A bit of finesse

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  No thanks....If that's all that is on offer then I'll pass...for me personally, I need the connection...small talk and snuggles...otherwise I may as well just use a toy to get off as I believe there is no difference...use it, get off, clean up, no contact until the next time you have the urge...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I was like, "How hard are these people fucking if it makes them vomit?" o_0Anyhow, I do like giving oral so I do the blow n go if it's me doing the getaway. I love being the one who gets what she wants and says "thanks, seeya" and breezes out the door :)When it's at my place I don't mind if they stay and chat and play again but I don't generally do sleepovers. The few times I've had people want to stay over I just can't sleep, only kind of doze. I like to play til I'm exhausted, say goodnight then go to bed and sleep like the deadxx Sarah

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We had a girl ask us just last week if she should stay the night. Or would we prefer her to go her to go her own way later in the night. We just let her decide. We said both options are there and we will make the most of what everyone is comfortable with.We feel a couple or single could have very different needs. For us if some one wants to stay because they have had to much to drink or are just to shagged to drive home. Or better still they have plans for more naughty adventures at all hrs of the night and morning. Then we are happy with that. We have shared apartments and hotels before with couples and singles. In that situation your in it for the night. There is something that gets our minds going wild. knowing we have all that time and freedom for all kinds or naughty adventures.I can recall one time when Jane has had one of her male play friends call and offer to drop in mid week unexpected. Really that time it was all about one thing and then they were on there way. Everyone was expecting it to play out like that so we were all fine with it.The rush and thrill at the time made it fun for what it was.We do prefer not to have any rushing orto be used as some satisfaction drop in centre.What we defiantly don't want. Is to play with anyone who wants no friendship or connection with us other than our body's.Tim

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  My ex was the Master of the F^(&ck and Chuck...roll them and leave   He would allow for a max of a 2 hour visit - always going back to their place..always ...he then would set his phone to go off after approx 1 hour or so.....his phone alarm would ring...and he would "answer" it...and because he worked shift work at a 24/7 venue, he would pretend that some emergency had just happened and he just had to go in pronto t!!!! no woman questioned this because of the work he did- he still uses this practice today - I only caught him out when I too was on call one nite and our phones went off at approx the same time and I offered to give him a lift...he only admitted his deception when I drove him to work and he was stranded at work with no one around to give him a lift home !!!!..   As for me, well I am a woman and I do like that snuggle cuddle stuff as well..its nice...but of late, I tend to go back to their place, do the hokey pokey and I do the leaving pretty soon after the event ...perhaps that day may come when he does ask me to stay and I really want to.....and he makes me a coffee for a change...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Suppose we are much the same, Typically we are most comfortable with another couple, getting a independant play place ...a 4 plus star apartment. Foreplay involving dinner etc and the evening over 4-6 hours.   But Midnight...1 AM, we like to go home to our home and bed with happy memories. We dont want to toss and turn in a strange bed waking up all night. The other couple couple quite often stays in the hired apartment, suppose they might feel a bit used, But we told them before any plans were made.

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  contemplating1

  14 years ago

  The wants & needs are mutually sorted out up front.....Saves for disappointment, time wasting etc.   So I go for your honesty tuscanred, "But I say so up front so a person would know that its just for the pleasure of mutual satisfaction."   And I go with my honesty too in dealing with people. To me a liason is more than just about satisfying "my needs."   Have fun, take care

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I personally Like to date if I like then will have fun Im always upfront I want more than random if I meet, its with no expectation I need to connect to play Sleep overs well that depends on the personality

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think it depends on the circumstances, for example if you are in a sex club that is acceptable behaviour although can still be a little abrupt. But if I guy did that to me in my own home then I would have got up and kicked his arse on the way out the door. That is not acceptable :((( Unless they planned it like that. Jeez I wanna get off too FFS!!! Xx Meeka

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Hope she isn't seeing him again. I give him a 1 out of 10 with a never to be recommended.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I must say, I have never had the opportunity to meet anyone privately, but even if I did, I would never fuck and chuck as is is very bad manners. I like long sessions including sleepovers. Even when I have been at parties, I always that the lady concerned for allowing me to play with her and I always say goodbye and thank you to the ladies concerned when I an leaving a party. I just have to learn not to do so when they havev a mouthful of cock. Very bad manners.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Most of my playfriends are long term friends and the emphasis is on friends. I like to spend the night with them when I visit Sydney. Some are not in a position to do so. .   Either way I am not phased as I find it a little difficult to sleep in a strange place or with someone next to me. Just so long as they are not planning on a qf and then bolting for the door I do soooooo like the way a man wakes up hard and have been known to watch him sleep for a few hours and then wake him again.....just for the reaction.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  He had told his wife he was going out to get milk, and half way through the headjob he'd got to thinking,"Shit ! I still haven't bought the milk yet" LOL rude bastard, he could at least hold out his hand and help her to her feet. BLow n blow or not, no excuse for poor manners. I'm with Meeks, 1 out of 10

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I once met a guy in vegas who sat at the bar and said, how about it babe,and lets be quick my wife is upstairs. He had told her I was just going for a hotdog!   I made a suggestion re the hot dog. :)   No she is not going to see him again, but is getting the plan B text now and again.   You know the one,its late at night he could not pick up at the pub, ohhh yeah lets text the plan B girl. He is not of RHP site, just a casual meet,perhaps not as enlightend as the guys here who want to stay and play"A little bit longer"..sounds like a song.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I can honestly never done the socalled root and scoot. i adore the pillow talk, the follow ons and above all the sleep overs. Even many years ago who I was playing the field I was the same. Fascinating that people really go about it with the root and scoot approach - no matter how uch utual respect, mutual knowledge and mutual pleasure there is.   Fansinating. Wow I must try :)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Interesting approach and allows for new meetings and so see if the intensity of feelings have improved. Approved - like it. Just be honest though.

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