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A Gripe with a question!!!!!

November 21 2012

I've been chatting with a guy on email who wants to come up and meet us, which we do not mind meeting, he was coming for a 3 day weekend but decided to only come up for one night as for the cost of staying in a motel.... He sent me an email asking what his changer of getting laid as it's a long way for nothing, as we don't know this guy, we do not have a clue if we are going to like him... Then in the next line he wrote asking me to tell him what to say to my wife so he can get laid, talk about setting my wife up, if she found out I did that then I would not be getting sex for a long time ether... I do not set my wife up for anyone, she will make her own mind up, to whom she want to have sex with, our profile does say: Meet first and play later... My question is: Do you agree with setting your partner up like this or do you disagree.....

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RHP User

13 years ago

I would think if you did that ,you should not get to have sex with your wife ever ,ever again!!!!!! As for Mr.Pushy,A for trying I suppose but what a jerk....now a jerk off I hopex

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RHP User

13 years ago

I would tell him to get fucked.

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RHP User

13 years ago

...what you mean by 'setting your wife up'? As in, feeding him things to say that you know she likes? Or like, agreeing in advance that she will have sex with him?An email like that would have sent up a number of red flags for me. "What are the chances of getting laid on this trip?" About 90% less for having asked that question.Smacks of a lack of confidence/personality, and a lack of standards and mutual respect ("I don't care if I'm attracted to you or not, you're just another hole.")I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with canvassing you for your wife's interests, likes and dislikes - it's part of finding out who they are and could help her have a more enjoyable night, though he could just speak to her directly - but it sounds like he wants the cheat sheet, and couldn't be bothered putting in the effort himself for the abovementioned reasons.

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13 years ago

He is not the first one to try this and wont be the last ether, but maybe he just a little shy on how to approach a couple.....We rather people just be then selves... Not put on a front to get laid.... I was honest with him and said that he must talk to her and not me, and yes I could tell someone how to get into her pants but why should I.... My wife is the most in-portent person in my life she my rock... Dam don't know why she luv me, but she does...She only plays around because I'm bisexual....Sometimes I hate being bisexual, because your dammed if you do and dammed if you don't But I cant change who I am and don't want to change....

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RHP User

13 years ago

I recently had to reprimand a guy (which is something not in my nature at all) for being a Mr Pushy as Freya has aptly named. I told him that Bossy (dominant) is good but Pushy (arrogant) is not. Anything involving deception is not ok. Protect your wife and tell him that he can take a long walk off a short pier. And if he needs your advice about how to turn a woman on then well ... the problem is all his.

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RHP User

13 years ago

People should just stick to asking for dirty knickers!!!

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RHP User

13 years ago

If this person is expecting you to set your wife up rather than be up front and honest, I would give him a wide berth, could you really trust a person like this? Would you expose your wife to a person like this, planning behind her back?

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RHP User

13 years ago

My response would be, set yourself up in front of a bus you prick, my wife makes her own choices

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RHP User

13 years ago

and unlimited nude pics. Lol, what a dick, if he is worried about laying out money and wants insurance he's going to get laid maybe he needs to visit a brothel.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' People should just stick to asking for dirty knickers!!! Do you put then in a large album and put names too then too, just like having photo's

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RHP User

13 years ago

block i say, problem solvedSaskia72, i agree hes a dick.... however there are only two guarantees in life, death & taxes. i'm not sure a brothel would accept him!!! (ohh that's so mean, sorry about that)cheersa

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RHP User

13 years ago

Scratch and sniff scrapbook. :p

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RHP User

13 years ago

Stingy, selfish, rude.He just want's to get a shot away with your wife asap, don't expect anything else.I know it's hard in the smaller towns to find people, but that's crap.Block and next.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Did he want brekky too. ???

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13 years ago

I outlay money for just meeting. In a profession where face to face contact with anyone is limited, then sex is simply a bonus. Bring on the good times and a few social beverages and whatever happens, happens.

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13 years ago

Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'I outlay money for just meeting. In a profession where face to face contact with anyone is limited, then sex is simply a bonus. Bring on the good times and a few social beverages and whatever happens, happens. I'll buy you a beer. Not paying for your room at The Sheraton though!

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