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1 out of 5!
November 14 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well Taby - if I was a fit for your profile then I would have made damn sure I caught up with you. Sorry you've had a bad experience in Sydney - not all the guys are like that. Let me know if you want to grab a bite and I'll show you around next time you come down. x
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey taby dont understand how any of them could stand you up you are sexy. dont worry neither that happens with couples also, we have had a few couples like that, talk and chat for weeks and then when the meet nite comes you dont here from them again. K&P
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playfulminx
16 years ago
It's so hard isn't it? You don't want to go for the guys that have their dicks in their hands ready to pounce but it seems sometimes the 'nice' guys that present well end up being soft cocks when push comes to shove. So hard to find a good balance.Taby, you're a gorgeous chick and me thinks that other than bad timing being the case for one or two of the guys, the others just lost the nerve.Keep the faith. Lots of good guys out there and the ones that failed you will be crying into their chicken soup.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think part of that is just bad luck/timing and happens however heres another assessment#1 If he was away he could have at least let you know. Probably didn't occur to him. Bad timing by the sounds of it.#2 How recently did he get the girlfriend...maybe he is keeping options open, maybe he just got the girlfriend in which case bad timing comes in.#3 Unfortunately work gets in the was of person life. Not a lot you can do about that. Unless he is just using tht as an excuse.#4 Guessing he may be married or have a girlfriend and suddenly found himself in a position where you could meet and he couldn't. Or maybe he had other issues going on. Who knows he could have been hit by a bus and in a coma...hard to say.#5 Lucky man and reaps the rewards for his effort, well to a degree since you said you didn't get sex. maybe next time. Let me know when you plan a trip to Newcastle ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
We are twice your age and looking to play with couples above 45 yrs.....we get the same your hit rate of 1 in 5 is pretty good.
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RHP User
16 years ago
So tell me... Were these guys gay? :p how was the rest of your trip? Did you go to any clubs? hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Looks like they're not serious but just talk the talk. Better luck net trip :)ps I go to hervey bay for work quite often... You're more than welcome to come out to dinner with me next time I'm up there :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
well its pretty low i reckon. i think most guys are all talk, when it comes to exposing themselves as vulnerable they wimp out. its the fear of the unknown i guess!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho41'So tell me... Were these guys gay? :p how was the rest of your trip? Did you go to any clubs? hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mya be someitmes the fantasy of a meeting exceeds the reality of it for some. Sounds like you got the full spectrum of types - from the lazy to the two timing. Come to Canberra - we are not fake here!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Taby..how many times have I sent you flirts trying to find out if you're interested in me at all nd I'm still yet to get one reply!!! When you're being pretentious and going for six pack photo's taken off google...wht do you expect. And as for " no sex" ...are you serious?? Look at you...you could get se by clicking your fingers anytime you want.Why do chicks whinge about not getting sex? Try being a guy that looks like me who's trying to meet girls like you and you'll find out how demoralising,soul sapping and frustrating it is to not get sex for a year or two....... Stop being so picky and insecure and start going for guys who are chasing you, not the one's looking for your attention.
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RHP User
16 years ago
And just for the record...if you were my girl...I'd adore you and you'd be the centre of my attention.Think you can handle a guy like that? Affectionate,attentive,compassionate,totally into you....??? It seems you are looking for show ponies who make alot of noise and demand attention.You should look outside the image based box you're chosing to live in and go for a man who does not seek attention and adoration from pretty girls to boost his ego, but a man who just wants a girl will let him adore her and she will treat right.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Join the club Taby....I called talk and talk about WA..guys...pfft..lol.. Hang in there sweety kisses sweetpetite41xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
i dont get it.. seriously when i was going for guys and met a few off here back in the day of being miss_em i never got a knock back or a no show, What the hell has happened to the sex driven males of the world? Are you all now whipped or just lazy?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Geez, some guys just don't know what they are missing out on. Their loss is someone elses gain. I reckon a lot of people (both males and females) chicken out when it comes to actually meeting. If I was to make a arrangement, i'd make sure I showed up. You didn't just turn up out of of the blue and let them know once you arrived did you? Obviously we need a bit of warning so we can make arrangements, but 1 out of 5 is pretty lame.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well how funny is that? I myself was led on by you in that you initially showed interest in me and made first contact but when I showed you my pvt gallery you decided to not even have the courtesy to get back to me and ignored my messages. You may not have liked the way I looked which is ok with me as we all have different tastes but to totally ignore me and then when you finally did acknowledge my message you brushed me off so damn fast it was evident how rude and shallow you were. I doubt many guys would pity you and for those who do, grow a spine!
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RHP User
16 years ago
were've come to understand that some men are not what they say they are, not there pics, not there dick shots, not there anything, so its hard for them to show up, they get off on the chase. So sad , you almost feel sorry for them..almost...BUT there are absolutely men on here that will meet up and rock your world. thankyou......
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am wondering if each of the guys knew that they were one of 5 that you were meeting up with. Everyone likes to feel a little special - not just one in a line. I dont know, but if I assume you were being "open and honest" with all the guys, then you may have told them that you were meeting 4 other guys. They would then think , hmmm, 1 of 5 eh, well she wont mind if I dont show up, shes got another 4. Also since you have fostered these relationships over many months, with emails and phone calls. Each guy assuming that you were very keen on him. And then to find out, "Hey Im 1 in 5" mmmm just dosnt sit right with me somehow. Its a paradox I know, but I think guys want a girl that "is good to go", but they want them for themselves! Maybe next time, dont tell them they are 1 in 5, just talk about you & them. Doesnt mean you cant see another 4 guys, but best if you keep that a little secret from the other 4 guys. Also can I ask, how come if you had dinner with one guy, who is now a very dear friend, how come it didnt go further? Once again I am assuming here, but you look very attractive, and Id say if he went to the trouble of rescheduling work commitments to have dinner with you, then he probably wouldnt of taken much encouragment from you to have some after dinner fun. Maybe you were waiting for him to make the first move, but can I ask, did you at least try a little, or were you quite reserved as well. Understanbe of course, but I was just trying to get a feel for the dinner mood.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've had a smiliar thing to both you and sweet babe, I think it MUST be a confidence thing on their part (Or they're not actually single) after a bad experience with the last guy I did meet on here I'm thinking about just giving up on the whole thing.Although I can't help but laugh at Whitehawk dissing someone for complaining about not finding what they're looking for.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have found when I play as a single girl the more I talk with a guy before hand be that online or over the phone the less likely they are to turn up to meet. Therefore now I make plans after a few messages no msn, no chatting on the phone first just face to face meet, much less time wasters that waymrs scc
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RHP User
16 years ago
thegambler69 - I have no idea what your talking about. You sent me a message saying you wanted to see my private gallery and I looked at your profile, you where not what I was looking for so I said "hi, thanks for the message but your not what im looking for, good luck in your serch". (iv checked the messages I sent you) I said this twice before you got the message that I did not want to show you my private gallery and you where not what I was looking for. So I fail to see how this makes me "rude and shallow " Kinetics - to reply to your post. The guy I ended up going to dinner with is a good friend i have been chatting to him for 2 years on the phone and net. And trust me I tried to get him into bed after dinner hehe but he gave me the "tired" exscuse. though I didnt mind because I know he was very busy with work. Im just happy he made the time to see me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Whitehawk77' Taby..how many times have I sent you flirts trying to find out if you're interested in me at all nd I'm still yet to get one reply!!! When you're being pretentious and going for six pack photo's taken off google...wht do you expect. And as for " no sex" ...are you serious?? Look at you...you could get se by clicking your fingers anytime you want.Why do chicks whinge about not getting sex? Try being a guy that looks like me who's trying to meet girls like you and you'll find out how demoralising,soul sapping and frustrating it is to not get sex for a year or two....... Stop being so picky and insecure and start going for guys who are chasing you, not the one's looking for your attention. Hahahaha Whitehawk are you serious? The poor girl is feeling bad and you sink the boot in more by calling her picky and insecure. Way to go Mr Cool lol real nice way to get to know a girl you have been "chasing" haha For a woman to reply back to you and show interest in you then I am guessing, a wild guess here hahaha, but she has to WANT to get to know you better. Let me guess again but the no reply might mean a few things.. some of could be that a) SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU b) she is busy c) she might not build her life around her rhp inbox hahaha So not cool to insult a girl just because shes not interested in you, she was just expressing her opinion on those she was interested in, give the poor girl a break ffs lol Arggghhh hahahaha Kaito xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
knew there was a reason I wanted to go out last week well now its a case of if onlys and what ifs cant believe that only one out of the 5 I would have met up with you even if I had a mrs just to get a coffee and say gday you know its polite someone made the effort of the trip a coffee wont hurt Well taby next time you are in town let me know
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'thegambler69'Well how funny is that? I myself was led on by you in that you initially showed interest in me and made first contact but when I showed you my pvt gallery you decided to not even have the courtesy to get back to me and ignored my messages. You may not have liked the way I looked which is ok with me as we all have different tastes but to totally ignore me and then when you finally did acknowledge my message you brushed me off so damn fast it was evident how rude and shallow you were. I doubt many guys would pity you and for those who do, grow a spine! Funny she did the same thing to me and when i was even in hervey bay didn't want to catch up with me. Oh well her loss.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Reading all this stuff....well I can't get My head around all the "he sed she sed".....I just look at yr profile pics girl and get totally lost in your eyes..... Maybe I am a shallow old bugger (compared to you) but man you have great, deep dark eyes....like pools of dark sweet honey.....I'd sooner cut off my own (reasonably noice ladeez) dick than stand you up..... So what if you are picky.....so what if you play the game a bit....geesus you are young, as sexy as a melting ice cream on a hot day....I just wonder if there IS a fella out there who is quick enough, smart enough and man enough to catch you..... I suspect there is.....there's one for all of us isn't there ? Man up gentlemen...this is a fine, hot young woman on the vine.....do you have what it takes...? BadDog.
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