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Are we looking at threesomes all the wrong way?
Christina Miller | October 27 2015
7 Reasons To Have A MFM Threesome Tonight
For a lot of couples in the swinging lifestyle, it all started out with the desire to have a threesome, specifically a 3way with another girl. Couples who wanted to find a second girl to fulfill either the man's fantasy of having two women at the same time, or the woman to explore her bi-side.
This is not the easiest fantasy to have fulfilled - the chase of the elusive 'unicorn'. It's not a secret that the willing, single women couples fantasise about are a rarity but not an impossibility altogether. There are single women out there willing to do threesomes but not enough for all the couples wishing to have it happen to them. Or more important, the way they envisage the fantasy to happen. Too focused on their own needs, they forget to consider the third party wishes, desires, boundaries and expectations.
However, why are couples obsessing over a threesome that involves only a single woman? This is often leads to very good opportunities being cast aside. Are we looking at 3way all the wrong way?
For couples and women who are interested in experiencing sex with more than one person, maybe inviting a single man and changing the FFM to MFM threesome is what a lot of couples have been missing out on. Cultural attitudes toward sex, sexual identity and relationships changed, and therefore it is time to broaden the way we look at threesomes.
House of Cards, on Netflix, or the TV series made waves last year when Claire Underwood (Robin Wright) and her husband, Francis (Kevin Spacey), seduced a handsome young Secret Service agent. Propelling the move away from the traditional threesome to be typically as two women and a man. The trend has been set in motion, so let's jump the bandwagon and enjoy what seems to be the easier 'unicorn' to catch.
Here are the top 7 reasons why a MFM threesome might just be the thing for you as a couple exploring your sexuality:
A huge advantage with MFM type of threesomes are that women seem to suffer from less insecurities, such as comparing themselves to the other girl, or whether her man likes the new girl better. It allows the woman to learn to focus on her pleasure rather than on her insecurities. Too often women's pleasures falls to the wayside on the priority list, but in a MFM her pleasure is at the center.Another advantage of MFM threesome is if your lady has a great sexual drive, two men might be more satisfying. She can consider new exciting possibilities that can only be achieved through having sex with two men, such as DP, hotwifing and cuckolding. Sure men can suffer from performance anxiety in front of other males. Realistically, today that barrier is not a big factor, in view of today's more relaxed attitudes to sex and relationship dynamics. Couples in general are more liberal in their thinking and are not offended or shocked at some MM interaction.
Which brings us to this point. There is a lot of curiosity with MM interaction and what better way to fulfill your guy's bi-side. For many straight people, a threesome is the first place they experience same-sex erotic contact. This can be incredibly exciting and liberating.
Most men would find it difficult to please two women at the same time. Unless you are a man with a great drive in which a FFM is ideal for you and also ideal for women in relationships that want to explore their bi-side. Women in general are capable of having several orgasms and each has a different sensation - clitoral, vaginal, multiple orgasms, squirting orgasm and g-spot orgasms, the many reasons why women can handle multiple men at once.
The other great thing about a MFM threesome is that it's waaaay easier to put together than the other kind. Sure, you can run the risk of the boner proximity issue, but in today's changed and relaxed sexual attitudes this isn't an issue anymore.
In many ways having threesomes that involve two men and one woman will teach the woman to find her pleasure, focus on her pleasure and also relax about issues of insecurities and jealousy. Experiencing first hand what it truly means to share an experience with her partner that enriches their relationship. Maybe MFM for many women is a stepping stone to a FFM, as they learn that threesomes are nothing than a sexual explorations and not a threat to a well established relationship.
Last, there's something sexy about a confident, sensual woman who is capable of handling two men at the same time.
These are only a few good reason to try a MFM threesome, but there are probably many more that could be listed. If you have anymore to add let us know in the comments below
Comments
lovetoshare
30 Nov 2019
I couldn’t agree more ????
N4November
29 Nov 2019
Nine. ??
colcol3
11 Nov 2015
Great article. I have admitted few MFM, liked and enjoyed it. I always wanted to make sure lady's satisfaction. Both male discuss what his wife like and make her happy at the end. Thank you
trypilot
10 Nov 2015
My dream is to find a devoted , dedicated, reliable woman who would enjoy the hotwife lifestyle with me ! A woman whom we each are deeply in love, best friends, one who has the mental capacity to separate love from sex ! Sex should be nothing but fun, love is completely separate.
trypilot
10 Nov 2015
My most favorite scenario, nothing better than the visual and physical experience of a woman being placed in the center of attention with a total focus on her pleasure. Selfish of me perhaps, but the biggest arousal I get is viewing and being a part of a woman in exctacy
latinlover6169
10 Nov 2015
We have only ever had MFM threesomes and love watching my wife pleasured this way.Maybe one day will get to enjoy the company of another woman or couple but until then MFM just fine Happy wife happy life
sweet_cherry69
09 Nov 2015
Interesting cmments and article. Have not ticked off my bucket list the MFM with my fwb male friends but it's definitely up there to do in the near future 🍒 Cheers Rach
sparklewithus
09 Nov 2015
It is so tasty to be sandwiched between two masculine bodies
Gr8playM8s
09 Nov 2015
My (Fem) comments: My partner introduced me to the concept of MFM and nurtured my understanding on how the true experience should be. All of the points you have made here were all benefits that we talked about. The most important part of the experience as he pointed out to me is that it is all about the woman’s pleasure, which should be the focus for the guys. Prior to his nurturing of my understanding of this, my concept of the scenario was very different. Having now experienced a few MMF’s I can say I thoroughly enjoy our MFM playtime and the added bonus for me is that it is such a turn on seeing how much pleasure my partner gets from seeing me really enjoying myself with our guest.
Gr8playM8s
09 Nov 2015
My partner was not very keen on MFM action when we started. But after explaining my vision of what it should be about, Which was almost exactly as written in the article, she is completely turned around and enjoys two guys totally focused on her pleasure very much. I would not be classed as a cuckold but do enjoy watching her receiving pleasure from a guy she is turned on by.
DOT007
09 Nov 2015
Sounds good to me.. Please help with the term Hotwifing ??
lookintoplay_qld
09 Nov 2015
mfm has been great for us every one has fun we enjoy watching each other met some nice people playing as well great fun to be had
1wanting2b2
09 Nov 2015
😉👍👍
sparklewithus
09 Nov 2015
MFM has been amazing for us both sexually & relationship wise. A HotWife enjoying all that pleasure is a site to behold.
funmelbcouple4u
09 Nov 2015
Both options have worked for us. It is however much easier to snaffle another guy at short notice than another woman. Our ratio is maybe 4xMFM to each MFF.
James2joinu
09 Nov 2015
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PL1963
09 Nov 2015
Yes, I think point 7 is very true, that's why lot's of us get off on MMF/Cuckold etc, the need to see a look of "Total Unbridled Pleasure" of a loved one's face. And the fact that your lady has "permission to discover" and that may awaken long buried desires in her Mind & Body. Cheers Paul.
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