles...and pics...and its not even a small issue...again....we are all adults........we dont compare notes, or share playmates (that we know of ) so its all good.....but must confess that seeing your adult siblings naked...on a sex site profile....is a bit 'confronting'........but once we were past the shock..lol...it was a bit of an embarassing giggle for us all....
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RHP User
14 years ago
How old is too old....I say all ages indulge ... We have had a couple come here that left very quickly when they saw her father playing pool..lol and I can tell u he wasn't old..lol People see other family members and or close friends or work mates here a lot, and their attitude is " well they are here too" and good for them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I guess we all think of ourselves on the site as sexually liberated and free thinkers.But in reality most of us keep the details and the fact that we are on the site away from our "real" lives.Within the RHP community we all chat and talk in a relaxed manner about sex, but we all know that in the other world it is too much for most people, and societies norms prevail. So we all tend to be a little furtive and keep it separate.My kids would curl up and die if they thought i was on here, but they would see no issue with their friends being on here. I guess what's good for the goose isn't always good for the gander.Steve :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
To be really brutally frank, I would love to see my sister and/or mother on rhp or a dating site. The reason I say so is because my mother is a very bitter woman who has hated men ever since my old man left her 18 years ago. Instead of accepting she treated everyone like one of her kindergarten students and that people hate it, she's continued to ignore that fault and remain angry. My sister on the other hand is a rather devout Christian who has never had a drink, smoke, gamble, kiss, etc. It is a choice she has made but there really are a lot of wonderful things she is missing out on because of it. So, the point of this is, I would be very pleased to see either of them on here, trying something new and enjoying some of the delights of being human. It's a damn shame it'll never happen though...
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RHP User
14 years ago
too old...as in no longer physically able....for a variety of reasons.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
As long as the friend/relative in question is of age and not doing it behind a partners back, I'm good with it. More power to them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Putting myself in my parent's shoes, I can well imagine myself on here at the age of ninety. The good news every day is I'll probably not remember a thing about who it was I had been bonking the day before.... so I'd be like a little kid in a candy store, and by reason of ED drugs, nothing would be safe. It'll all be a new experience! Hide the fresh fruits. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Does RHP do a family discount? *calls the relatives*
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RHP User
14 years ago
Glad you cleared that up mike but there are still people that are on here that can't perform for various medical reasons, but they still enjoy the lifestyle. Good for them ! I say Leesa xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
If I saw my Mum (and Dad...they're still married after 50 years) on this site...firstly, I'd ask why they haven't popped in for a cuppa (they live on the other side of the planet) and then I'd give my Mum a giant hug and say "finally Mum, welcome the world of sexual pleasure....it's been a long time coming".Having said that, the likelihood of my Mum ever accessing a site like this is somewhere in the zero range (though I did find a stack on home porn polaroids when I was playing 'burglars' as a pre-teen so who knows!).Mrs Addy
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have bumped into people I recognise for from RHP at work and haven't give it a second though. As for a sibling well I would give them a call and see if they had got lucky. I don't believe in double standards ... so if it good enough for me then it has to be ok for them
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RHP User
14 years ago
*picks up the ringing phone* | "Hey, sis...what's up. You're on what site...no way, what's your nickname?" | "Ohhhhh shit shit shit...I'm on there too! I am soooo sorry about that note I sent to you...it was a template and well, I didn't have any idea that was you under the umbrella and you know I am too much of gentleman to even suggest smearing something all over your lips besides that deep red lipstick." | "Thanks...hey do me a favour, don't tell Mum? Yeah, me either...I think we are both going to have to fight like hell to stay in the will anyway. Thanks, sis...you're aces. See you Sunday for the roast at mum's place". | ....there are just some things they don't really need to know.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd really rather not see some of my rellies nekkid, who cares?!? My son knows. He's the only one whose opinion matters. *shrug*
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would like to think that I would be more freaked out if I got a serious flirt or a "lets meet up" email from one of them but even then I wouldn't disown them and then I'd probably just laugh about it. I'm here so why should they be!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I really wouldn't care. Good on them for being on a sight that is full of liberated people. l reallly don't understand peoples mentality when it comes to sexual pleasure. Had a debate about this the other week with a BF. In the end i let it go as she will never understand. She is of the opinion you cant have sex with anyone if you don't love them. That's what it the question is really all about isn't it?My sons know im on here and they just shrug. It's no big deal to them as they know I am not only their mum, i am also a smart woman who is accountable to her choices she makes in life. They don't judge me for beng on here. tuscan why wouldnt you tell your daughter your on a dating web site. You may be suprised with her response. It is a dating website right just like all the others except we have no hang ups on sex!
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's not exactly a crime to be on here. I guess if I gave a mum flack for being here, or anyone else reacted to knowledge of this type, it's the individual's business where they frequent and rude to gossip or denigrate. Mums gotta have a life too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' See you Sunday for the roast at mum's place". love a good Sunday roasting...
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RHP User
14 years ago
So do I... | Quoting 'Vintagetatu'love a good Sunday roasting... | ...and quite happy that we were both adopted by Mum late in life. | | Remember the secret password to get in to Mum's Place is..."hibachi". Shhh don't tell.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Tuscan why wouldn’t you tell your daughter your on a dating web site. You may be surprised with her response. It is a dating website right just like all the others except we have no hang ups on sex! Its a sex web site, not a date web site. To me other sites like rsvp or find the knight in shiny armour. com are date sites. Though honestly when I read what women are looking for here, no wonder men get so confused. Oh no surprises there I know exactly how my girls would react, the eldest in particular. My daughters are very strong minded women. When I got divorced I did not date ever, for a long time till they had grown up and left home. Reason is they had a dad, and I did not trust a guy to be around my girls( I have my reasons) my sex life does not have to be anybody’s business, at all. Not theirs nor even many of my friends. I have one friend who knows I am on here, and I put her on to this site. The jobs I have done over the years , especially in welfare work may impact my privacy issues. Believe me the fact your on a sex site is great stuff that others can use against you. Your boss, those snickering females who think all sex should be with the boyfriend and with the lights out. I once told a friend I had sex with two guys, I mean this was a woman who fucked the whole town but one at a time She said , MY god I thought you were better than that. We have been friends for over twenty years and I love her to bits but I know now that its not something to share unless you want to loose your straight friends. I happen to like my straight friends. People have labels and I have no intention of letting anyone stick one on me. My girls do not need to know at all. To them I am just mum , my sex life is not up for discussion and I do not pry into theirs. Though we talked a lot about it as they were growing up, so they would not be seduced by the crap up there on the movie. Sex is not all roses and wine and I love you baby, they need to know that. Two other friends years ago, were open about being an a sex site,and meet men all the time and even bought them home. The result was terrible in both cases, the boy who grew into a man would call his mother a slut all the time. The girl got sexually molested more than once by the boyfriends. I even reported it to the police but nothing came of it. Your children well you know what’s best for them, I can only make those kind of choices based on how well I think I know my girls. So its a non disclosure policy for my sex life. I am so aware how the internet is used against people, its the first port of call for any private investigator. We all judge one way or another other peoples sex life, its human nature If they do not know then they cannot judge.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would be fine and it would most likely improve how I feel/think. Unless on their profile it went something like " I like to fuck dirty sluts and kick em out before dawn" If my sisters or anyone that know and respect was on her I would talk to them about it, reveal my profile and I would give em a high 5 :)Tuscanred I understand your stance and your choice I do find it interesting that you have your face exposed on your profile. It seems that most that require discretion do not have their face up a lot even in pg's, it seems rather bold and brave for someone who is being careful.Cass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Totally agree with Sssteve, well said. I overhead my boss talking about being on the site with one of our colleagues. It kinda freaked me out, especially as how they were discussing going to the same "private party" I was invited to. A couple of my friends know that I'm on this site and they think it is very cool. My family, even my kids are very straight and wouldn't appreciate their mum being here. Hard enough to date and put up with the comments let alone actually be free to express myself. Sad but my private life has to definitely be kept separate to my "other" life. It's so nice to find like minded people here though that know how to enjoy themselves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well lucky I work for myself. So as I am the boss I am happy to sexually harass myself for being caught single handed, (pardon the pun) on RHP I will have the conversation: “You know TR you are a bad girl, I shall have to take you in hand for being on a sex/adult date site”. Yep I had to re think the sex only date site after my last post,as it is indeed all things to all people If I get sprung, but a person I know who sees me here. I will have to either put my pink bits over their mouth to shut theme up. As for family well I do not have any Just my girls so I know them well enough to know they would not come to RHP they do not even have face book that’s unusual for women in their twenties, but they are private people. Besides who would think a little old lady would be up to no good on a sex site. I can say who MOI! good lord sonny somebody photo shopped me and I never felt a thing. to be honest when I first came on rhp it was just for my work so no problem with the face picture I can always play poker if someone calls me on it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I had a lass living next door to me since she was 10.. now she is 19: We have always been close, and treat each other virtually as father/daughter Finding her on here, was "INTERESTING" to say the least... We did have a hell of a giggle of it... caveman
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RHP User
14 years ago
well I don't think I would freak out it really depends on who it was if I saw my mother on here I would probably laugh and hope to god I didn't see any exposing photos coz that would be GROSS it just so happens that I was spotted on here a cpl of years back by one of my cousins (when I used to have all my photos public and enter the photo competitions!!) that was slightly embarrassing coz he even confronted me about it at a family gathering and all I could think about was him telling my dad and how he has seen me naked!! so I have kept my photos hidden ever since LOL..
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RHP User
14 years ago
what you say Tuscan. xxxx
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