M66
A (TRULY) serious pussy question for guys and gals.
May 10 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do you tell all of your lovers that they have a great pussy even if you feel you have had better? 99% of my lovers constantly tell me I have a great pussy, some will elaborate with more detail......but should I believe them ? or do you say that to all the girls?I am of the understanding that its not all about the "pearly gates" ( vaginal entrance)....a lot has to do with the vaginal lining.....the more aroused a woman becomes the more engorged the vaginal walls become......giving the man the feeling of being wrapped in a soft warm blanket
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RHP User
12 years ago
All women are different...... some are bigger. Some smaller, tiger, smoother, deeper etc etc. And yes..... we like some thing more than others. But OP.... similarly, perhaps the women you were inside and didn't enjoy so much.... didn't enjoy you so much either.And perhaps some of those you did enjoy, didn't enjoy you. To me... sex isn't about how good someone feels... its about how good we make each other feel. PSAnd yeah.... we all noticed the :-).... you go for houuuuuurs..... hahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meow lol. "tighter"
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RHP User
12 years ago
It depends on how long the thighs are wrapped around my head to give you a difinitive answer,just saying....... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I will bite the bullet and do so...Its more bout the way you make each other feel.....I have had a guy who was quite adequate but not huge......who could make me explode within seconds because of the connection we had....yet have had guys so well endowed that failed to even get me close...
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madotara69
12 years ago
If only Tara would lay still enough too find out, sorry OP can't help with that one. Different every time. got too agree with Jay Jay Mado Tara xx
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
So OP, since when did a women's weight have anything to do with a women's vagina??? The women was tight (as you put it) because you obviously did not arouse her enough ond she was not that fully into you. Sadly not all Vagina's are going to get on well with Penises, or should I say cocks. And not all Penises or cocks will get on with Vagina's. A women's vagina's just does not switch on like a light switch. Sadly for some men. they do not realize that the brain is the most important thing, they have to switch on FIRST. Not only that she has to be into YOU. *sighs* When will some men/boyz ever learn??? :( Sorry I can't have a penis inside me for hours, IF I'm not satisfied as in mind body and soul...how boring, unproductive and unsatisfying. Do I place myself in that position and lie there like a starfish and be pounded like no tomorrow, thinking of what to add to my shopping list?? ERRRRRRRRRRRR no thanks! I might as well dig a hole in my backyard and let them go for it, they'll get more satisfaction there whilst I go do some retail therapy. Foxy, skips off to buy new handbag and shoes!
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QLDtwo4fun
12 years ago
In answer to question 1, yes. I always feel obligated to ensure the lady is looked after and has a good time. Yes some pussies feel great, some are just hard work, but I'd never let them now that. I have been through the hard core swinging thing and now want quality, yet I don't know how to recognise it. I do know sexy women come in all shapes and sizes. In answer to question 2, I'm obviously not a girl.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe you should change your name....... For you haven't delved into the depth of this religion properly and you obviously don't understand the nuances and pleasures religion can open for you............
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fucking a Woman is much more satisfying than fucking a Vagina ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's sad when you limit experiencing a lady to such a small point. There is so much more. That smouldering look that simply says 'yesssss.......' the involuntary cry that escapes from her as you explore her body......that moment where she starts to simply...throw...her...body...onto...your...cock... fingernails digging into the back of your head as you gently suck her clit into your mouth, then lifting her legs and you bury your face into her ass...heaven...simply heaven. How can you call yourself SexAsReligion without a Goddess to worship? Time for confession, my friend.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Women get all defensive when you ask about their Grand Canyon don't they? o.O I have no idea OP. Soz. Lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Next time OP,look at her hands,all is revealed there :-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
What is that first line all about? A woman's weight and her vagina? OP didn't mention weight.... He did mention tiny which I took to refer to the size of her vagina - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You sound too obsessed with your own pleasure. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought we'd get some "interesting" responses, and so we did .... with rather a lot of emotive gusto which wasn't the nature of the question.Jay Jay gets closer to the actual topic, twice Of course it is always about connection, and a total experience, but I'm saying, that even with someone who was a "girlfriend" attractive, desireable, etc, etc, sometimes the feeling isn't there, and these are noticeable differences. Nothing to do with "arousal," being into someone, etc. In fact, it can be quite devastating. There is not, and was not, meant to be any level of disrespect, I'm trying to get some objective understanding of physiology. As I also said, some guys have no opinion (which is fine, being their observation) and also wondered if there was a parallel expedience women could comment on. Nor is there any element of blame. Think of it more like Masters and Johnson.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It would help if you elaborated a little on what you mean by 'perfect' to be inside...i.e. what is it about these vaginas in your opinion that made them feel 'perfect', and hence what the others were lacking that they felt not so great. And was this a consistent thing no matter how aroused they were (because I'm assuming you realise that a woman's vagina responds to a woman's level of arousal and this can affect how they feel)? As for the second part of your question, of course women have preferences when it comes to cocks and what does it best for them. I prefer width over length, and a huge cock does nothing for me except hurt me and make certain positions impossible, so I try to stay away from them. Give me a thick cock of average length anyday.
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RHP User
12 years ago
OP has a point when he says a lot of men go in with the thought a pussy is a pussy and don't care much on how it feels as long as they have a hole I think credit to him for actually taking the time to notice that we all feel different inside . And remember he is just talking about the "physicality" of it all How many times have us ladies conversed on the topic of the physicality of cocks ? Forget about connection etc, we all agree that is a major part as far as the enjoyment of sex, but what about all those times you've had sex and there has been no connection? I'm sure some cocks just felt nicer than others .i know for me some are just a better size and shape and feel nicer inside me than others As for vaginas a lot depends on the time of cycle as hormones have a huge effect on the vaginal walls, some women don't have huge fluctuations in their hormone levels .and will feel very different inside. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' OP has a point when he says a lot of men go in with the thought a pussy is a pussy and don't care much on how it feels as long as they have a hole I think credit to him for actually taking the time to notice that we all feel different inside . And remember he is just talking about the "physicality" of it all How many times have us ladies conversed on the topic of the physicality of cocks ? Forget about connection etc, we all agree that is a major part as far as the enjoyment of sex, but what about all those times you've had sex and there has been no connection? I'm sure some cocks just felt nicer than others .i know for me some are just a better size and shape and feel nicer inside me than others As for vaginas a lot depends on the time of cycle as hormones have a huge effect on the vaginal walls, some women don't have huge fluctuations in their hormone levels .and will feel very different inside. - Posted from rhpmobile all bullshit aside, he wants an answer to a specific question, doesn't mean he has no idea how to treat a woman. But as Luckdragon said, maybe you should define 'perfect' a little better, OP.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for the considered follow ups, I think we are more on topic now! I can best describe it this way: (to be more graphic). Apologies to the feint hearted.... The "tiny gal" I referenced had quite a small opening (regardless of arousal or how long we did it for) but beyond there I had no feeling .. seemed like "not touching the sides." The most stimulating girlfriend was "average" on the opening, but when deep inside, it was just amazing, arousing, sensual, and whilst "tight" isn't a precise descriptor, its getting closer. I dunno if those pelvic floor type exercises are relevant here, and I'd be interested to know. Can a woman actually voluntarily tighten and/or release that deep inside? I doubt it. And interestingly, too, with the most wonderful of the women I have had relationships with, one had had two children, the other none. So that doesn't seem to be an important factor. Book keeping:a) @Luckdragon, yes, there are always minor fluctuations as you go through positions, etc, but that is relatively insignificant. b) @JayJay, thanks, yes, I truly wish sometimes that "connection" with the person was the relevant factor here, but my experience is that these are fundamental physiological differences. I have regrets that with some of these people that the problem didn't exist, because it doomed the relationship. c) to the others ... somewhat a tad too much preaching. Firstly, the question and answers will be highly personal, as expected. Secondly, I repeat, I'm looking for a level of objectivity. Reductio-Ad-Absurdum:... if you "get off" on being whipped by your gal, the feeling of her pussy is irrelevant.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A few months ago a guy messaged me asking how many kids I have... Then continued with... Oh so is your pussy still tight??? Wtf??? Lol, its been 10 years since I had my last child, how do sum men expect us to test if our vaginas are tight? Insert lemons and do star jumps at the end see if the lemon had dropped to the floor???? I've been told on a few occasions that his cock feels amazing inside me, that my inner muscles wrap nicely around his cock even more when I orgasm... No I don't do pelvic floor exercises I just enjoy sex and all the pleasures that goes with it... Did that give you any insight to your question??? I have no idea. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
limited experience, so that's a thing. But also with experience for having a wife, (no condom required) cos when we do wear condoms (rhythm technique, as too having kiddies) it's nice but not the same. Unfortunately, well my cock does not have the same set of signals too the brain,as what my fingers tell me and it only really feels the grip and squeeze, the warmth and when everything is going well the jets of the natural juices that flow, now this delves into squirting a little, though it is what goes on and as it is told, most women can squirt but many of the most squirt inside, that feels nice and part with the sensations by the swelling and contractions the pussy has while it/she is building up to cum. But a finger tells so, so much more. Oh there is lumps and bumps and little patches of nerve endings, something at the bottom of the pussy near the walls of by the anal canals, so it's an up down and all around search for what goes on inside and more is what can, that just won't if not in the heat for the moments. Sometimes it is like sticking the old feller into a power point, what a buzz. And the boy lights up, yeah the boy lights up, lights up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Enough said.......
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
As per OP quote "My second last lover was a "tiny gal", who was so tight that it took some time to enter, but she wasn't"...I took that as his last lover as a "TINY" gal, as in tiny shaped woman who had a tight vagina.. Oops, my bad I guess?? I didn't read it as in "Tiny vagina"... If the OP had said Tiny "Vagina" I would've read it as just that a "tiny vagina", but he didn't he used "gal" instead. Foxy
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madotara69
12 years ago
Don't see what is wrong with describing that lover as being a tiny little gal, even if it meant gal. The OP was describing just one lover, not speaking for all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have told alk my girl friends and im sorry to tell you meat eaters but vegetarians have the best tasting pussies in the universe !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The artist did plaster casts of over four hundred vulvas,it is absolutely wonderful and fascinating as to how different each is...Food for thought OP :-) xx Q
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' The artist did plaster casts of over four hundred vulvas,it is absolutely wonderful and fascinating as to how different each is...Food for thought OP :-) xx Q I believe that it was difficult to carbon date them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you got the names from the artist,some may be single...the you could date them.Did you Google:-) XQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' The artist did plaster casts of over four hundred vulvas,it is absolutely wonderful and fascinating as to how different each is...Food for thought OP :-) xx Q Stevie Wonder is STILL trying to exit that room.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' If you got the names from the artist,some may be single...the you could date them.Did you Google:-) XQ read it in the forums, I remember something about people having trouble figuring out the age of any of those casts
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RHP User
12 years ago
There was a photographic exhibition in Newtown a few months back of Vagina photos, with associated stories by the owners. Of, course, all as different as people's faces. The stories were interesting, with a quantum of "empowerment" in some. Others referenced childbirth. There was also a BBC(?) doco on the same kinda subject. And the guy with the 3" member who likes to talk about it in his docos....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ignorance or innocents, I don't know, however I always thought that the vaginal walls whilst they can be tight or loose (for a better word), that when the penis enters, can accommodate to 'encompass'.............. Whilst I have been told when I am about to and when I do orgasm, my muscles clench (which is apparently a big turn on), I honestly did not realise that such differences existed................ OP forgive my insolence, I have now been re-educated.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am willing to give every woman a thorough diagnostic on size shape and elasticity if need be. I think it is horses for courses some just fit nicely and some don't feel right. I don't have a great deal of sex but when i do i try to make the most of it. i think in the moment you should get swept away with the body and not the hole your cock is in. The more you search for the perfect haven the further you will get from it. My 2 cents..... cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never met a vagina I didn't like to play with but there's a lot of ladies I couldn't say the same about, in short it's the lady who makes the experience.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SexAsReligion' I dunno if those pelvic floor type exercises are relevant here, and I'd be interested to know. Can a woman actually voluntarily tighten and/or release that deep inside? I doubt it. And interestingly, too, with the most wonderful of the women I have had relationships with, one had had two children, the other none. So that doesn't seem to be an important factor. Yes, pelvic floor exercises do help. I have been told also that women who have quick births tend to have weaker pelvic floor because the muscles have not had time to work with it. Our pelvic floor helps prevent incontinence so you have to voluntarily 'hold it in' and this doesn't just occur at the opening. Using duo balls helps maintain pelvic floor as they are weighted and you use those muscles to keep them in. The plumping of the vaginal walls giving the warm, enveloping feeling is also dependent on blood flow to the area so can depend on the level of arousal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hear what you are saying - some are a perfect fit. I just recently had a lover who was that perfect fit. -Four skin feels different to Cut. -The size of the "vien" running down a cock feels different also...Some you can feel and some you can't. -Of course the length and girth differ as well. Yes a woman can voluntary release and tighten.
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captainkaos
12 years ago
and it has nothing to do with their weight or size. To be honest, I don't think that it has anything to do with how many children they have had either. Without getting too graphic, I had been seeing a very thin and small woman who has only one child but i could not feel her as much as other women. I got off on the fact that she could squirt whenever i touched or licked her a certain way. Well, what do you know? I was graphic. lol. Then again, there is this one woman who is THE tightest I have ever felt. We went to a swingers club and the one other guy who had sex with her also commented on the fact. She is in her 20's but just like penis size, women can also vary in size.
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RHP User
12 years ago
My ex tried to explain how my vagina felt different to his exes, um, I really didn't want to know... As to the parallel experience, yes. I have a lover whose cock just hits the right spot in 90% of positions.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never(ever) met a pussy I haven't found delicious and desirable ! Every woman is different , every body is unique . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
My partner can jerk my cock with her pussy muscles internally, both laying still and it feels like a dripping handjob, so yes some people most definitely can voluntarily move their vagina muscles. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
every girl is different , just like every guy is different, regardless of height or weight. if you are into each other, the passion between you will determine how good the sex is, Lots of kissing & foreplay is a must , if I've left a girl breathless & unable to speak I know I've done my job :-p
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RHP User
12 years ago
While there will always be a minority of men who will fuck what ever moves, any women that has the belief that all guys will fuck whatever moves is a woman that doesn't know as much about men as she has led herself to believe. Just as any man that thinks a woman wants sex ALL the time, doesn't know as much about women as he has led himself to believe. And we seem to live in a society now that thinks the word "slut" means that you sleep with anybody with no regard for your or their safety. I class myself as a male slut, but I am VERY selective in who I play with, and my play partners are actually quite minimal. Yet when I find someone I am willing to play with, I give them my all, and expect the same in return. We are just 2 happy "sluts" making each other even happier. Yet if I was to just say that I am a male slut on my profile, what would most women assume if they hadn't of heard my explanation as to what I class a slut as ? To me, a "slut" is someone that isn't a prude, and can embrace their sexual desires, rather than allow society to make them feel shamed for having or acting on those desires. I'd rather be called a "slut" than a "prude". Slut's definitely have a lot more fun than prudes, and isn't life all about having fun.............or so society keeps telling us. The same society that then turns its nose at us !
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RHP User
12 years ago
as long as it dont smell like a dead fish any is ok
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RHP User
12 years ago
Geez some people are happy to accept size queens preferring a bigger cock but don't the double standards come out to play if female size is mentioned! LOL. I do find it a little frustrating if a pussy is not as tight as I'd prefer and it's pretty difficult to cum from penetrationAs others have mentioned it's not always body size nor arousal that results in a less tight vagina. It does not mean that I haven't enjoyed sex with the lovely lady, as there are so many ways to enjoy each other, and it's not a biggy.. BUT a snug wet pussy really is the business. Just my 2c.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Every face, fingerprint, personality and sense of humor are different. When we then include cocks, and (repeatedly) that all vaginas are different also we see a massive amount of variety. So if I hear a joke and piss myself laughing, but the person nxt to me doesn't budge, then we need to hear another joke, right? Then as a vagina does not always respond to a cock in the same way each time so the proprietor of the penis must explore other ways to excite that luscious valley (to find the perfect fit you say). It is our job as 'MAN' to fulfill our duties to our exquisite lady folk, to encourage their bodies to go into spasm of orgasm before we explode, roll over and start snoring! All it takes is a little attention toward their reactions of our actions. As mentioned earlier 'different strokes for different folks'. There have been failures (too many failures) in my exploits so please dont take this as a brag fest, I only note that trying different approaches, angles, positions and speeds is a HUGE part of the experience and fun. Honestly, if I had paid more attention when I was younger (thats when I had majority of those failures) I would have turned most into success (the ignorance of youth). Dont give up because you are or dont have the 'PERFECT FIT', give some more attention in another way. Massage, stroking/scratching head or back, lightly rubbing down inner thighs, nibbling toes, or introducing food, (just ideas) Its all worth trying, so maybe you find that Perfect Fit or in the very least find some fun ways to practice nxt time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That after a guy fists a girl, her inner lining flushed with the stimuli, will become swollen, therefore making her tighter......... As I said, I heard this from a few guys when we were talking about the benefits of fisting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
[b]Hi All, (New here... Just joined)[/b] I have always been aware that Ladies all feel different from my perspective, but I've never come across one who was "unsatisfactory" or in any way "doesn't feel GREAT". I imagine it's much the same for Ladies in so far as what a man feels like inside. Regardless of size, there are many different 'shapes' that will make a difference... For instance, a 'bend upwards' and also being in the right position, might cause the head to make contact with the G-spot on each thrust, so to speak. I do believe and feel myself, that my emotional connection with a Lady is, by far, the more meaningful difference and where that's involved nothing much really matters. You just enjoy each other no matter how, when, why or which! But the straight answer to your question is... YES, they all seem to feel different to me, but no particular one has been better or not as good as another. It's always governed for me, more by WHO it is and what I feel for them (and what I may know they feel for me)... I've always been the same and find that I don't really want to fuck a Lady if there is no 'emotional' connection of some sort, at least. Thanks for letting me waffle...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's quite the funny the women get on the defensive and insult the guy when he asks a legitimate question but guys are the first to be on the scrutinising and judgemental bandwagon when a penis question is asked. I'm going to try and answer it from my perspective. I found obviously the more time warming up the easier and more pleasant to get in. But some women that are tighter (regardless of their size) can be uncomfortable but some can be magnificent. I think I will have to agree the attraction to them and the connection you have within that moment shapes how you're experience inside will be to some extent. Hope this wasn't just a rant.... Thanks for the post though!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Welcome to the forums.....who doesn't enjoy a good waffle....afteral,they are almost as good as hot crumpets :-) xxQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never put a cock in one but I've felt the inside of a few. Every woman is different and I find the vagina a perplexing place, most of all my own! I can tell you I have a rear facing vagina, but have no idea what that means? A fast birth doesn't make you loose. Wtf! It often shows you've got a really strong pelvic floor. The g spot is a beautiful thing and stimulation can completely change the feel of the inner lining. Sometimes as much as you want two pieces to go together a circle won't fit the square hole. It's a lot harder to fist a girl with a teeny opening. Some girls will completely relax while being penetrated, some will draw up into their pelvic cavity, some will push out and some will pulse uncontrollably. In my experience all involuntarily contact strongly during orgasm??? Sometimes you can put your face to the outside and feel the persons heart beat. That's nice. The same person will feel different at varying stages of sexual arousal. What do I not like? knowing when a girls not relaxed and ready and open in her mind. What do I like to feel? My own! I'm just reeling off some stuff that I've experienced as a girl to another. Hope it useful. Jess Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Great sex isn't about how tight a girl is (for me anyway). The connection and each other's mindsets make great sex. Go the mind!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Big, small, deep, tight..... There's all types of sizes and shapes . Regardless , I'm a big believer that the best sex happens with the person who wants it as much as you do with them. It may only be a one off or that desire might last multiple times( happy days) but it was the advice I got from my dad and has stayed true till now..... Never have sex with someone that doesn't want it as much as you.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Im a bit of a cynic when it gets around to this... You say:"I have, sincerely, only had sex with a limited number of women who feel perfect to be inside.And they feel so good that I'd be happy to stay there for hours (and have done so) ;-)" BUT I'm thinking... so... you either know by some magical method what they feel like inside before you fuck them... OR all pussies feel perfect to you. I can accept the latter proposition, but I don't really think of cunt that way. I'm usually thinking about how to get this lover's jollies off, from which I feel a sense of connection and that usually brings me off as well. HugsGazpacho
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lickmyarch
12 years ago
righton mrgreen women are so defensive about their bits when we are so hard to read -when its easy to see a cock we can know if they are something where guna enjoy .....ive always wondered if we have huge variations on our junk like guys junk varies. come on girls kegels hahaha give it to me for hours hahahah meeooww purr
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