RHP

RHP User

F45

4 some , never done it but keen!!!

March 22 2011

Hi There, Very keen to have a 4 some with my partner haven't done it before. Any advice on finding a couple that are keen and how they feel about your looks. Dont want to turn up and feel rejected if we aren't what they are looking for. Sorry if this seems like a childish dilemma but new to the game!!! Thank you for your advice Hunny

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Pictures, pictures, pictures...... Without some indication of what you look like why would anyone contact you? Why would anyone reply to your messages? You could be ANYTHING therefore you appeal to no-one. You don't need to upload your latest family portrait, but something that gives an indication of what you both look like is a start. If you find another interested couple, provide them with factual face & body pics and you'll know that they won't be shocked and nauseated when the meeting rolls around . Why do you have a single womans profile if you're part of a couple?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Glad to hear from other newbies on here! Thx Hunny. We are in a similar positionTrouble is, now that we have set up our profile, I can't find how to upload a profile pic....Can someone pls help?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    you should go to a swingers club. No pressure to play and you can maybe get a better idea of what it's all about. I mean everyone should go a swingers club once in their life! Good luckxxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We are in the same position, we are willing to send pics to personal emails or mobile phones, however because we are from a semi small city where someone seems to know someone we dont really want to put up any pics on here especially as we have tattoos and could be easily identified by them. When a profile says body isnt of great of importance are they really saying that or just seeing who replies? As for going to a swingers club we have looked into a few however have found that they are basically all open door policys. Although we want to meet other couples I dont like the idea personally of just anyone coming in and watching. I would prefer to meet a couple in puclic then take it behind closed doors... Whats everyones take on what i have said???