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20 minutes in heaven

April 13 2011

ok hi people it is mrs firewenwet here want some advice from guys and gals.I had a play toy whom use to visit when he was free to have a play. I would greet him at door strip his clothes drag him to bedroom fuck him and have him redressed and back out the door all within 20 mins.No time for coffee no chat just naked do the deed and out the door.Today I got told I am not pretty enough to continue in this arrangement and he broke it off .Now for the punch line I have played with this guy for 11 years.So why has he decided to do this now after all this time. this cut like a knife as i was always accepting never said no to him and wasnt angry when at times he had said he was coming and then cancelled as something came up at business.What would you think after 11 years of a play toy and then to be stopped cold turkey.And How many girls out there would do that for a play toy? and is there any guys out there looking for a play toy like that?Basically am I a dime a dozen or is he?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    What an ass! Maybe he forgot to take his medication that morning. I mean how else do you explain a comment like that after 11 years.I say NEXT - and this time find a man who wants 25 minutes. Go on treat yourself. :PxxMeeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    oh my god, time for some new playfriends. id be over it in 11 months ;)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    were you getting any satisfaction from him at all??? 20 mins he should be damn lucky you put up with him for so damn long i cant believe the gall of that bloke ....NEXT.... roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Play toys have a use by date hun. Move on to something fresh. He sounds like an idiot and you can do better. But only 20 minutes?? damn you haveto make him work for it. Trips xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    hi and thanks for the response to my querie and question. yes I did get enjoyment out of him for 11 years and actually looked forward to his infrequent visits. But what hurt is why after 11 years does he think I am not pretty enough . If it hadve been 11 weeks or 111 months i couldve accepted but this has been 11 years. He has seen me at my best and my worse and yet I have never knocked him back

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I say NEXT - and this time find a man who wants 25 minutes. Go on treat yourself. :PThat reminds me of "Something about Mary" ... you know .... the 7 minute abs segment. hehe... You know we don't like changing our routine!HUgs Stalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sorry to hear about your playtoy He's an arse anyway You probably Taught him how to really pleasure a woman. You are worth more than he had anyway Don't let him back when he comes crawling back Tell him you have a new toy who is showing you what you've been missing out on all those years with Mr 20 Mins

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ahhhhh you should have asked me I do it in 10 minutes in out and no coffee see I am better than the 20 minute guy .......he took 20 minutes I only take 10 ! LMAO .............. I say he was a lucky boy .....I do know of some lovely gals who are like this , and in fact like this ! NO NO NO I dont think your in plentiful supply but there are a few lovely ladies ready to ......(clears his throat ....take that as you will ;) ) "assume the position" and have a good old randy time for a short burst and then go on their way ! There will be others .......... sounds fucking magic to me no mess no fuss no oh does he really care for me ...love me .....will it turn into more .......no ...no ....no ....no ....no ! Hmmmmm I wonder if i could do it in 7 minutes ...... Brae ........ pondering again

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    My god! The gall of the man. You are gorgeous and don't you ever forget it! NEXT!!! Pusscat xxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    and this upsets you? why? wasnt this the arrangement anyway? casual playthings will always leave. its the way of life...

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    and NOW you are not pretty enough? Who the hell does he think he is? He has been abe to get his rocks off without any hassle for 12 years and when it suits him he uses that excuse? Dont listen to him. Selfish sod. I bet he has decided to get married or at least serious and you dont fit in with his new plans. I wonder how long it will take before he finds himself just driving past,just running into you in the supermarket...... After all an enjoyable past time of 11 years is hard to give up.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Got his rocks off for 11 years not 12

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Like, he wants to shake your confidence so you hesitate to replace him? Some people are just plain weird like that, they know they have a good thing going but when they need to move on they want to be the one who's "better off" - they know someone else would take that deal in a snap so to ensure that they come away the winner, they have to keep you down somehow, ya know?Does that make sense? just a thought...xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    well yes that does make sense that he just wanted me down. Funny thing is today he rings and says sorry about yesterday and is it ok if i visit, my reply was . I dont think today is a good idea and maybe next time you will think before you speak have a nice day and i hung up.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'FireWenWet'well yes that does make sense that he just wanted me down. Funny thing is today he rings and says sorry about yesterday and is it ok if i visit, my reply was . I dont think today is a good idea and maybe next time you will think before you speak have a nice day and i hung up. you go girl...you let someone else take 20 mins out of their lives to service his sorry arse made perfect sense CNG and made a very good point...i think now he has rang and wanted more from the lady that "isnt pretty"enough...i think your right roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When will the next nasty comment come, followed by the apology. People who try to erode your confidence are mind fukkas. You are so polite. I possibly would have told him "today is not a good day, and never is the best time for you to call again." I hope you don't allow him back to hurt you again, because the cynic in me says he will. Good luckWTG

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'FireWenWet' well yes that does make sense that he just wanted me down. Funny thing is today he rings and says sorry about yesterday and is it ok if i visit, my reply was . I dont think today is a good idea and maybe next time you will think before you speak have a nice day and i hung up. Go girl! Make the bugger crawl back under your terms!! Better still, make him crawl and but don't take him back.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    He doesn't know how lucky he was. You deserve better.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Come on what is this.. 11 years is an eternity, what do you give him but a 20 minute fuck..How often, once a week, once a month, twice a year????He has moved on, in his view, to better by the sounds of it. Oh then you complain that he is insensitive. It is crazy, you let him treat you as a casual fuck, you use him in the same way. No time to get to know each other in 11 years, no coffees, no cuddles and a movie, no late night chats, no snuggling on cold winter nights, a walk to the park. Just fuck and fuck...You are lucky he said anything at all... Men pay hundreds for 20 minutes and they don't even get to chose .. Move on...

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I am sure that you will be able to find someone else to take you on the road to heaven rather than you going back on the obvious cobblestones he has paved his road with,whether it is just a 20 min wham bam thank you maam or something a litlle less rushed. bothtogether6

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Geez, 11yrs is a long 'life span' for a FB. Maybe it's time to move on for both of you?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sorry 11 years too long fun or not i think, time for some fresh fun I wonder did he maybe start a relationship? and need to make a quick break and the gutless wonder thought being a hurtful ass was the fastest and most final way out, then had second thoughts hence the trying to come back................. food for thought.At any rate his loss i am sure you wont take long to find another man willing to be your 'plaything' good luck and have fun and remember to rotate your plaything every 100ks Mrs GC

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    15 years ago

    Most likely reason both of you went for so long is that both of you didn't had much choice..it was a matter of who gets the choice first..sad but that is how is life...I will be surprised that you didn't knew the end...but yes it makes it feel better to say it out...