So should you

August 08 2024

Send a nice message to start, or should you just send a message asking to hook up and get dirty

Comments

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    5 months ago

    Whilst this may be considered a “sex site” by many, it is best (in our opinion) to take a gentle respectful approach when contacting others / sending unsolicited messages to others.

    Behave and approach as you would in the supermarket, bar, restaurant etc.

    The “hot pics wanna fuck ??”( laden with penis photos ) message really is a turn off for most people - one needs only look back and read through the many past forum posts to see what people find acceptable or not.

  • Flirtydancer

    Flirtydancer

    5 months ago

    How about read someone's profile and get a gauge of what type of message they are likely to reply to. Seems like common sense to me 🤷‍♀️

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 months ago

    Who in their right mind would send a message asking to get dirty first up ? All it does is tell the reciever who to block ?

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    5 months ago

    Don’t know?! Which of those would you choose to say chatting up a lady in a pub? Which do you think might work?

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    5 months ago

    Common sense not so common.
    Hot tip, the women on here are no different to women in real life.

  • Alexis

    Alexis

    5 months ago

    I always prefer to be ignored for sending a nice message rather than asking to hook up and get dirty.

  • Lovinglifenow202

    Lovinglifenow202

    5 months ago

    Depends on the type of woman you're looking for right

  • Inflation

    Inflation

    5 months ago

    Show some class, show some decorum, and be yourself.

  • AshAndPaul

    AshAndPaul

    5 months ago

    How about read the profile, have a chat in the room feel the vibes and then see where you think it could go.

  • 2_Perthguys

    2_Perthguys

    5 months ago

    Being respectful and polite is always a good way to start. How would you even know if they want to hook up without actually finding out if you might be what they're looking for.

  • RachWandered

    RachWandered

    5 months ago

    Echoing what everyone has sensibly said… read profiles properly, see what people want and go from there.
    Hot tip … if the profile doesn’t say “hey message me about how you want to eat my pussy for days” then you really should take that to mean they don’t want you to lead with that.

    I usually message first and always lead with an awkward “hi”…

    But I have thought about leading with

    “heyyyyy sexi hot pics! How cum you’re still single? How about we meet and I can swallow your cock for hours and hours until you can’t take it anymore…”

    😂😂

    I think I’m a bit funny

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    5 months ago

    occasionly on rhp ,you read a post ,that automatically makes you think ,good one dickhead! , and because of the positive comments banner above ,I will follow it accordinglyand ,I will not say this is one of those posts ,but your inspingly close ,well done you 😀😀😀😀

  • TheMinx

    TheMinx

    5 months ago

    You can't lead with the first if you are really after the 2nd.
    So chicks are thirsty and DTF others need more than you are offering.

    Looking at your profile I'm not sure any messages would work.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    5 months ago

    Just be you. That will attract the crowd you like.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 months ago

    Unpopular opinion.
    Just get to the point of what your actual agenda is. You'll either get a stilletto thrown at you or a vagina or penis. IDK Tho you could probably use Ai to format a better vocab for yourself. Add some thought provoking clout to your "hook up and get dirty"

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 months ago

    Ahoy fellow piefaces, this is a tough one .. great topic as I'm a newbie and often find it difficult to start up as an immature flirt or a Don professor GM style. I've tried both and let me tell ya it's early days but I haven't as yet gotten any reactions of no kind. So please let us have some of that pimp juice like a boss.

  • False_mirror

    False_mirror

    5 months ago

    I haven't been on this site long, but I've ALWAYS started politely but giving the girl a compliment too.

    The responses seem to appreciate it...when they respond.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 months ago

    Wanna root, might work. 😋

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    5 months ago

    Are there rules for this? I reckon you ought to run with how you’re feeling in the moment. If someone is feeling the same way, they may well have the same attitude. If all you ever do is be true to yourself, I can’t imagine circumstances that require you to pretend to be someone else.

  • Queencobra

    Queencobra

    5 months ago

    I can usually get a vibe about a persons intent or "Mating style" within the 2nd or 3rd message exchange! People either have a sense of humor / respectful and show some type of social self awareness in their communication are people that have catch my attention and deserve a message back! '
    And then I go from there.
    I cannot understand why some guys say and do the things they do lol the dic pics and cheesy sex talk isn't not a turn on at all.
    For me it's about a vibe

  • Sidders

    Sidders

    5 months ago

    Read the profile and gauge it from that , when we had a couples account we’d always reply to the genuine messages and to those that had clearly read our bio .

  • TheTwoYouSeek

    TheTwoYouSeek

    5 months ago

    Think of it from the ladies point of view. She very likely gets dozens of messages per day. If you want to stand out and not be “invisible”, you need to make your first message appealing. Writing about yourself, and keeping it above the waistline until you’ve had a response and gauge the room temp. Never send nudes until agreed. Make sure your public pics are good. No toilet views, scrunched up undies, no fishing pics. A nice waist up dressed shot or if you’ve got a good chest, show it.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 months ago

    "Lovely shoes want to play!" Never works lol :)

  • Thesunlovingsub

    Thesunlovingsub

    4 months ago

    Blank or lazy bios are an immediate no for me.

    Put some effort into your pics and bios so people can get a sense of you first.

    This might help!

  • Frankiesgame

    Frankiesgame

    4 months ago

    I alwaysgo by the old "hello, how are you?" Maybe I need to lift my game!