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4-letter words during sex
October 01 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok - I've not had sex with any other gus, but in general, I've noticed that there is a larger tendancy for people to just plain swear at any occassion. It seems to just be something that is now culturally "acceptable" if we like it or not. personally - I'm not one to swear much at all, therefore I'm more into the groaning / encouragement vs the fcuking more camp... Likewise I prefer to hear a lady groan (in pleasure) and scream more than anything else... helps me know I'm doing it right ;-) Not sure if I've helped or not but thats my two bits worth. NG68
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, we should mind our manners during sex. Exactly. Instead of saying "I'm gonna ram my cock in your arse now babe".... a gentleman would say "Excuse me dear" .. wait patiently for your reply... and then say, "I shall very much prefer to spigot your sphinkter now. Please be a jolly good sport and pass the silicone lubricant, my darling" Hugs Gaz <<< Let's fuck like hob nobs would if they had to do it in public
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Gaz : I enjoy hobbing a Knob in or out of the bedroom? Saturn86: Speak up before you jump in the sack, it may make a difference. If you find it offensive why not just say so before you start to play. I'm sure most men would be happy to at least try not to express their enjoyment in this way, if this is how you feel. Then again they may just pass for someone a little more suited to their way of swinging. Personal expression is done in many ways, Mike has always said "A lady in the kitchen, a whore in the bedroom" it's an old expression. Guys on the other hand could be "Gentleman in the Dinning room, lusty lover in the bedroom". Personally I love to hear all the naughty 4 letter words in the heat of the moment and what he is going to do with his big cock and where he is putting it.....and just who fuking great it feels for him too! Just what I think anyway. Cheers, Shell
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RHP User
16 years ago
Language doesn't offend me ! You can say what ever you like, you can call me whatever you like, words are simply words. I'm just intrigued by how language changes during sex. Someone who is usually highly communicative can be reduced to 2 or 3 words. It's as if the energy / focus used during sex leaves 3/4 of the brain immobile ! And NO I don't expect a conversation- a sure fire way of killing the moment ! As for the "Excuse me dear..." , personally I'd find that very funny and it'd probably add a bit more fun to the session. Why not say, "hey babe, I want to ram my fat cock up your tiny arse" one time then "hey darling, you are the wonderful, I want to feel myself inside you" the next ? Variety is the key, perhaps we need to invent more 4-letter words ? Your sensually indulgent but happy for cock ramming anyday... Ms Saturn.
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RHP User
16 years ago
For once I actually agree with you Gaz!! Shock horror hehehe :O Sorry Saturn but I find it hilarious that you're ok with someone fucking you and being on a adult site promoting random fucking but you're offended by the WORD??! Buy some ear plugs and get the farkkkkkkkkk over it! Cheers Elljae x
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Hey saturn I'ts probably one of those things that is more socially acceptable these days, And i certainly have been known to let off the 4 letter words, when I'm enjoying myself.....but I'm a bit old fassioned , If I was with someone that I knew didn't talk or like bad lanuage I would equally respect that, and limit myself to moans etc,and replace the trash talk with compiments. It realy depends on the mood and person your with doesn't it ? Tam
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lolz..... and here I was thinking of using the line "I shall very much prefer to spigot your sphinkter now" on a permanent basis.. :p I really enjoy being called dirty names in the heat of passion... it just feels so right especially from a very proper, well mannered, neatly pruned lady in a business suit.... who's gagging on my dick with her chin pressing firmly on my nutsack.... she gags, pulls out.. gasps for air... hucks up a big spit and pelts it at my genitals and yells "you filthy fuken big cocked cunt".. then bam... deep throats me again.... Oh yeah... I just love that. It says... "I've let go of all of my inhibitions and I'm really enjoying myself today, darling".... or sommat like that. In any case, swearing is involved. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
call you whatever i like huh..can i call you know for sex??..fark farrrk farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrk oh baby!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
If I was a boy I'd do what ever it took to turn her on and shut the fuck up
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RHP User
16 years ago
i swear like a trooper at the best of times ..... and dirty filthy words and name calling only make me hotter in the heat of playsessions. my logical brain gets paralysed and i turn into a dribbling, panting, cock gagging, screaming, uninhibited, begging machine... LOL. my vocabulary tends to be limited to four letter words or under, mostly, "Sir" "Fuck" "oh" "MORE" "MrSexy" and a very special 5letter word.... talk dirty to me....love jemma
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RHP User
16 years ago
....it wouldn't be the first time lol... but I think everyone is missing saturn_86's point :P "mmm yes... good... more..." etc etc is way more sexy than just "Fuck, Shit, Fuck, Shit".... and it takes a bit more imagination and effort.... and Saturn is just saying she likes less verbal appreciations.... I'm like Jemma, love love love the dirty talk but the imaginative stuff.... no one is going to be turning me on by repeating "fuck, shit" over and over..... "spread your legs apart, you little slut...show me that wet naked pussy....that's right...my sophie loves being fucked doesn't she....mmm... that feels good....tell me you belong to me, beg me for it..." Might sound like a lot of effort for the guy... but I make it worth his while... gets me purring like a kitten ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
mental note to selves for when we get that hot little slut Sophie butt naked between us and fuck shit fuck fuck shit fuck her all night long! (Disclaimer: All implications that the Pups might be into dirty stuff to do with defecation are completely misguided, we like our dirty stuff rather clean thank you very much!)
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RHP User
16 years ago
For me, no other word seems to have the oomph that the F word does. Yet if you aren't a person who swears, I could see how that wouldn't appeal to you.Let's just say that if for example I drop a can of spaghetti on my foot, saying "oh my golly gosh that hurt" does not have the same impact as saying f**k 50 times. Maybe a bit of duct tape over their mouth might do the trick, or you could just stipulate what you like and don't like.
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RHP User
16 years ago
you get my vote.....even without a profile photo.... i would happily tell you that i want to ram my big fat cock up your ass (Id even offer to telll you i was going to nibble yr clit til it floods yr fanny .. lol...before i get 2 carried away..... you do have a way with words..... :p but in answer to yr q...... i think its just a vocabulary thing.... and also that not everybody has the same relationship with words and sex... or u cld blame the rap culture lol Sophie..... far out..... a purring pussy that can string words like that..... Roooooaaar say a male cat lo Elij ??? REally????? 2b :) & :P :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Interestingly, it hasn't been my experience that men swear much during sex. Perhaps they are too busy trying to satisfy their partners and themselves. My own experiences have often been that the most intelligent and sensitive women, the ones who barely swear at all outside the bedroom (or orgy room), are using the most surprising language when sexually excited. Maybe they just feel comfortable around non-judgmental types like us, but I suspect it is more likely that women are just confident of their ability to express themselves sexually. Perhaps they are revelling in their situation, knowing that wih their clothes off and their sexualities out there and fully revealed, they are free not to behave like "ladies?" Its pretty liberating to be naked and orgasming in a room with a dozen other people... Maybe swearing is just another expression of that freedom?
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RHP User
16 years ago
KuriousKiwi has a good idea ! From now on I will carry a large role of duct tape in my gym bag, place it somewhere in the room then instruct my partner to choose their language carefully or the Duct Tape will be used ! The only problem I envisage is running out of duct tape ! I wonder if I can get a discount if I buy in bulk. I've experienced the pillow over my head to muffle my moans and groans so why not the duct tape to stop not so appealing language ? I just don't think I could contain it to over the mouth !!! mmmm... my mind is wandering... And when I do drop that can of spaghetti on my foot, I usually shout, "owww, owww, owww..." 50 times ! (kids definitely make me more conscious of my langauge !) RudeLove- trust me, I am VERY liberated, I just don't seem to have those 4-letter words waiting to get out. I don't regard swearing as unlady-like behaviour. It doesn't make any difference who says it. I just think there are many wonderful words in our language and we probably used more of them prior to txt messaging and Twitter ! Now it's all about using the least words (or letters) to express yourself. Thanks to everyone for your criticism, feedback and general banter. Yours, in longing, lustful, luscious, licking... Ms Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'll confess, I've been known to let slip a few uncouth refrains when the passion and the zeal of the action gets the better of me. The sounds of sex tend to play an important, if not flat out vital, part in sexual enjoyment. No sense should be left unoccupied when it comes to a good fuck. I generally only start cursing when my partner pushes for me to be dominant. A crude way of displaying strength, I know, but some girls do genuinely get off on being held down and pounded into while their partner unloads on them - physically as well as verbally.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's all much funnier when using a David Attenborough accent to read the responses with.
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RHP User
16 years ago
...David Attenborough is into some kinky, kinky stuff.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'speedntrixie' It's all much funnier when using a David Attenborough accent to read the responses with. Ha ha ha..........yeah it is......But with a Try it with a Ringo Star Accent........Freaking Hilarious...........
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RHP User
16 years ago
Okay Saturn.. You have started the fires again Miss Saturn...How about a swear jar, you can set a fine for the level of the word make some cash while cuming..And if dosent make you cum it is a heavier penalty. In my industry it is cash for comment , abit like this really !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
All Im going to say is FUCK!! The_Last_76, WOW that's a FUCKING transformation from the last photo! So you took the advice I see.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I thought I'd give it a try and see if I get different results. I'm going to take a few hundred more photos tonight, now that I have a fresh hair cut, and see what turns out. I say few hundred because I have absolutely no photographic skill. But if I take enough, one of them is BOUND to look good.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Out with Harry Potter and in with The_ONE_and_ONLY76er!!!!! You look great! Look forward to the new photos....not in Attenborough style I hope.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'loveparade2010' not in Attenborough style I hope..... I'd need a pith helmet, a safari suit and a jungle location.
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RHP User
16 years ago
LoL!! Just the helmet, strategically placed of course..... ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
But should I be riding a lion? Or maybe a cougar ;P
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RHP User
16 years ago
**blushes** Um...maybe just swinging.....or holding a python ;-) depends on your preference....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, Tarzan needs a Jane. Although I wish I knew how the hell Tarzan managed to shave everyday in the middle of the jungle.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Of course you realise this could go on forever. You will get your Jane. x
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RHP User
16 years ago
If only, if only. On the plus side, I have a haircut now. And less hair, though that goes without saying.Back to the topic at hand - During sex would you rather hear dirty talk or moaning? Any opinions on how the genders react to the two?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was once with an absolutely beautiful, super intelligent girl. She was an excellent conversationalist.But in the bedroom... Absolutely silent. Not even moans. The first time I had sex with her I was thinking 'fuck... nothing I'm doing is right' Then she rolled me over and said 'oh God, that was so good.. now.. what can we do for you?' I was so put off because I was questioning if she was faking it. But that's just how she was.The best sex I've had was when random shit was happening outside and we could overhear a pretty funny conversation outside our window. We both laughed and the sex was just FUN. I get really turned off by serious sex, but most people get really turned off by someone laughing or being silly. I remember fucking a girl at CI one night with the door to the room open and pumping her to the beat of the music. I thought it was great. She didn't. Play time was over pretty quick :(When it comes to writing.. I'm fairly skilled. I've been a published music journalist, so I obviously do OK. And of course, a lot of my skills got honed from cyber sex when I was younger... LOTS of it. LOL! I've created some very kinky roleplays indeed.But when it comes to actual sex I'm still a bit scared to actually say things. You're much more likely to get moans and 'oh yeah, that's gooooooooood' then the FUCK SHIT STACK. Even tho in every day talk I do swear quite a bit.I think it'd be great to have someone that wanted to talk during sex. Communication is the key to getting better at things.
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RHP User
16 years ago
How about a good balance of both, but voicing what you're feeling one way or another...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I remember one time i asked a lover what she was thinking..Obviously i thought she was goung to say something hot !! No she said i was just thinking about my washing !! Umm i had a moan and groan with that one !!
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