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Sure, it is easy to doubt our appearance, our body shape, the imperfections and wobbly bits. But one of the biggest factors of feeling sexy when getting naked is confidence in the sack. 

Being confident in the sack is knowing your worth, trusting your abilities and what you are bringing into the bedroom. 

Think back on what sex was like when you were young… Bet you are saying: “If only I knew what I know now!” Although your body was at its prime, your experience in the sack and your knowledge of your turn-ons was still developing. While sex may be the ultimate goal, it is what you bring into it that makes for a great experience.

Ditch your body image issues because young or old and regardless of gender, we all have body image issues. Focus on your life learned sexual lessons and express your normal, healthy sexual appetites. Boost your confidence in the knowledge that your sexual abilities make you desirable and sexy. Most men will prefer a less-than-perfect shaped woman who knows what she wants in bed and loves sex over a perfectly shaped youthful woman who is clueless about her turn ons and her sexuality.

It's logical then that investing time on our confidence is key. Confidence is something you practice. Check out our tips, for a few things you can do to boost your self-esteem before the clothes come off.

Compliment Yourself 

Every day as you’re getting ready, make a note of what you like about yourself. It could be your breasts, your face, your lips, your legs, your round booty or your hair. This is a great way to shift focus on the positives rather than the flaws. 

Another way to gain confidence and get more comfortable with your body is to spent time naked. So, next time you’re alone try it out. Get naked and get comfortable in your own skin, which will bring about body positivity. Of course, satisfaction with one's body might take time but disrobing might speed the process. 

Make yourself look sexy

You don’t have to spend hours getting ready, but before you head out, put on your favourite lipstick, wear your favourite high heels, maybe style your hair, wear clothes you feel great in or wear some sexy lingerie. You’ll feel ready when you bump into that sexy hottie or dash out for a quick meet with your date you hooked up on DateFinder. Whatever you do, do it for you because it makes you feel sexy, slutty, beautiful and sensual. 

Fake it till you make it

Seriously, pretend you feel sexy and confident until you do. Make eye contact with an attractive man, hold your gaze for a while and smile. Be bold and ask that hottie out for a drink. Strut around with head up high and shoulders back just like the confident woman you picture yourself to be. Time to let that confident woman out of the shadows.

Spend quality solo time

Masturbate often, in the bath or when you first wake up. Invest in a toy, catch up on some erotic reading or watch some porn. Get that sensual aura to be more present and learn what turns you on. Picture yourself in sexual scenarios that you want to make reality one day. Get your sexy hormones pumping through your veins and naughty thoughts permeating your mind and watch your confidence and sex life go through the roof. Get in touch with your sexual self and you'll ooze sensuality in your everyday life - something that is irresistible to others around you.

Focus on what is sexy

Do you wonder why some hotties choose what you might think are less -than-perfect partners? That’s because a large majority of men prefer a woman who knows what she wants in bed, who enjoys sex and knows her way around the sack, over someone who is beautiful. Looks aren’t everything, so stop worrying about your imperfect body and focus on your sexy confidence.

What makes you feel confident in the sack? Let us know in the comments below.