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50% more fun? Or is three a crowd?

September 05 2011

Recently had my first real FFM experience. Like a lot if men it was something I'd thought about a lot (!) and I was really excited about the prospect. But have to say I was somewhat disappointed by the reality, which was that the sex, whilst good, wasn't as awesome as it had previously been one-on-one with one of the females before. It felt a bit clumsy, and I found myself wondering whether we all just needed more practice (lol) or whether you just can't get the same 'connection' when there's more than two? Obviously I'm not going to form an opinion after one experience - and it may well be that my expectations were too high - but I'd be interested in hearing what other RHP'ers think? Do you dig threesomes/foursomes/moresomes? Or is just two best for you?

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RHP User

14 years ago

So many ta~tas.. so little time. I have always considered that the secret is to work out who is going to cop all the attention this time.... then it is the two really working over the one.... if you allocate an afternoon to the idea then of course you might figure out a way to rotate the piggy in the middle... Anyway... pffftt... women... who knows what they get up to when two of 'them are together naked.... with no guys around to interfere.... I can only imagine... I know.. Ive seen the movies.... peaked through keyholes... been tied to chairs and such while they're at it... but it's not the same.... when they're all alone... together... in private.... and nobody is watching... they're uninhibited.... exploring each other's bodies... not a cock in sight.... my imagination goes wild. I wonder if lesbians truly appreciate the hold they have over men? Anyway.... as soon as a guy is thrown into the mix the dynamics change, unless you can channel the ninja within.... lmfao... that's my ultimate goal... participating using all the purposeful incisive moves...... but it's like I'm not even there. :pHUgsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

I had threesomes, foursomes and moresomes when younger and always found them to be a little strange. They are not for me. Now I prefer one on one. Intimate and intense.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I can understand what your saying there I had a 3some with 2 girls who i had no connection with and the sex was just blah blah but the i hadone with 2 girls who i had an awesome connection with and omg awesome. So if find the connection thing a big one for me Tryit3 ;)

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RHP User

14 years ago

I think if you can have a rapport of somekind before going into your "moresomes" then it's a lot easier. Your mind can have a bit of a blowout if you think too much about things..or so Im told. Have done the FFM and had a blast I have to say but it was once with a cple I know quite well and another time my bestfriend..what all husbands dreams are made of...Yep my advice would be..don't let one time decide your attitude on it...what a great research topic for you hey!

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RHP User

14 years ago

So your crazy you dont like threesomes !!! Are you kidding ! Arent you a real man ! ..................... Settle down everyone settle down ! .Yes I am kidding ! See I have had some truly ordinary one on one encounters with both sexes and I have had some really ordinary episodes with threesomes and more somes. I agree its about the whole encounter - are you all comfortable, is everyone relaxed , YUP like anything if you have'nt done it before, it feels terribly awkward ......... but its different for everyone of course my first time with a 3some .....awesome ! But heck sure it could be really ordinary for you!.You may try it again and yup again ordinary ! So ffm isnt for you - next - try something different find your groove! .It is different for us all..Brae

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RHP User

14 years ago

What we play out in our heads and watch on porn....is usually so much hotter than doing it in real life! xFunlovingx

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RHP User

14 years ago

I have always found threesomes ffm to be like half a shag. I have half the males attention and that just is not good enough for me :PThat being said, I have had a couple of amazing ffm's where I really hit it off with the other female and it all just worked. I guess it is possible for them to be fantastic and this for me happens when I am least expecting it. I think the same goes for a lot of things. When you are taken by surprise that is when it is really great.It is harder to get that connection in a threesome situation because you have to connect with two people who have to also connect with each other and you...I am very much a fan of one on one encounters for that very reason. Even mmf fails to do it for me for the same reasons.xx Salina

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RHP User

14 years ago

Threesomes and other ...somes are a drag. Not half as intense and mind blowing as sex with someone with whom you connect...take your time with tongue and fingertips and teeth exploring and Tantric massage...

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RHP User

14 years ago

In the past I have experienced amazing 3sums and some awkward ones! ...I think it comes down to the connection between the ppl involved, and also whether the females are truley bi or not haha

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RHP User

14 years ago

Have sampled from the threesome menu before, and whilst I certainly enjoyed both for the experience and would never rule out trying the same dishes again, nothing quite beats the intensity of the one-on-one encounters with the full entree, main and dessert. It's much like a dinner party I suppose, you have to spread yourself a little thin at times to ensure everyone gets an equal share. . I also agree with Funloving in that rarely does reality quite pan out like a fantasy. . Keep trying though, it really is all about the connection and, as Sal says, I would also think that the unexpected encounters could be better as they offer little time to overthink, overplan, or stress out about the logistics. . Flirty x

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RHP User

14 years ago

lolz Brae. I have to say this... I'm loving your new profile pic! You've been a very busy boy of late huh?HugsS Quoting 'looking2try3' So your crazy you dont like threesomes !!! Are you kidding ! Arent you a real man ! ..................... Settle down everyone settle down ! .Yes I am kidding ! See I have had some truly ordinary one on one encounters with both sexes and I have had some really ordinary episodes with threesomes and more somes. I agree its about the whole encounter - are you all comfortable, is everyone relaxed , YUP like anything if you have'nt done it before, it feels terribly awkward ......... but its different for everyone of course my first time with a 3some .....awesome ! But heck sure it could be really ordinary for you!.You may try it again and yup again ordinary ! So ffm isnt for you - next - try something different find your groove! .It is different for us all..Brae

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RHP User

14 years ago

Thanks Gaz !.Brae

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RHP User

14 years ago

We're still very new to this but one of the things we've found is that it all depends on the chemistry between everyone. Sometimes it can be so-so but when it's good then it really amplifies everything ;)I think repeat visits are the definitely the way to go because everyone is so much more relaxed after the first go and things just flow better... haha

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RHP User

14 years ago

Thanks everyone for your advice so far. Based on your comments sounds like I should a) keep trying b) convince my close friends to try with me c) watch less porn, and d) try and channel my inner ninja! I'll let you know how I go... T x

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RHP User

14 years ago

i dont usually like 3sums, i.e 2 guys unless i have loads of chemistry with both. I prefer lots of people usually, i.e a major orgy

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RHP User

14 years ago

I'm going to have to quote missopenminded 'In the past I have experienced amazing 3sums and some awkward ones! ...I think it comes down to the connection between the ppl involved, and also whether the females are truley bi or not haha' Or if the couple is emotionally stable, truly ready and both are equally willing. It also depends on whether or not your comfortable with your roll. For a guy this may be being a human dildo for a period of time, or there may need to be a connection. Are you going to comfortable with one or the other, or both. You can walk away feeling like throwing up or 'that was awesome!' I believe it's all about energy exchange at the end of the day. Not in a physically comparible way. Moreso is everyone getting what they need or want, is the energy going in one direction, is it going to be resiprocated or are the others feeding off your energy. Different people means different scenarios and the possibilities are endless. I would advise enough conversation before hand to ensure you're clear and comfortable with your roll. Empirical

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RHP User

14 years ago

I was lucky enough to have an ongoing 3sum for about 6 years with my partner at the time and another friend. The key to its success was that we were actually friends for years first and knew lots about each other, so it was a very relaxed connection. Also it was MMF , and as the female it suited me because I got all the attention all the time ..... if one needed a break the other took over (or they were working on me together:). Above all you need to have a connection beyond the physical so that you can relly indulge and enjoy the physical .... if that makes sense.

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50% more fun? Or is three a crowd?

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