Lots of sex doesn't necessarily mean it's good sex - even good sex needs something spicy occasionally to keep it current and exciting. Share what works, what doesn't. Learn about erotic intelligence and how that shows up in t he nervous system and physical body. How to know if your partner has checked out, faking it, getting it over with quickly, and how to avoid this. Learn if you are really making her squirt or banging on her bladder instead. Where her erectile tissue is and how to know if she's erect and ready or still flaccid and tolerating. Why they may not honest with you or forward with what they want in the bedroom.