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A GB Group Run By A Woman - Would That Be More Or Less Appealing Than A Group Run By A Man?
January 02 2023
After a few years of actively investigating, chasing and having GangBangs in Perth, I’ve got to say . . . it’s pretty goddam disappointing.
At best, it’s been underwhelming, at worst I was SA.
Each time, I’ve put in real effort vetting, asking questions, meeting guys beforehand, setting clear and firm boundaries, hiring a safe hotel room, having an emergency friend on call.
I believe I’ve done all I can to be safe and make it clear that I deserve respect and that I’m genuine about the kind of ‘play’ that takes place. So that EVERYONE can be on the same page.
And we can ALL just have fun.
Every group I’ve dealt with is run by a man. He knows guys, makes the calls, liaises with me. And EVERY time, crucial information has not been passed onto all (or any 😡) of the guys OR he has misled the guys deliberately and I was treated incorrectly and was hurt.
I have wondered many times . . . should I just start my own GB Group?
I know some decent guys now.
* Guys who WANT to be part of a safe GB group - not something ‘thrown together’ or run by someone known within in the Perth Swinging Scene as untrustworthy
* Guys who have wanted to be a part of a GB but didn’t have contacts
* Guys who are curious about a GB, but also need a little bit of guidance or mentoring.
And I also know a LOT of women and couples who want a GB, but after hearing so many disappointing and horror stories, just won’t take the chance on what is currently available or they attempt to organise their own with a group of guys they know. Which definitely has some positives, but means sometimes there’s not the right balance of egos and ‘comfort’.
Being realistic and honest . . . would a GB Group organised and run by a woman, be welcomed and utilised in a (fairly conservative) town like Perth?
Or should I just stay in my lane and organise my private little group of guys for my own selfish pleasure? 😈😉
Comments
pizzadogs
2 years ago
Sounds good , but only if you can sort out the keen to learn more than the regulars who would fuck a dog on the chain given the chance
Sawadee
2 years ago
The first thing that came to mind was " thats a great idea " you women know whats best and what you want " Personally ' GBs dont appeal that much to me ' l much prefer 1 on 1 or MFM, but thats me.. My thoughts are " get some like-minded women who are on the same page and see what happens... Good luck..
countrytouch82
2 years ago
I used to go so some ran by a woman in Melb many many years back. At other times is it a couple than runs them, so technically both the woman and the man. But I've also gone to some ran by a man who has gone overkill on the communication, and it works.
Keep with the right contacts only. I've found everyone will generally work to ensure things go smoothly and no one is out of line, because it then ruins it for everyone. And if you want to add anyone new, always meet at a non-playing event first.RHP User
2 years ago
It's a shame that you haven't had the chance to live out properly your inner desires. Unfortunately, there are bad apples in the basket but don't let them hold you back. It'll only result in a 'what if' scenario.
You sound experienced, passionate and committed enough to start a genuine group. Standard Law of economics, if the demand is high and supply, then it will be rare to find. You have opportunity to create something of high value (not necessarily monetary), so why not do it? If not for yourself then for all those others lovely women craving a safe outlet for their dreams. Go and make something beautiful!
Rising_Phoenix
2 years ago
I think a lot of women might consider that worth flying to Perth for 😉 I say go for it and wish you all the very best!
FeistyFatty
2 years ago
So sorry to hear that your experiences haven't been memorable. Can't say I'd be particularly keen on a Female Lead GB organiser. Solely because I don't personally like interacting with females much. Always been more comfortable around males so have found communicating with male lead GB groups to be very enjoyable.
Good on you though, will be a very popular initiative I'm sure👍RHP User
2 years ago
It’s worth a try at least ? If it doesn’t work out, then nothing lost hey ? At least you have giving it a red hot go.
CuriousAsianCpl
2 years ago
Be the change you want to see. Only good things can happen from more GB groups organised by women as there are plenty looking for that but are turned off by the work involved in making it a reality.
badboyhere
2 years ago
An interesting concept for sure. But it comes with a solid warning for your safety. When my wife and I were living in Sydney I would organise a regular GB for two female workmates who knew that my wife and I were in an open relationship. The second last event I organised for them my wife asked if she could come along to view what happened at a GB as she was always curious about what went down. My wife and I have had many mfm’s to meet her needs and she always considered multiple men but needed to feel comfortable about it. The two ladies asked her to come along and sit with me as I would always sit out for the safety of my two workmates to stop any shit carrying on. My two workmates both have a tendency towards alpha bad boy types and I would vet the men and the ladies would have the final approval before any attended. At the event my wife got right into it and was seeing my two workmates being centre of the attention of the 7 men that attended and started to play with my cock in my jeans as she was getting all worked up and one of the guys noticed this and came over to her and suggested she join. She declined as she really only wanted to watch but he insisted and then another of the guys also suggested it and I decided to jump in and stop it to say to the guys that she is a watcher only and they got back to my two workmates after some encouragement from them to come back onto the two beds in the room.
Post the event my wife and I had a chat with me two workmates and we all feel that if I was not present and stood in when I did, things would have gone pretty differently and my wife may have been possibly raped.
I only arranged one more event for these ladies after this and called it quits as I have to confess that I can handle myself if I need to but if I had to take on 7 guys I might not be able to secure the safety of my workmates.
It was a fairly tense situation and as much as you check up if the guys attending most are young, dumb and full of cum, but they usually don’t really take the time to consider their actions in the heat of the moment.
My wife and I and my two workmates were very lucky that we all have an ability to keep calm and talk our way through things, but this could have very easily gone in a different direction.
My final word around this is always consider your safety as the first priority and as much as you have needs and specific wants you need to achieve, never compromise on your safety.
nightingale8
2 years ago
If I knew a I could do a GB safely I probably would have done so by now. I don’t trust enough men for that and it’s hard enough finding one at a time. I’m not sure a female organiser would change that but it certainly would grab my curiosity. At the end of the day I assume you need more than one male in the room looking after and enforcing your safety. It’s primal, so a stern talking to by a stranger before or after probably isn’t going to cut it.
Kamatools
2 years ago
Have been there and done this before, the most difficult part is the vetting and getting a bunch of like minded people to understand your requirement and respect women in general. Once you have a good bunch stick to them and bring in new ones only by reference. This is what we did back in Sri Lanka :)
RHP User
2 years ago
Great idea. About time we had a female organiser.
RHP User
2 years ago
I think this is a great idea! I am looking at learning how to organise gangbangs for a friend of mine, having women that I can go, I would feel a lot better about organising one.
RHP User
2 years ago
I think it’s a great idea , firstly starting with men or couples that you already trust is a huge benefit , then slowly you could add a new member at a time knowing that the people already in the GB group will have your interest and safety first and foremost , if there was any issue then those people whom you already have built a good relationship and reputation with will remove the unwanted person , and then you can create a whole wonderful bunch of people with the same interests and likes , I for one would be very interested
ScorpyJs
2 years ago
I think this would be more readily accepted in Sydney or Melbourne, but maybe it’s exactly what Perth needs.
Add some class and a fresh perspective to a scene that desperately needs it.
I think if it was established and worked as it should the ladies/couples would come out of the woodwork…
tradie_foreplay
2 years ago
I think you are onto something very interesting here OpenMindedLass 😊 😊
I am happy to be part of your “safe but naughty GB group” 😈😈
C xxxx
MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
Well, there used to be GB's run by a woman in Perth.. I'm not sure if she run them any more. She's all loved up and married now.
Perth is a big place. Now, you've publicly put it out there, I hope you find exactly what you're looking for or organise one yourself. Best of Luck OP.👍
Ms FoxyRHP User
2 years ago
This is an interesting question. To dive into deeply you have to ask the question what makes you feel safe? And then what makes others feel safe?
There is always a risk and trust is the issue. Personally I need to trust my partner if I am going to enjoy a scenario. If I were to add multiples to that then I need to trust everyone involved because for me the fun part of sex is to make myself venerable and give myself over to my partner.
I think the only way forward for you is to “date” your potential stable. People can keep up appearances for so long and then their true self comes out. You would need to get to this point to find out what their real intentions are. Your stable would need to be friends with you only then could you “guarantee” that they are safe. And then I think you would have a viable GB option. Also this stable of guys would then be able to act as your security because they should be quick to eject anyone acting like a dick. Does this make sense?
Also I always wonder why a guy would jeopardise the opportunity to be a regular participant in what you are suggesting.
The alternative is to hire professionals.
✌️
Hit me up if you’re looking for new participants. 😊RHP User
2 years ago
Hahaha openmindedlass, we have crossed paths before so I think you know where I am coming from. ✌️
RHP User
2 years ago
I love GB. So hearing a women say she may take charge in organising them interests me a lot. I’d be very keen to come along. Please message me if you want to ask any more information 🙏
bianca_dd
2 years ago
I have arranged/organised/participated in many GBs and although I am the one who messages any interested parties, both male and female, it is my husband that decides on the attendees/participants. That is simply because he is a male and does not get suckered in {as I do} by all the lies and bullshit spun by other males. I hope you find the info you requested but be warned arranging a GB with decent people is extremely difficult. There is a plethora of liars/fakes/timewasters/dreamers out in web world. Good luck.
RHP User
2 years ago
Hi sexy I'm in Wa and yes it is pretty boring if you were to arrange something would you make sure an equal number of guys to girls I would definitely join you
Jaison_beach
2 years ago
Normally it's men in charge
But a woman running the show probably a treat
Jonper
2 years ago
Great idea. When run and vetted by a woman, could be better as know what a lady wants!
RHP User
2 years ago
There are two women in Sydney RHP who organise Gabs. Get in touch with them https://redhotpie.com.au/rjsapp/member/profile?userId=1183146487895&idx=0
XBonnieClydeX
2 years ago
I (Bonnie) ran a GB group in Brisbane for a number of years which was quite.successful. however it did become very time consuming
as we vetted all participants - male and female. We had a good group of about 25 regular reliable guys. Hosted parties and private GB's. It was extremely popular and unfortunately cut into our own "couple time" too much so we decided not to do it anymore.
We would DEFINITELY reach out to a female run group if we are visiting Perth, which we do from time to time. Females understand females more and our standards are much higher than those of male run GB groups.
I say go for it girl!!! ❤️
JennyTahlia
2 years ago
Hello I'm new to rhp. Thank you for posting this discussion as im curious in being involved in a safe gang bang.
RHP User
2 years ago
Maybe, if you start a forum "GB in Perth" and ask ladies to contact you with respectable guys, could be a good start. That way not only you are vetting, our community is..... Just a thought.
RHP User
2 years ago
100% most the issues I have with the idea of random groups and organised by other men, is you never actually know what you are getting into.
A consistent group with clear communication would be very welcomed.
Vatican
2 years ago
There used to be a couple in adelaide, called themselves ADELAIDE PLAYTIME. Always went smooth. i was friends with them, and as far as i know there was never trouble, also never a problem getting couples and guys along for the fun. they did very good events.
Gaza88
4 months ago
Yes l placed add in thdde paper
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