M34

1 Year of RHP and Internet Dating

February 16 2025

RHP was suggested to me by a family member as they met their partner through it. They also, told me I'd meet very outgoing people. I was at a point where I was looking to connect with people and have some fun.

Much to my trepidation I decided to give it a go and see if I have any luck with it.

Unfortunately, luck wasn't very much on my side.

At least 90% of the women I messaged ghosted me.

As for the 10% that did reply to me, after spending time to getting to know them they would eventually send me a message saying "Sorry the timing is really bad for me." Which to be honest did knock my confidence and felt I did something wrong.

However, I persevered. I tried the forums to have conversations with others about anything, that didn't work out either.

I tried updating my profile in every single aspect. Again, no luck either,

I did connect with one amazing person the only downside is they live in Queensland but I know we will meet eventually.

I have come to the conclusion that it won't matter what site I will try next but because of selfish men who decide to send D*** Pics and abusive messages the women they have made them feel cautious about checking their inbox and I don't blame them at all.

It's a shame because it makes genuine guys like myself lives much harder to be able to stand out in the cesspool that is known as internet dating.

I am hoping that this year my luck will change and maybe things will work out on RHP.

All I can do is be myself and go with the flow.

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SwayzeAndSpicy
a month ago
This is a well written breakdown. Gives everyone a clear idea of your experience.
Did you ever go the paid membership route? If so what level and did you notice a difference?
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Ex007
a month ago
There are a couple of great people I follow on social media who have great teachings and advice about relationships.

Check them out if you're open to some personal development and relationship education.

Jake Woodard
David Lea
Stuart Irons
Sadia Khan
Jimmy Knowles

Good luck on your life journey

Ex🐈‍⬛🤗
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Chico36
a month ago
It is alot harder for guys I guess , I guess for women we screen profiles and well for me want to have a conversation first before actually going to meet the person ...dunno about other women but just totally puts me off is when they send a dick pic without having to introduce themselves first in the conversation...I just block em ...I know there are genuine good guys , like you said just go with the flow 👌
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boobsandbusted
a month ago
Imo any other pic in your gallery is better ,actually than your choice of profile one ,am genuinely curious why you have that one as the pic ,you may like something about it ,but to a person just scrolling aimlessly past it’s a shit pic nothing in it to slow the traffic down at all Or make anyone one think hmmm he is nice ,I might look closer at his profile

Mr b
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One4Unow
a month ago
What? You can’t get a root so it’s every other guys fault? Hello!!!
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MsSuperFoxy
a month ago
HUMMMMM! You are seeking "NO Strings attached" and also state "Lets make the most of it". A lot of women will read that as a coerce line, where there's absolutely no effert put in. It's a boring, tedious line. Just about every male profile on here has that. So therefore, You are in competition.

Ms Foxy
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