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There is nothing better than having that confidence to strip down into the buff and not care who is looking. For the majority of us stripping down, can be a bit scary.

But learning to be comfortable and confident in your body is an invaluable effort for many reasons.

You start to have more fun and feel hot again. Feeling hot and having fun are the very fabric of the lifestyle. Having confidence is EVERYTHING

Here’s some suggestions on how to feel as hot as possible while naked.The following tips and tricks will reset your mind's eye into thinking sexy and hot...

Look around you at real-life couples/singles

Do some people watching and let real life bodies tell you the 'real' story.

Real life people come in all shapes and sizes. There are voluptuous women matching up with buff blokes. Thin waif girls with beefy fellas and tall blokes with short girls, because when you really look around real-life people, you'll see we are all imperfect in our own way. 

Which comes to prove that:

. people are attracted to all kinds, which means

                                      . all kinds of people are attractive.

Now to get you to strut your stuff butt naked and loving it. Follow these invaluable tips and nobody would guess that sometimes you don't feel as hot as you look...

Spend some time with your naked self

The first step to looking and feeling your best naked, is to spend some quality time with yourself in the buff. Or if you want to ease into it, strip down to your underwear.

Look at yourself naked in the mirror, yeah, the harsh critic inside your head, is going to come out and tell you to put your clothes back on. STOP, don't listen to that arrogant critic who doesn't know how to have fun!

Catch a glimpse of yourself naked again and again and in time you'll notice a change - you'll be less critical of your naked self. And eventually you'll be looking at your best assets and feeling good about your naked body.

Go to a nudist beach

Next challenge - go to a nudist beach and see how good it feels to just lay there naked. Meanwhile get a tan, when you look at yourself next in the mirror, the warmer skin tone will hide some skin imperfections like spider veins and stretch marks. Your new skin tone along with your new gained confidence will make you a changed person, you'll feel sexy, hot and ready for some action.

Be patient, it takes time

There will be days where you see the sexy vixen you know you are, and then there will be days when all you see is your imperfections. Be patient, it takes time.

Avoid foods that bloat you

You've come a long way and tonight you're going to a swingers party. There are foods you should avoid pre-naked time. Food that makes you feel bloated and the usual suspects are, salty food or processed food, artificial sugar, and soda, as well as too many carbs or legumes. Learn how your body reacts to different food.

Exfoliate and moisturize as often as you can

Before you go out to meet a new 'fun-friend' or go to a swingers' party invest time in making your skin look and smell beautiful. It adds to your confidence when you're naked and others will have a hard time keeping their hands off of you.

Exercise

Before a big date or night out, do a mini circuit.  It'll perk your muscles and it'll give you a confidence boost.

Five minutes before you get in the shower, do 10 squats, 10 sumo lunges, and 10 push-ups. You'll feel firmer and more confident, and stand taller.

These steps will help you gain confidence and settle into this new version of yourself. The way you feel about your body will be transparent to others, when you feel confident and sexy the vibe resonates. 

Feeling and looking sexy is something you do.

Confidence is sexy. Feeling sexy is sexy.  Having sex is sexy.

Do you have any tricks or tips that you put into practice to make yourself feel and look great about your body? Please share with us in the comment below.