M47
A Hypothetical Question....
February 12 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dumped drama out of my life ages ago. And I already have a bad memory ... ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Continue my life as it is thank you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me it's a No Deal, but then, each to his/her own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know that old adage 'it's better to have loved and lost than never to have love at all"? It's rubbish. Sure, sometimes lost loves leaves a gentle fondness in it's wake, but not always. I had what the mystical stranger is offering and I lost it. The pain was mentally, emotionally, physically (yes, physically) and spiritually excruciating. I didn't just lose them. I lost a whole chunk of who I was and all of the light that used to sparkle in me. Given a choice I'd gladly go back in time and not meet him at all. So I say no thanks to the offer, I'll stay as I am and find my life experiences elsewhere :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
then what would be the point.If I know it will last only for six months then yes I would,even if they left me.Simply because that is an experience I have never had,and there are never,ever, any guarantees in life. Having said that,the likelihood of something like that happening to me is zero to none.So I am safe.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Rather not deal with it......- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have you been reading my diary? #2#2#2#2Continue as is.... !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sounds to me like the stranger wants the whole "cake"...There's no magic in that.. Dude come on....fall in love-find a soulmate...then forget..oh come on... Do you have a brain tumor?? Hummmm how can a stranger wipe your memory??? Sounds like magical madness to me... Foxy... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
However...there is no guarantee that anyone will stay faithful. No gaurantees in life at all. I went into my current relationship knowing that it can all be taken away from me at a moments notice...as do we all. Nothing is forever. Such is lifes gamble! The only difference here is that I will have the before during and (hopefully not) after memories of the love I share. If he were to die on the road tomorrow it would all be over. If I knew would I love him any less? Probably love him more knowing that our time together is fleeting and therefore more precious. Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Change dealers :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would give HIM a choice: Top or bottom?
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RHP User
13 years ago
One time...a long time ago I would have chosen the 6 months Not anymore 6 months if you live till say 80- forget it 6 months of pleasure for a life time of pain.....nope..over that Life goes on................................................................ I am the King/Queen of Pain and as I now know...................no one is deserving of a lifetime of pain..............no matter how good the 6 months is Continue on.......life is great
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RHP User
13 years ago
lasted only 4 months though! And now he says we would of been amazing together meh!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why not just enjoy what fun you can with that person, but also be looking elsewhere at the same time. Leave the drama and emotional crap behind and ENJOY!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Puretiger:) Hmmmmmm! On thinking about this I feel I would decline the Offer of this Mysteruois Magical Stranger because 6months of sheer bliss isn't worth a Lifetime of Heartache. .Besides the Soulmate is a Jerk to begin with I won't remember then, but at the time of the offer I am aware of what he does in the future and knowing that he acts so dishonorably towards me in 6mths , Then I'd be a fool to take him into My Life .. I'll continue with My Life improving on what I have now and embrace those I'm meant too meet and share My Life for whatever reason at the right times.. Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
.? Been there done that
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RHP User
13 years ago
Magic always comes with a downside so you'd probably end up with an STD as well, there's always something those dang magic folk aren't telling ya. Nah man, easy life for me, couldn't be bothered with all the drama. Besides, there's enough love gained and lost in normal life without having to add a sadistic wizard into the mix.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I would give HIM a choice: Top or bottom? mysterious stranger here taking bookings. none of this 6 months bullshit, i am offering the long weekend special. like a b & b getaway. champagne and hamper included. note, choc mint on pillow is extra.
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belladonna888
13 years ago
I had that offer not too long ago from a guy i used to know . We had spent a wonderful time together , then he just left .. After 2 years of no contact he offered me this . My thought were " how could he know what will come of it , if he comes back can he walk away again " How do any of us know whats to come . I didnt take him up on the offer , the 1st time was painful enough and i feel im worth more then what he offered
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just think if you choose to have 6 months of bliss you may have missed the opportunity to meet someone who you could have a lifetime of bliss with! SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm not very good at delayed gratification.Having tried the former (a variation of it), I really should say I wouldn't do it again.But I think I would.I'm a sucker :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, I'll take that deal! Yes, i've experienced that, lasted 9 months, I knew it had a use by date when we started. I've never felt more alive, passionate about life, in love and loved than I did for that 9 months. I learned so much about myself, about never compromising again, that I could feel like a teenager again in my 40's. Would I pass up the chance at that again? Hell NO! I'd rather have that for 6 months than never have had it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why would you knowingly set yourself up for pain? I like my happy little life, I'll continue on as is thanks - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'cold_ass_honky' mysterious stranger here taking bookings. none of this 6 months bullshit, i am offering the long weekend special. like a b & b getaway. champagne and hamper included. note, choc mint on pillow is extra. How much extra? There's a catch, isn't there? Like being forced to watch endless recordings of Tosh.0?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd take the deal. On the basis I write a letter to myself before the brain wipe to ditch them first after 5 months.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic'You know that old adage 'it's better to have loved and lost than never to have love at all"? It's rubbish. Sure, sometimes lost loves leaves a gentle fondness in it's wake, but not always. I had what the mystical stranger is offering and I lost it. The pain was mentally, emotionally, physically (yes, physically) and spiritually excruciating. I didn't just lose them. I lost a whole chunk of who I was and all of the light that used to sparkle in me. Given a choice I'd gladly go back in time and not meet him at all. So I say no thanks to the offer, I'll stay as I am and find my life experiences elsewhere :) Love then loss...? Revisit the hurt...? Again...? umm... pass. Cost too much last time to willingly go into a similar situation. I'd take my life as it is now thanks, it may happen that history will try to repeat, but at least next time (if it occurs) I'll be able to see the signs a little more clearly...
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RHP User
13 years ago
If after six months of bliss....you will not remember....what is there to loose....No memory no pain....Even if memory was still on....I will still take it anyway....I rather know bliss, experience it, feel it, breath it in that not....Even better if you remember....You then will know that it is possible and not just a dream....I have experienced an incredible connection like that....I know now that it is possible and can be very real....I am extremely grateful for the experience (although is was painful when it finish) , but I know that I can have that again, and it can be even better ...just need to find the next wonderful connection ......
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RHP User
13 years ago
This may be the one and only opportunity in your lifetime that you have of sharing and experiencing an intimate, loving, sexy, funny, etc etc relationship...Even though the pain and misery suffered at the relationships demise is crap, unbearable and emotional agony plus all the other negatives that go with it, you've been able to share in a part of life that many will never have the opportunity to experience....And just think, after being in the hard-core depths of despair the good times will roll around again.As the saying goes, "we're not here for a long time ,so don't let a chance go by to experience all you can in your life-time as a human being, don't die with regrets.........Having said all that, i wouldn't take the deal cos i've had the privilege of sharing the love and creating two fine sons. I've been happily single and 100% celibate for 19 yrs, 5 months and 14 days as of today, but now i'm gettin a bit toey and would like to morph 20 yrs of exquisite fantasies and super pleasurable masturbation into some no strings attached reality filled with hellfire lust and erotica.....They say good things come to those who wait so when my good thing does come it's gonna be phantasmogorical.............cheers and peace to all........thanks for listening...R......
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RHP User
13 years ago
No thank you. Stay as is.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
No thanks!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Sensory_fun' Just think if you choose to have 6 months of bliss you may have missed the opportunity to meet someone who you could have a lifetime of bliss with! SFxx So beautifully put SF......................perfect.................
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why?Because my view on life is this.. . through loss and pain and exultation is how we learn about ourselves.I walk amongst the paddock and all i see is beauty - does nothing to challenge me - all it does is reinforce my comfort state and say it is as should be.i'd rather be dead than accept mediocrity - it is only from our own challenging of boundaries that we grow and extend ourselves - but them i am an explorer - not everyone is . . . when i find my equivalent i will be content - but i acknowledge that that may never happen - especially here. . . 6 months of pure, intense discovery - no matter the pain in the end - is worth more to me than a million lifetimes of safe security. to me its a no brainer - but then maybe its my fault i can't find my equal . . .
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RHP User
13 years ago
well said, there are no guarantees, and you maybe dead straight after, so enjoy what life brings you and forget the rest
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