M52
3 years ,,not 1 single meet
March 06 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
In addition - your ask me relationship status combined with "if required" for safe sex would put me off.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
From from what Summer and Soft said, you must be doing something wrong besides willing to expose your partner to std's. Maybe post your typical introduction msssage on your thread and we can advise you where you may be able to improve. Chance to be proactive..........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Been here 4 years ago...before all the moral police arrived and turned it into a CWA cake stall. Everyone was getting laid, everywhere, all the time!!! The place even had a reputation as a sex site.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...Your not living out in the sticks are you? Your profile looks basic but straightforward, I think. I'm sure it's not necessary to write a book, as some do. Besides the more you put to paper, the more it will be dissected and put under the microscope by the reader.An attempt at light humour won't hurt...it will show you have some or are at least trying.A few more public photos probably wouldn't hurt either. Get outdoors on a sunny day...find some colour. And smile.Hopefully you can hold a decent conversation and inject some light wit and humour into one.And never appear needy, clingy or dependent on anyone. I'm not your target audience...but it's not that hard when you make a bit of effort. Admittedly, I haven't been proactivelylooking to meet anyone for a while....but I haven't forgotten how to be confident. Good luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
what everyone else has said...be interesting to see if you take it on board....ask me really pisses me off...attached or unattached simples....smoker or non smoker simples
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RHP User
10 years ago
probably expectations need re-aligning. Most females here dont meet unless it is 100% on their terms, a guy way out of their league and which will usually involve an ego boost for them. They will generally rip you, your profile and your views to shreds...dont take it seriously. - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
10 years ago
Don't have ask me's. Definatley have more pics and face ones in the private gallery at least. * a lot of people don't like to ask when it comes to "race". You have various ??? I would state what your heritage is in your profile. Personally I'm not into guessing games ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
First of all, always best to show your face in your profile picture.. Otherwise people think you have something to hide. And you're profile is very basic.. You need your true personality to come across in your profile. Once that is done, women can get a feel for what it would be like to meet you and you might have a better chance. I have also been on here a few years and I wouldn't be able to count the amount of people I have met.. Although I am lucky.. I'm in Perth.. And Perth women on RHP seem to be very happy to meet ... Some for drinks and a chat, others for straight down and dirty... Something in the water over here!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Pay a hooker. Nobody said you will get sex on here it's simply a place to meet like minded people. If you don't appeal to those people then chances are you'll be on here for 3yrs with no luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
And it's not that bad.
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TakingMyTime
10 years ago
Hello everyone I have just taken the plunge and j1 oined this site - I have done various dating site but not this 1 before so I am looking forward to a new experience
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RHP User
10 years ago
Change your status from "Ask me" to "Attached" if that is what you are.Change to "Safe sex" - after you have met someone, then things may change - but only on the conditions set by your new partner.Yes, there are the "Moral Police" & they have quite a standing on these sites, however you may find someone who is interested in something on the side - FWB is the term. Make your advert interesting - if you were a woman, would you be attracted to your advert?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Indecent_DeVille' Been here 4 years ago...before all the moral police arrived and turned it into a CWA cake stall. Everyone was getting laid, everywhere, all the time!!! The place even had a reputation as a sex site. lol , wish I`d been here then ,nah I was getting laid as well...but not with redhotpie help...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Of course a single female meets on 100% their terms. Im sure you and your partner would be the same. Why would anyone serious about having a great sexual experience want to compromise themselves?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Or do you think all those good people who go to church on Sunday don't have sex for pleasure...? The grass was always greener a couple of years ago...
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RHP User
10 years ago
... will always be too happy to slap labels like "moral police" etc just because they don't get their way. It's so cliche and so yesterday. Stop sucking your thumbs and sulking and move on. Innovate, change, adapt and play the game by the new rules to stay on top of things and get the most out of it. Things have changed and it's called progression and sophistication. Change is inevitable, for better or for worse. Maybe this used to be a McFuck site, but apparently, it's changed over the years. Better catch up and keep up with the change otherwise you'd become part of Generation "Good Old Days".
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' ... will always be too happy to slap labels like "moral police" etc just because they don't get their way. It's so cliche and so yesterday. Stop sucking your thumbs and sulking and move on. Innovate, change, adapt and play the game by the new rules to stay on top of things and get the most out of it. Things have changed and it's called progression and sophistication. Change is inevitable, for better or for worse. Maybe this used to be a McFuck site, but apparently, it's changed over the years. Better catch up and keep up with the change otherwise you'd become part of Generation "Good Old Days". is that so, and you've been here how many weeks was it ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
With a vagina and breasts it appears. Carry on... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
With a vagina and breasts it appears. Carry on... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
bullshit.......that is all.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women need info to feel secure, honest info. Think of it like a work resume, the employer is wanting someone who can do the job but also someone who has that little bit more to offer. Make something about you individual, or random, something that will get someone's attention but not too freaky..remember we're dealing with women here, they scare easily and rightfully so! Sound confident but not arrogant, give them something to think about, never ever ever copy and paste or use templates we will always know and it never ends well. It's a bit like sales, present the product and show all its best assets,and the more no's you get you're closer to a yes, it's all about numbers. I made my profile as a pure marketing ploy, totes freaky, totes honest, way out there and totes unforgettable! I've been on here for about 8 years or so and have had so many amazing experiences that one day I will write a book coz this shit is off da hook!! I also had quite the charismatic hate mail from some peeps which in turn tells me that my profile is so provoking that they take time out to tell me how much they hate it! Hahaha the power of words will take you places 😉.....oh and never EVER put 'hi' in the subject line of a message they are the last ones I read if I read them at all coz that means they haven't even thought up an interesting title for their awesome message to me (shows lack of interest in the individual which makes pussy's dry up in seconds!) make em feel like they're the only one you've messaged even though it's your 50th and you're over it, show us effort and we shall reward 😊
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you follow the advice on here you will always be chasing shadows. You just have to be your own man and be bold about it. It's not that hard. 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
And the shadows get longer. 😄
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RHP User
10 years ago
... no it's not really that bad in my experience. Seems like you've had plenty of good advice on how to address the smt wrongs. Love to hear about your experience in 6 months time ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
...Winter is coming
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RHP User
10 years ago
It seems that there are two schools of thought around here when it comes to profile lengths – one that says that one should have the bare minimum on there (and then, I suppose, wait for the stars to align to catch the eye of a person of interest) and the other that gives preference to longish descriptions in the profiles to filter out the audience that they are not interested in. The second approach may be convenient for females and couples as they clearly have to filter out the flood of people that they are not interested in. However, for single guys, laying the cards open could mean shooting oneself in the foot as this potentially removes them from a ‘maybe’ selection pool - where they could have a chance to showcase some other aspects of their personality that would outweigh the initial shortfall. I appreciate that the word ‘play the game’ is frowned upon here. But, for some solo guys, getting something from this community really means having to use a tactical approach. I, personally, went public with a longish profile description as I am not into (number) games. I prefer to wait for that (still) elusive match.
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RHP User
10 years ago
They like playing under the blankets
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Seachange73
10 years ago
you have contacted me before and i think i said no thanks. The reasons are many from the vagueness of your profile, the ask me in the relationship status (which indicates to me you are either married or attached. My profile says, if you read it, no Attached/married men) and safe sex view. And your private gallery contain facial pics of you flexing your muscles all the time and a very angry mean look. Not sure why maybe it takes a lot of effort to get the muscles bulging when you flex in front of the mirror and it shows in your face. I find your pictures intimidating specially in your security uniforms with your baton in hand. I feel like if I am with you in private you may just beat the shit out of me. Lol. I prefer a warm relaxed guy who can hold a conversation, someone laid back and friendly. I would like to see their smiling faces in a relazed environment rather than macho stances in front of the mirror wielding their weapon, cock or no cock variety. Remember, if i am to spend some quality intimate time with a person, I need to feel safe in their presence. Your pics and messages do not inspire those feelings so I would not even consider to meet you for a drink when there are a lot of friendlier looking men out there. In short, my advice, since you asked, is change your pic mix, have relaxed smiling pics, get rid of the angry security guy pics (specially the second one with your security cap and baton). For those who do not mind your relationship status, this is just another hurdle that is eliminated. Best wishes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
See this is the conundrum with giving profile advice, is the op really an intimidating weapon wielding angry man or is it just some silly image he thinks is attractive ?Or will the new ZERDUSHTA41 be a laid back friendly smiling assassin ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
RHP shouldn't be your everything.....only a piece. This site is just one small part of a much wider world. Unless you're married and sneaking around. Then it's the underworld LOL
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Seachange73
10 years ago
You make a good point. Just trying to be helpful, but maybe a bit overzealous. My apologies OP. However, my comments are sincere in trying to help you understand why you may not be getting the results you desire, among all the other helpful advice people have give you before me. It is up to you to utilize any of the advice above and make it work for you. best wishes.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Go to the Meet and Greets. this is something that the RHP people should exploit to its full potential. You get to meet people from all walks of life and orientation that you may click with.... men, women, couples, tv, tg, etc. Keep an eye on the Events section of the site. I have met most of my fwb at meets as I know they can be dependable and keen to get off from behind the keyboardd and meet people for a real chat. The last Melb meet and greet in the weekend was attended by more women than men although the ratio of interest in the event of men to womem was 3:1 but only about 6-7 men showed up as opposed to the 12-13 women. Missed opp for all the single men who signed up and then chickened out on the night. . But it was still fun to meet so many members I have not met before and putting a face to a name. We always hear men moan and complain about this on the forum and in private messages. I invite them to the meet and they say they will go but never really make an effort then I see them post on the forum that there are no real women who wants to meet them even for coffee... Duh? In this site, you make your own bed and you lie in it too....
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting '50wetfigs' See this is the conundrum with giving profile advice, is the op really an intimidating weapon wielding angry man or is it just some silly image he thinks is attractive ?Or will the new ZERDUSHTA41 be a laid back friendly smiling assassin ? As you know, being the intelligent person you are, that it is all in the perception of the person /s who reads the profile. Without knowing the OP intimately, we assess him with whatever information he presents to us. For those who read his profile and view his pictures, their perception becomes the truth at that point in time and space and they will assess how that perceived image sits in relation to themselves. No buts or ifs, unless they are not selective or total knob. Hence, we must present ourselves as close as possible to who we are or who the persona we want other people to perceive who we are. We are going to be judge on how we present ourselves, either in writing or in person. Either way, perception counts.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...just been watching the latest reviews of Game of Thrones by Ozzy man Reviews. I highly recommend... 😊
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RHP User
10 years ago
So what is the truer portrayal the one they did on their own or the one we coached them to write ? Remember a camel is a horse designed by a committee. 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe ZERDHURST41 you could do a little moonlighting at one of the M&Gs and come in your security gear. Surely there would be a woman or 3 there ready for a jolly good pounding with ya trusty truncheon. Or do as some of the others have advised and go in disguise and maybe change your username to NERDHURST41
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RHP User
10 years ago
I want to say this without offending, not my intention, but when you only have one picture up, problematic in itself, ask yourself, is this the best picture/angle/lighting/etc etc showing me in my best light, since it's the one chance I have to grab the attention of potential playmates? I'm not saying there's anything wrong with the way you look or this picture, but every time I look at it, I can't help thinking, you're one of those guys who would look a whole lot better in the flesh, than this pictures shows you. That in itself isn't a bad thing, better than the other way around. Just food for thought
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting '50wetfigs' So what is the truer portrayal the one they did on their own or the one we coached them to write ? Remember a camel is a horse designed by a committee. 😃 All we can do is to give our opinion on what is attractive to us and what works for us.... It is up to the OP to filter the the info, make his assessment and pick and choose what is right for him.. He does not need to follow any of our advice as it could all be crap. We should not underestimate the intelligence of the OP as we do not know him. That would be condescending. It would be presumptuous of us to expect the OP to follow any of our advice. Why should he.? But he did ask and we gave our personal take on the matter. That is the best we could do. All we gave him is food for thought. Just because people or the magazines say that one would look more attractive if one has botox or have lipo in certain parts of one's body does not mean one would do exactly as they are told. They can ignore it altogehter after much thought. We have not taken away the OP's choice. He is still the master of his destinity. BTW, a camel is of better service and value to the humans in the harsher climes of the desert, a very cruel environment They are more resilient than horses. but that is for another discussion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
*BTW, a camel is of better service and value to the humans in the harsher climes of the desert, a very cruel environment They are more resilient than horses. but that is for another discussion.* Quick joke Joice. Q~Why do they call camels ships of the desert? A~Cos dey is full of de Arab semen! hahah :D (sorry to any camels I may have offended out there) *Just because people or the magazines say that one would look more attractive if one has botox or have lipo in certain parts of one's body does not mean one would do exactly as they are told.* Crikey, dont let this become the Womans Day!and lets get real here it is the Womans Monthly lol (no pun intended or implied) LEGAL DISCLAIMER:These are my opinions and comments, use them at your own peril.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your right on the money . I don't think there's anymore to add to that. ZERDUSH , You're probally just being yourself. That's enough to attract a dissection ...
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