24/7 dom/sub rship anybody out there enjoying it

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  15 years ago

  I remember seeing a doco n tv a while ago about women who live like this. These women would spend thier whole time doing things that pleased the man. They did not work. Stayed at home and taught the kids how to "please daddy" It was a bit wierd and Armish type of thing but has a growing trend in America as well as here in Australia. The man was definately the head of the household and one went so far as to blind fold his wife when they went out in the car as she kept giving him instructions on where to go. Not for me nope. Too many women died so we could have the freedom we have today.

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  15 years ago

  Fiona - i saw that doco too - it was about a very, very different thing from a kinky dom/sub relationship. it was a bit of a worry, actually. and the words "submissive wives" used all the way through the bloody thing put PR for BDSM back decades. thanks, 60 Minutes. and being a submissive is probably about as far from being Amish as it's possible to get ;) jayem - i know people in the BDSM community who live D/s 24/7 - it works to various degrees. the best kinds of 24/7 relationship, like so many other relationships, are the ones with very clear boundaries, understood roles and an underlying mutual respect. i have, however, seen foolish girls (and guys) who mistake control freaks for dominants - and that's disastrous. a nice indicator for any submissive that their D/s relationship is a healthy one, which holds for casual relationships but is a thousand times more important for those considering 24/7: if you needed to be heard, would you be? and if you needed a time-out to re-define how the 24/7 is working out, would it be respected, without question? some other questions to ask when defining the rules to tailor your 24/7 arrangement: * you are happy to entrust your physical safety to your Dom during play - but are you ready to move that trust into other areas? financial matters, for example - would you be D/s for this, or have 'equal time' when discussing money? * when is it control; when is it domination; and when is it micromanagement? there's a zillion other considerations, but i'll open the floor to others who actually do live it... imho it's a hot fantasy for many, but like a lot of fantasies, needs a whole heap of down-to-earth communication to translate into a workable reality. best of luck :)

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  15 years ago

  hi, it is a very interesting lifestyle, i am owned and collared by my Master, i am a registered slave, i am a very proud slave and i have permission from my Master to comment on this topic. W/we do not live together but He sees me when He can, sometimes W/we spend weekends together, i am as close to being 24/7 as i can, i ask permission to do things, He always knows where i am, but as far as going to the loo or showering well i dont ask permission, but there r some that do have to ask,, we do go out and meet other couples, but if others are not into this lifestyle it is not a proplem, we can also b just a ordinary couple,, every day W/we communicate to each other, txt or on line,, Master has given me gifts, my gift to Master is me,,, He has ownership of my body, mind and soul and my heart,, i am for Masters pleasure, for Him to use me as He wishes, wheather it is for pain or pleasure, i do get disiplined, i am like a spoilt brat at times, and i do make mistakes, i have been with Master for over 6 months now, and i spent nearly 3 years seaching for the right One, i could rave on and on about the lifestyle, it is not for everyonw, but it is for U/us

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Jayemperth is it your fantasy to live the lifestyle or is it a role playing turn on that you would like when out swinging? We all go through phases of enacting Fantasies but then may choose not to go there again or explore more. Try it for a weekend from Friday night to SUnday night then sit down and discuss pros and cons We have two frinds who are in this type of relationship, where she must ask permission to do the most simple things etc and they are great together. He does not abuse her physically or mentally it is a control thing. We have played with them as a couple and some nights he will not allow her to have sex until many hours into our playtime and boy oh boy watch out when she is unleashed. She works as a nurse during the day and her submission is only when she is at home and they are together and she is only submissive to him. Fionabee , I remember a doco along these lines and it was more along the religious lines not a sexual lifestyle choice. We have neighbourrs that live in a Domination lifestyle but this is along ethnic and religious backgrounds and I feel our friends have the better life. I agree with you women have fought long and hard for their basic human rights unfortunately there are far too many women still living in a subjugated lifestyle where beatings and mental abuse abounds and unfortunately we who have our freeedoms tend to forget them or pass inane comments like: "She should just pack her bags and go" Geez SUnday morning after a swingers party where I was happily the sub and I am on the soap box. PS This is Mr 2into2. PPS Just took and extra 10 mins to correct spelling just in case Mistress reads this.

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  15 years ago

  and i did get my Masters permission

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  15 years ago

  Quoting 'fionabee' I remember seeing a doco n tv a while ago about women who live like this. These women would spend thier whole time doing things that pleased the man. They did not work. Stayed at home and taught the kids how to "please daddy" It was a bit wierd and Armish type of thing but has a growing trend in America as well as here in Australia. The man was definately the head of the household and one went so far as to blind fold his wife when they went out in the car as she kept giving him instructions on where to go. Not for me nope. Too many women died so we could have the freedom we have today. i work, many sub/slaves work. and i am defintly not armish, when i am at work i am vanilla me, but as soon as im home im the slave me,, the guy probaly blindfolded his wife to shut her up,, if i didnt shut up Master would gag me,lol,, yes, many did die for our country, for freedom, but men as well as women, and no one can be forced to live this lifestyle, everyone who lives as 24/7 do so on thier own free will,

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